What do you see in a guy?

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  • audigal2008
    audigal2008 Posts: 1,129 Member
    honesty and loyalty is what I see!
    sorry just found this topic and I have friends commenting that I love to support, but had to get my say as well :)
  • AZTrailRunner
    AZTrailRunner Posts: 1,199 Member
    Phisically his perfect smile ^^
    personality- fun, smart, skills,committed , passionate, sexy, family oriented... So much to say...

    That's funny.... I'm all of those things!!! :wink:
  • tlcurr7u
    tlcurr7u Posts: 19
    he's got to be funny, have a brain, be extroverted, and I have some biased like I prefer brown hair :P
  • AZTrailRunner
    AZTrailRunner Posts: 1,199 Member
    he's got to be funny, have a brain, be extroverted, and I have some biased like I prefer brown hair :P

    <<<
    yep, yep, yep, and...... yep! lol
  • corsayre8
    corsayre8 Posts: 551 Member
    Good in bed..... :laugh:

    First thought... I agree!

    Second thought... Wait, not sure that is something I want to see until after at least the first date!
  • missjaeda
    missjaeda Posts: 22
    Badassery.
    The first thing I notice is not the clothes, smile or "stereotype", it's the badassness with which it's pulled off.
    I've met countless tough guys who were really just insecure, and more often than not, nerdy guys who didn't give a pickle whether or not anybody thought they were a loser for REALLY liking Star Wars.
    The guy I'm currently into is a bit of both. He looks like a tough guy, and kind of is, but he definitely knows the difference between Cloud City and Coruscant. It's not the exterior that draws me to him, though. It's his ability to crack a joke, and not care if he offends me (he never does, I have a trucker's sense of humor). The way he won't admit that he wanted to beat the jerk up who stole my phone, or admit to how much effort he actually put in to finding it. It's the way we can go from talking about Greedo vs. Han Solo right into talking about the pros and cons of buying the newspaper in paper form, or having it emailed to you in pdf format....
  • bree2012
    bree2012 Posts: 179
    What do I see in a guy?
    Hmm...I see a hollow heart and an empty soul.

    I'm joking!
  • messyinthekitchen
    messyinthekitchen Posts: 662 Member
    I like men who are funny, motivated, well dressed, confident, but mostly one who can hold a conversation, relax and just be themselves.
  • CSelf1
    CSelf1 Posts: 431 Member
    What do I see?

    Tall, broad shoulders, strong jawline, nice smile, straight nose, blue/green/hazel eyes, short hair...

    Muscular, athletic build, strong hands, CALF MUSCLES (say no to chicken legs...)

    Well-dressed (or at least put together)

    Most Important Factor: Laughter - Intelligence, Sarcasm & the kind of humor that can make and take a good joke :-)

    Girl, I think you see my husband! You and I must be a lot alike, hahaha!
  • BrattyLori
    BrattyLori Posts: 101 Member
    Super intelligent + quick wit = Attractive
  • imnotyourpal
    imnotyourpal Posts: 162 Member
    He needs to be a fabulous tennis player.

    Bwahahahaha!
  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,021 Member
    What do I see in a guy ...

    Obviously looks are the first thing I notice ... I am drawn to tall, muscular guys (not overly muscular, just "he clearly works out" muscular) with friendly smiles.

    But good looks quickly disappear if a guy acts like a jerk, and I can spot a jerk before he even opens his mouth. I pay very close attention to the way a guy behaves around me, and there are certain cues that immediately turn me off. For instance, if he's looking at someone/something else while he's talking to me ... jerk. If he curses in my presence ... jerk. If he makes fun of something I do or say before we've reached a certain level of familiarity with each other ... jerk. If he talks about women like we exist only to be visibly and sexually pleasing to men ... jerk. If he walks through a door in front of me ... jerk.

    So yeah, I cut through the BS very quickly with pretty boys. And even if you aren't all that attractive, if you behave like a gentleman, you will get my attention. I will want to be around you.
  • fbmandy55
    fbmandy55 Posts: 5,263 Member
    Personality: Sense of humor, honest, respectful, taste in music, political views are a bonus :) Also I like a guy similar to me, who can be professional and respectful but also has the ability to get wild and tear up the town.

    Looks: Height is a bonus but as long as he isn't shorter than me it all good. Smile, good hygiene and knows how to dress appropriately(won't wear jeans to funeral or wedding).

    I am absolutley attracted to shaggy hair and beards.
  • BrownEyedG1rl
    BrownEyedG1rl Posts: 625 Member
    Looks: Tall, in shape, I appreciate a nice lookin' *kitten*, muscular arms

    Personality: must have a sense of humor..I LOVE a guy that can make me laugh, honesty. Even if I guy doesn't fit the looks standards that I posted, if he has an awesome personality, that will make him more attractive to me.
  • datguy2011
    datguy2011 Posts: 477 Member
    bros code says I cant speak of this. k thx.
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