Any one have diet demolishers

heatherdoll40

My husband noticed I lost weight. He knows that I need to lose the exess and gain endurance with exersize for a heathier life so I don't end up wheeling around in some kind of wheel chair with an oxygen tank, but he always does weird things that make me think he is trying desprately to destroy my diet.
Like the first week I started he took me to lunch at A&W. Tonight he brought me a soda, I don't drink them anymore, since I set it down he brought me something else.
Or is he just too self centered to even remeber that this is important for me?
How do you deal with the "well meaning " but completely clueless members of your family and friends?

Ley2ndtry

the way i see it is this is on your mind all the time because you're making a life change but they aren't because its not their life choice so it'll take a while for them to get used to it and for them to break their routines in regards to your new policies.

my husband still brings home chocolate and crisps as a treat for me, he's genuinely trying to be nice and lovely but forgets that if they are in the house its hard for me to say no!