"Intimate Connections"......

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  • Qarol
    Qarol Posts: 6,171 Member
    I say make a cocktail for you both and have your own intimate connections...
  • d2footballJRC
    d2footballJRC Posts: 2,684 Member
    Yeah.....when I saw he joined the group...I was pissed...heartbroken..and felt betrayed. But ...according to him..I'm the craxy one...I read too much into it....he was added without his knowledge...blah..blah..blah...............Oh, I'm angry....and sad that he didn't "unjoin"..he said he's gonna sit in on the chat tonight..and if it turns out to be a meat market...THEN he'll leave.... I said.."if it wasn't a meat market...why did they invite only you..and NOT your significant other as well??? Wow....I ended my relationship today. I am going thru issues..trying to be better..look better..feel better....and he goes and does THIS? F*** THAT!!! I don't need that bull****!!!

    His loss big time. You are beautiful and only going to get better. People joining those groups "connections type" usually seem to be people that are damaged goods, cheaters, or those that can't find anyone in real life and getting desperate. For the most part not going to be a great way to meet someone to spend your life with. I'm sure there are casing that beat the curve or average but I'd more than likely place a bet on the avg that you wouldn't find someone you want to spend your life there in a group like that.
  • d2footballJRC
    d2footballJRC Posts: 2,684 Member
    If it's not a big deal in his opinion he should share the login with you so you can check it out.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    Everybody that opened this thread was interested in "Intimate Connections" Just natural curiosity. Doesn't make us unfaithful. The problems you are experiencing deal with trust. May be justified or may not be. Depends on past history.

    I'm probably gonna open every provocative thread that shows up. Throw "Boobies", "Girls only", etc. in the title and I'm bound to check it out. Probably going to make a remark that I deem humerous and others may not.

    Not going to discuss every comment or keystroke I make with my wife.

    I'm never going to cheat on her either.
  • foodforfuel
    foodforfuel Posts: 569 Member
    His entire story stinks to high heaven. Correct me if I'm wrong, (please), but I don't think it's possible to "add" someone to a group. Maybe recommend that an invitation to join be sent, but the invitee would still have to 'agree' to join. I don't think anyone can just go around signing you up to groups and such.
    OP, I believe there are men out there that share your standards and principles. I think you are a strong person to not tolerate this kind of BS in your life. You'll find what you are looking for. All the best to you.
  • Qarol
    Qarol Posts: 6,171 Member
    Everybody that opened this thread was interested in "Intimate Connections" Just natural curiosity.
    I'm shamelessly curious...
  • HopefulLeigh
    HopefulLeigh Posts: 363 Member
    My opening this actually went something like this:

    Husband: "What the hell is that?"

    Me: "No clue. Sex question?"

    Husband: "Open it."

    Me: "Uh, okay."

    Husband; **reading over shoulder** "What a d-bag."

    Me: "Yep."

    Husband: "She deserves better."

    Me: "Yep."
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    Had my husband not been right there, I'd not have opened it. Why? Because I have an intimate connection ... with my husband. Everyone has their line. I think the point was that he not only crossed her line, he didn't give a flying duck about her feelings and still planned to sit in on the chat after she expressed that she was hurt by the entire thing. His curiousity was more important to him than her feelings, and that isn't okay.

    Foodforfuel, on Facebook you can now add someone to a group you create without their permission. HOWEVER, if you're added to a group, FB sends you an automatic notification that you've been added, so it definitely wasn't "without his knowledge". It's one of their new and "improved" features that's more annoying than not.
  • smallerthighs
    smallerthighs Posts: 148
    If it's not a big deal in his opinion he should share the login with you so you can check it out.
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    At this point, we're no longer talking..he's not my baby anymore. This ship is sailing.
  • smallerthighs
    smallerthighs Posts: 148
    His entire story stinks to high heaven. Correct me if I'm wrong, (please), but I don't think it's possible to "add" someone to a group. Maybe recommend that an invitation to join be sent, but the invitee would still have to 'agree' to join. I don't think anyone can just go around signing you up to groups and such.
    OP, I believe there are men out there that share your standards and principles. I think you are a strong person to not tolerate this kind of BS in your life. You'll find what you are looking for. All the best to you.
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    Thanks. I agree..because what if one of my friends started a hate group of some sort..or some pervert group.......and added me to the group. I would be pissed...and would probably sue facebook. I wouldn't stick around to see what they were gonna be talking about...especially if the name clearly states the theme. Oh well. I've just lost the most weight I've ever lost......overnight I lost 195 lbs. My jeans don't fit any differently tho..lol
  • TheTeeWhy
    TheTeeWhy Posts: 186
    I think thats called alcohol, the pill that take away love and feelings and all that :P

    Seems sketchy, I am totally with you on that and Im a friggin guy.


    I dont feel bad about opening the thing called intimate connections because I am a redblooded male, and also single so I have absolutely no shame in it.
  • smallerthighs
    smallerthighs Posts: 148
    I say make a cocktail for you both and have your own intimate connections...
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    Cocktails? Maybe...but yesterday I was so depressed and miserable...that HIS cocktail would've resulted in a night he couldn't remember....and stitches..lots and lots of stitches..lol.........and maybe an I.V
    I'm good now......I ate something sweet...and I'm rocking a brand new pair of skinny jeans....well, skinn'ier' jeans..lolol
  • foodforfuel
    foodforfuel Posts: 569 Member
    My opening this actually went something like this:

    Husband: "What the hell is that?"

    Me: "No clue. Sex question?"

    Husband: "Open it."

    Me: "Uh, okay."

    Husband; **reading over shoulder** "What a d-bag."

    Me: "Yep."

    Husband: "She deserves better."

    Me: "Yep."
    _______________________________________________________
    Had my husband not been right there, I'd not have opened it. Why? Because I have an intimate connection ... with my husband. Everyone has their line. I think the point was that he not only crossed her line, he didn't give a flying duck about her feelings and still planned to sit in on the chat after she expressed that she was hurt by the entire thing. His curiousity was more important to him than her feelings, and that isn't okay.

    Foodforfuel, on Facebook you can now add someone to a group you create without their permission. HOWEVER, if you're added to a group, FB sends you an automatic notification that you've been added, so it definitely wasn't "without his knowledge". It's one of their new and "improved" features that's more annoying than not.

    Thank you for that info, HopefulLeigh. I actually find that quite disturbing!
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