Again! who is single here?
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I've been single for 7 years now and I hate it.0
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Single!!!0
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Still as single as a few weeks ago0
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I'm not single... I'm independently owned and operated.
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Love it.0 -
Single, and great at it! But would quite like that to change.
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Being 'single' isn't a bad thing. I'm in a commited relationship w/God, He's my ROCK! He sends me flowers every spring..thinks about me every second of His day..knows me better than anyone, & still loves me even though I'm not perfect..& it's been the BEST relationship I've ever had. The right person will come along when it's meant to happen. 1 day @ a time. BEST OF LUCK TO ALL OF YOU IN YOUR WEIGHT LOSS!!! I'm so proud of my MFP friends for all the inches you have lost! YOU ARE ALL WONDERFUL PEOPLE & I'M SUPER HAPPY TO KNOW YOU (regardless of your relationship status, lol)! *hugs & love* ~Sarrah0
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Newly single as of last week. Starting to realize what a bullet I dodged by getting out of that!!0
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Just looking for the right person, not just anyone ;-)0
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Single! Someone should set up a MFP night. It would be cool to meet MFP friends in person (that live nearby, obviously)0
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Newly single. Just got out of a bad 6.5 year relationship n i have never been happier... & more sane... in my life. )
I'd like to hear this from a guy's perspective too! I think you need to answer your own question, Critical!!
I can answer that.
Trust. Frienship. HONESTY. COMMUNICATION. Similar goals/desires in life. Attraction/Good sex (gotta be compatible).
These things are fluid...sometimes one becomes more important than the other...other times it will be something else. But they are all mandatory really.0 -
Newly single. Just got out of a bad 6.5 year relationship n i have never been happier... & more sane... in my life. )
I'd like to hear this from a guy's perspective too! I think you need to answer your own question, Critical!!
I can answer that.
Trust. Frienship. HONESTY. COMMUNICATION. Similar goals/desires in life. Attraction/Good sex (gotta be compatible).
These things are fluid...sometimes one becomes more important than the other...other times it will be something else. But they are all mandatory really.0 -
Newly single. Just got out of a bad 6.5 year relationship n i have never been happier... & more sane... in my life. )
I'd like to hear this from a guy's perspective too! I think you need to answer your own question, Critical!!
I can answer that.
Trust. Frienship. HONESTY. COMMUNICATION. Similar goals/desires in life. Attraction/Good sex (gotta be compatible).
These things are fluid...sometimes one becomes more important than the other...other times it will be something else. But they are all mandatory really.
It's just the truth hun...lol.
Now, if only I could find someone who fit all eight criteria....I'd be set, lol. I should have added a ninth though...that being integrity. I've never quit on a relationship in my life...and believe me...that sucks a WHOLE lot more than it sounds.
Anyway, on a related note...here's an exercise I learned years and years ago. Spend a couple days...being brutally honest with yourself...and consider what it would be like to date...yourself. Think about your actions throughout the day as an outsider looking in. Are you honest...clingy...distant...? Do you tell many little white lies to get through the day? Are you available...both emotionally and physically...? Do you keep promises (any time you say you'll do something, its an implied promise)? Are you selfish...even in small things? How do you spend your time? Are you generous...both with that time, as well as emotionally? Do you put others before yourself? Are you true to your own personal morals? Would those morals be acceptable to others?
Basically, what exactly does it mean...to be you...?...and is that person really worth being with...?
Man, I need to stop posting when I can't sleep lol...0 -
It's just the truth hun...lol.
Now, if only I could find someone who fit all eight criteria....I'd be set, lol. I should have added a ninth though...that being integrity. I've never quit on a relationship in my life...and believe me...that sucks a WHOLE lot more than it sounds.
Anyway, on a related note...here's an exercise I learned years and years ago. Spend a couple days...being brutally honest with yourself...and consider what it would be like to date...yourself. Think about your actions throughout the day as an outsider looking in. Are you honest...clingy...distant...? Do you tell many little white lies to get through the day? Are you available...both emotionally and physically...? Do you keep promises (any time you say you'll do something, its an implied promise)? Are you selfish...even in small things? How do you spend your time? Are you generous...both with that time, as well as emotionally? Do you put others before yourself? Are you true to your own personal morals? Would those morals be acceptable to others?
Basically, what exactly does it mean...to be you...?...and is that person really worth being with...?
Man, I need to stop posting when I can't sleep lol...
This is brilliant! I'm definitely going to go through a thorough self-dianosis now before my next serious relationship Thanks for posting this!0 -
That was an excellent post Cris!
I've kinda been going through that myself recently...0 -
Good for you! I"m not single but have many days I wish I was!0
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great post Cris0
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That sounds interesting. I'm going to try it too0
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Single... but nothing is permanent:)0
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single as one can be0
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single as one can be0
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Single. Come at me broz.0
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Single. Sometimes ok...Sometimes not.0
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Not single, just nosy...0
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That would be me0
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Riding solo ;P0
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Single0
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Single and sometimes wonder if I will always be. :ohwell:0
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SOMEONE PLEASE DEFINE THE TERM SINGLE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! this have been an ongoing debate in my house for the last 6 years !
OK so if you live with someone than your not single RIGHT?
OR............................................
If your with someone but NOT MARRIED are you considered single????
Dear God my head is spinning right now !! LOL0 -
Single and sometimes wonder if I will always be. :ohwell:
STOP THAT CRAZY TALK !!! you are awesome ! and its just a matter of time before someone scoops you up Carl !0 -
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