Pick-Up Specialist

Random_Name

So last night at the bars, a beautiful girl asked for my number*. But since I was a little intoxicated, I didn't think to also get hers. Whoops.

While I could let it go and be at the mercy of her drunken interest, I do know her last name. Should I send her a Facebook friend request and try to pursue a second get-together?

To put some context, she definitely would've gone home with me if she didn't have her pack of girlfriends to say, "We need to get you home," etc. Not that I am a creeper or anything like that. But I was definitely in.

Thanks for the thoughts.



* Not entirely unexpected, as I am a beautiful man.

Lisone

send the Fbook request! You never know what will or could happen until you try... she could be your future wife!! Who knows.. Go for it.

tiffanygil

I'm really not sure what to say to this as I'm irritated at all pick up specialist at this point...so unless you are willing to be a nice person and take this girl out on a real date and not try to have sex with her just because you can....no don't pursue anything but better game. If you really want to get to know this girl better yeah i would facebook her.

portexploit

No, you do nothing. This girl tries to pick up a drunk guy? WHat are her standards, what are yours? She's more than likely no good. Get rid of her.

halobender

I guess it really depends on how you happened by her last name.

But in general I would say "No, that sounds creepertastic."

(And to echo the above, of course only an undesirable woman would ever pick up on a man ... Wait ...)

ket_the_jet

Normally I'd say listen to the lovely ladies, but this time I'll say learn your lesson for not getting her number as well and hope she calls. If you really want, wait until Wednesday and send the Facebook request. Say you're bored at work and you were thinking about the fun that you [probably?] had at the bars.

Hopefully I've left enough excess charisma in this thread for you to get your girl.
-wtk

Penguinita

So last night at the bars, a beautiful girl asked for my number*. But since I was a little intoxicated, I didn't think to also get hers. Whoops.

While I could let it go and be at the mercy of her drunken interest, I do know her last name. Should I send her a Facebook friend request and try to pursue a second get-together?

To put some context, she definitely would've gone home with me if she didn't have her pack of girlfriends to say, "We need to get you home," etc. Not that I am a creeper or anything like that. But I was definitely in.

Thanks for the thoughts.



* Not entirely unexpected, as I am a beautiful man.

Just get her number if you see her at that bar again. Otherwise its a little creepy. Sorry

ladyerin79

:noway: Sounds like you're still intoxicated. Or maybe that's your inflated ego. I agree with the above poster that asked about your standards (and hers). There are other ways to meet and date women instead of picking them up at a bar and trying to get laid. :huh:

Andythefitfamilyman

wow, that is the most cocky thing i have ever read on here. i agree with the other posters you are very creepy and only looking for some tail. Treat women with respect.

Random_Name

I guess it really depends on how you happened by her last name.

Like this: She said, "How would you pronounce [this particular last name]?"

Doesn't get easier than that, right?

As for standards, I'm young and a guy. I didn't say that I wanted this to be "the one." I just said that I wouldn't mind casually "seeing" a model for a few times before moving on with my life when things become ennui. But that's not a joke...she is a model. And I haven't had a model in a while.

halobender

Whoa, OK, so the guy does sound pompous and stuff, but if two people meet in a bar and want to shag, that's their business, not yours.

You can't say "treat women with respect" if they're literally asking for a fling (unless they're drunk and the person in question acts on that impulse ... Consent when not inebriated to a one night tryst is acceptable).

Now, OP, if you're actually 35, I would suggest perhaps growing up a little. Seriously, picking people up through Facebook? Lame.

Andythefitfamilyman

Whoa, OK, so the guy does sound pompous and stuff, but if two people meet in a bar and want to shag, that's their business, not yours.

You can't say "treat women with respect" if they're literally asking for a fling (unless they're drunk and the person in question acts on that impulse ... Consent when not inebriated to a one night tryst is acceptable).

Now, OP, if you're actually 35, I would suggest perhaps growing up a little. Seriously, picking people up through Facebook? Lame.

He put it on a public forum, and i do consider it my business when someone treats women like play things. I have a daughter and if she ever met a DB like this, i would make sure he would nice long visit in the hospital

portexploit

I guess it really depends on how you happened by her last name.

Like this: She said, "How would you pronounce [this particular last name]?"

Doesn't get easier than that, right?

As for standards, I'm young and a guy. I didn't say that I wanted this to be "the one." I just said that I wouldn't mind casually "seeing" a model for a few times before moving on with my life when things become ennui. But that's not a joke...she is a model. And I haven't had a model in a while.

Oh you just want some action. That's cool, go for it then.

halobender

I don't like the implication that the opposite is fine.

Sometimes people just like to have fun and want to be treated like play things.

Random_Name

@halobender: I'm 22. She's 21. Sounds good to me.

@fitfamilyman: In fairness, she pursued me, as I explicitly stated in my intro. I definitely respect the opinion of, "I want to grow up and have a loving family" and I want that very thing as well, but in the meantime I'm going to have fun. I never said I'm not a douche, but if you did attempt to put me in a hospital, well, I'm fairly certain that I could outrun you.

Anyways, I thank everyone for their input.

_beachgirl_

but if you did attempt to put me in a hospital, well, I'm fairly certain that I could outrun you.

Lol, I love men!

AshDHart

@fitfamilyman: In fairness, she pursued me, as I explicitly stated in my intro. I definitely respect the opinion of, "I want to grow up and have a loving family" and I want that very thing as well, but in the meantime I'm going to have fun. I never said I'm not a douche, but if you did attempt to put me in a hospital, well, I'm fairly certain that I could outrun you.

Anyways, I thank everyone for their input.

Never, ever, under estimate the speed at which a pissed off father can run. Pissed off daddy has super hero skills. :bigsmile:

angelicdisgrace

Well if you want a booty call I would persue her. If you are looking for something long term, I would be concern about her. What if y'all get serious, she goes out, gets drunk and in her drunkenness goes out or gives out her number to someone else.



I wouldn't doubt it you are a beautiful man.

sunkisses

Not that I am a creeper or anything like that. But I was definitely in.

Uh... yeah. You are. I would think it was weird if a dude knew my last name, found my Facebook and got at me there AFTER he gave me his number.

Stand down, man.

crisanderson27

Never, ever, under estimate the speed at which a pissed off father can run.

Amen. My daughter is 13....by the time she's 18...I'mma be in a HELL of a lot better shape than I am now =p.

Random_Name

Not that I am a creeper or anything like that. But I was definitely in.

Uh... yeah. You are. I would think it was weird if a dude knew my last name, found my Facebook and got at me there AFTER he gave me his number.

Appreciate the perspective, but I'll presume that you read the original post without scanning to the conversation that elucidates how I got her full name.

JDMPWR

So last night at the bars, a beautiful girl asked for my number*. But since I was a little intoxicated, I didn't think to also get hers. Whoops.

While I could let it go and be at the mercy of her drunken interest, I do know her last name. Should I send her a Facebook friend request and try to pursue a second get-together?

To put some context, she definitely would've gone home with me if she didn't have her pack of girlfriends to say, "We need to get you home," etc. Not that I am a creeper or anything like that. But I was definitely in.

Thanks for the thoughts.



* Not entirely unexpected, as I am a beautiful man.

Sorry but a pack of girls does not determine sh1t, if a girl wants you she will sleep with you...please do not provclaim to be a PUS if you are not really one,

sunkisses

Not that I am a creeper or anything like that. But I was definitely in.

Uh... yeah. You are. I would think it was weird if a dude knew my last name, found my Facebook and got at me there AFTER he gave me his number.

Appreciate the perspective, but I'll presume that you read the original post without scanning to the conversation that elucidates how I got her full name.

I'll assume you're missing the obvious: If she wants you - she'll call you.

ETA: Let's remember you were dealing with someone drunk.

halobender

Not that I am a creeper or anything like that. But I was definitely in.

Uh... yeah. You are. I would think it was weird if a dude knew my last name, found my Facebook and got at me there AFTER he gave me his number.

Appreciate the perspective, but I'll presume that you read the original post without scanning to the conversation that elucidates how I got her full name.

Personally I think it still applies. Even if she did give you her last name in the way in which you described. You gave her your number; if she's interested she'll contact you.

Edit: Damnit, Sunkisses, you beat me to it =/`

sunkisses

Edit: Damnit, Sunkisses, you beat me to it =/`

koosdel

Not to drag spines into this.. but get ever it.

Swimgoddess

To put some context, she definitely would've gone home with me if she didn't have her pack of girlfriends to say, "We need to get you home," etc.

It's been my experience that when the girlfriends step in like that, it's usually because they know something you don't (like, oh... she's in a relationship with a more than decent guy who is probably a better catch than you and she's just having an insecure moment) or they picked up something vibe-wise from the guy that she's too wasted to notice and then have a nice laugh about it once she's sober. If one of my girlfriends is hitting it up with a really hot guy who seems to be even-keeled enough that I don't wonder if she'll be found 3 weeks later decapitated in a ditch, who am I to twatswat by pulling her away? I mean, unless she's just going on a tramp-page and I don't have it in me to hold her hand through her subsequent guilt-trip on herself.

Just let her call you dude. If you're that hot the next bit of tail is right around the corner anyway

_beachgirl_

To put some context, she definitely would've gone home with me if she didn't have her pack of girlfriends to say, "We need to get you home," etc.

It's been my experience that when the girlfriends step in like that, it's usually because they know something you don't (like, oh... she's in a relationship with a more than decent guy who is probably a better catch than you and she's just having an insecure moment) or they picked up something vibe-wise from the guy that she's too wasted to notice and then have a nice laugh about it once she's sober. If one of my girlfriends is hitting it up with a really hot guy who seems to be even-keeled enough that I don't wonder if she'll be found 3 weeks later decapitated in a ditch, who am I to twatswat by pulling her away? I mean, unless she's just going on a tramp-page and I don't have it in me to hold her hand through her subsequent guilt-trip on herself.

Just let her call you dude. If your that hot the next bit of tail is right around the corner anyway

lmao...never heard twatsawt before! too funny

halobender

... twatswat ... tramp-page ...

These alone could make you, like, totally in my top 5 of "awesome people," but the rest of that was great, too.