dose your family do this

beckyinma

They are trying to sabotage you because if you lose weight and they don't it'll make them look bad. They are trying to sabotage you because they are jealous of your strong efforts and commitment. They are sabotaging you because they are too lazy to do it themselves. Like above, they're too lazy to look/feel good, so they may as well try to drag you down with them.

YOU need to stand up to them, they have NO RIGHT to speak to you that way or disrespect you in such a nasty derogatory manner. Stick up for yourself, don't go hiding under the bed every time they start to put you down. Stand up for yourself. Put them in their place and chances are, they will stop.