I have a crush!

syiyi
syiyi Posts: 341 Member
edited September 29 in Chit-Chat
but my friend is younger than me! :/ Should age be a problem :(

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  • anthony438
    anthony438 Posts: 578 Member
    No-
  • xSophia19
    xSophia19 Posts: 1,536 Member
    I have a secret crush on Peter Andre!:heart: and hes like 20 years ish older than me!

    Sorrry thats just random! :tongue:
  • thebuxompilgrim
    thebuxompilgrim Posts: 53 Member
    Not unless it's illegal.
  • MondaysChild81
    MondaysChild81 Posts: 158 Member
    I have a new crush on Michael C Hall (Dexter)!
  • FitFrenchGirl
    FitFrenchGirl Posts: 177
    No age doesnt matter.. i love older guys and people think im weird or well!
  • RedBullLiz
    RedBullLiz Posts: 469 Member
    No. Never. Age shouldn't be a problem. Society makes it look wrong to be with someone younger/older than ourselves. Yeah, it looks interesting to see it in public but feels great. Right?? I've always loved being someone that was no where near my age.
  • BethanyMasters
    BethanyMasters Posts: 519 Member
    As long as the person is legal . . .
  • JEK717
    JEK717 Posts: 1,497
    Haha me too....i hope not! Lol jk....pretty sure that is normal.
  • syiyi
    syiyi Posts: 341 Member
    He wont tell me his age I just assume that he is around 18-19 :/
  • kamm602
    kamm602 Posts: 18
    If he is not being honest with you now then he may not be trustworthy... watch out!!! But to me I realize age is not an issue for the most part.
  • ziggiezed
    ziggiezed Posts: 36
    I have a crush on a certain man, do not wish to post his name and have actually been with him and see him all the time.
    But have been haunted by a question i fear to ask him. Once when i spent time with this man we were out and drinking afterwards we ended up alone and he exposed supposely feelings that he may have had, such as really liking me & blah blah blah.
    My point is i am scared to death to ask him if what he said he really ment or was the alcohol vomitting whatever came to mind.
    Ppl always say a drunk mind tell no tails. But that isn't always true.
    What should i do? ask or leave it be?
  • Penguinita
    Penguinita Posts: 159 Member
    Not unless it's illegal.

    Lol I agree with ^ as an answer for the original question, its been a few days. Out of curiosity, whats the status? Did you decide age was an issue or not? :)

    For Ziggiezed,
    If he already confessed feelings, and you're sure this is who you wanna start a relationship then go for it! I find that from experience (and tons of psychological classes during my undergrad) that liquid courage is a bunch of bull, its the same effect that people get from placebos. I hope this helps! :D
  • syiyi
    syiyi Posts: 341 Member
    LOL!! I think age matters. So I'm going to suck it up and move on! thx everyone :glasses:
  • ziggiezed
    ziggiezed Posts: 36
    @ syiyi I 100% agree with your choice if he is hiding something as simple as his age only god knows what he will hide that is more serious then getting old.
    kick him to the curb!!!!!!!
  • brewingaz
    brewingaz Posts: 1,136 Member
    He wont tell me his age I just assume that he is around 18-19 :/

    You're at what? 55? 60? Nothing awkward about that.
  • sarah44254
    sarah44254 Posts: 3,078 Member
    He wont tell me his age I just assume that he is around 18-19 :/

    right here. move on. :)
  • Heather75
    Heather75 Posts: 3,386 Member
    He wont tell me his age I just assume that he is around 18-19 :/

    right here. move on. :)

    Yup. He is either 14 or 39.
  • Contrary03
    Contrary03 Posts: 289 Member
    One of life's most important lessons - NEVER 'Assume' anything!:wink:
  • writtenINthestars
    writtenINthestars Posts: 1,933 Member
    I have a crush on a certain man, do not wish to post his name and have actually been with him and see him all the time.
    But have been haunted by a question i fear to ask him. Once when i spent time with this man we were out and drinking afterwards we ended up alone and he exposed supposely feelings that he may have had, such as really liking me & blah blah blah.
    My point is i am scared to death to ask him if what he said he really ment or was the alcohol vomitting whatever came to mind.
    Ppl always say a drunk mind tell no tails. But that isn't always true.
    What should i do? ask or leave it be?


    ASK!!! I'd rather know, good or bad, than to not have ever asked at all!!!:flowerforyou:
  • writtenINthestars
    writtenINthestars Posts: 1,933 Member
    He wont tell me his age I just assume that he is around 18-19 :/

    right here. move on. :)

    Yup. He is either 14 or 39.

    This!!!
  • nursenelson
    nursenelson Posts: 295
    He wont tell me his age I just assume that he is around 18-19 :/

    You're at what? 55? 60? Nothing awkward about that.

    HAHA Awesome! :)
  • syiyi
    syiyi Posts: 341 Member
    @ syiyi I 100% agree with your choice if he is hiding something as simple as his age only god knows what he will hide that is more serious then getting old.
    kick him to the curb!!!!!!!

    LOL!!! ;)
  • syiyi
    syiyi Posts: 341 Member
    One of life's most important lessons - NEVER 'Assume' anything!:wink:

    :wink: thx
  • katkins3
    katkins3 Posts: 1,359 Member
    Age isn't necessarily a problem. I was 45 when I married my 30 year old husband.. We've been married 16 years and age has never been a problem. I'm 61 now and he's 46, no one has ever even mentioned the age difference.
  • syiyi
    syiyi Posts: 341 Member
    Age isn't necessarily a problem. I was 45 when I married my 30 year old husband.. We've been married 16 years and age has never been a problem. I'm 61 now and he's 46, no one has ever even mentioned the age difference.

    congrats!! sometimes age only matters to those who are afraid! lol!! and I'm.. :indifferent:
  • RoadDog
    RoadDog Posts: 2,946 Member
    My parole officer has pointed out that age can play a significant role in my "crushes".
  • writtenINthestars
    writtenINthestars Posts: 1,933 Member
    My parole officer has pointed out that age can play a significant role in my "crushes".



    :laugh:
  • syiyi
    syiyi Posts: 341 Member
    My parole officer has pointed out that age can play a significant role in my "crushes".



    LOL!!
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