Why so serious?

TDGee
TDGee Posts: 2,209 Member
edited October 2024 in Chit-Chat
There have been quite a few exchanges here in the forums lately that have gotten very heated. Things get ugly, name calling starts, and then the thread gets deleted. I guess my topic for discussion here is why are you letting a bunch of strangers push you to this point? some threads get all kinds of crazy with people going to defend others posts and such.
One of the things that makes me laugh out loud are the exchanges where someone throws out the "This is a weight loss site, not a dating site!"
My question is why does trying to become a more healthy person HAVE to be so serious. My thoughts are I will have much better success at doing this if I actually enjoy the personalities of people I interact with. What are your thoughts? I would really like to hear from the more serious minded folks here.
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  • SimplyFreckled
    SimplyFreckled Posts: 444 Member
    This post is inaperoperaiate and I am reporting you
  • Heather75
    Heather75 Posts: 3,386 Member
    I honestly don't know. I'm with you.
  • Miss_Chievous_wechange
    Miss_Chievous_wechange Posts: 1,230 Member
    :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile:
  • robin52077
    robin52077 Posts: 4,383 Member
    There have been quite a few exchanges here in the forums lately that have gotten very heated. Things get ugly, name calling starts, and then the thread gets deleted. I guess my topic for discussion here is why are you letting a bunch of strangers push you to this point? some threads get all kinds of crazy with people going to defend others posts and such.
    One of the things that makes me laugh out loud are the exchanges where someone throws out the "This is a weight loss site, not a dating site!"
    My question is why does trying to become a more healthy person HAVE to be so serious. My thoughts are I will have much better success at doing this if I actually enjoy the personalities of people I interact with. What are your thoughts? I would really like to hear from the more serious minded folks here.

    I agree 100%


    And I also think if someone WANTS it to be a dating site, then for THEM it very well CAN be. What better place to find a like-minded significant other?
  • FearAnLoathing
    FearAnLoathing Posts: 4,852 Member
    Because people are cry babies:sad:
  • FearAnLoathing
    FearAnLoathing Posts: 4,852 Member
    Because people are cry babies:sad:


    See it must be true it posted twice
  • robin52077
    robin52077 Posts: 4,383 Member
    This post is inaperoperaiate and I am reporting you

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    I :heart: you!
  • JennsLosing
    JennsLosing Posts: 1,026
    im not a serious minded person....i could care less about the "inappropriate" stuff thats posted. i asked the same question in another thread too, kinda, but you asked it better....i just said why is everyone gettin their panties in a twist...lol
  • frostiegurl
    frostiegurl Posts: 708 Member
    This post is inaperoperaiate and I am reporting you


    The fact that I keep wanting to smack the bug on the screen makes all of your posts inaperoperaiate and I am reporting you. :tongue:
  • bry_all01
    bry_all01 Posts: 3,100 Member
    There have been quite a few exchanges here in the forums lately that have gotten very heated. Things get ugly, name calling starts, and then the thread gets deleted. I guess my topic for discussion here is why are you letting a bunch of strangers push you to this point? some threads get all kinds of crazy with people going to defend others posts and such.
    One of the things that makes me laugh out loud are the exchanges where someone throws out the "This is a weight loss site, not a dating site!"
    My question is why does trying to become a more healthy person HAVE to be so serious. My thoughts are I will have much better success at doing this if I actually enjoy the personalities of people I interact with. What are your thoughts? I would really like to hear from the more serious minded folks here.



    Weight!!! This is NOT a dateing sight?? I'm soe looost.
  • killagb
    killagb Posts: 3,280 Member
    :blushing: I don't know but I'm trying to measure my banana but can't read the measuring tape because I got nut butter all over it...
  • Thomasm198
    Thomasm198 Posts: 3,189 Member
    This post is inaperoperaiate and I am reporting you

    Well I think you're post is inaperoperaiate and I'm reporting you for reporting this. :bigsmile:
  • janet_pratt
    janet_pratt Posts: 747 Member
    My thought for those people is if you don't like what someone says, you don't have to continue reading the thread. Life is too short to get all wound up over this stuff.
  • FearAnLoathing
    FearAnLoathing Posts: 4,852 Member
    This post is inaperoperaiate and I am reporting you


    The fact that I keep wanting to smack the bug on the screen makes all of your posts inaperoperaiate and I am reporting you. :tongue:

    But wait this site is supposed to be for support not bug smacking
  • dmpizza
    dmpizza Posts: 3,321 Member
    Sarcastic testosterone fueled postings aren't tolerated well in this estrogen soaked website.
    Let's see how long this stays posted.
  • Scott613
    Scott613 Posts: 2,317 Member
    I disagree this shouldn't be fun at all. You are wrong I am right the end!!!!
  • Miss_Chievous_wechange
    Miss_Chievous_wechange Posts: 1,230 Member

    Weight!!! This is NOT a dateing sight?? I'm soe looost.


    hahahaha.
  • Panda_Jack
    Panda_Jack Posts: 829 Member
    Mayor McPanda for President!
  • ilookthetype
    ilookthetype Posts: 3,021 Member
    1. I agree.

    2. Why so serious?

    So raise your glass if you are wrong,
    In all the right ways,
    All my underdogs,
    We will never be never be anything but loud
    And nitty gritty dirty little freaks
    Won't you come on and come on and raise your glass,
    Just come on and come on and raise your glass
  • mindy14456
    mindy14456 Posts: 552 Member
    I agree, this is a fun site, full of like minded people wanted to be fit and healthy. And if they don't like a specific conversation, then just don't join in! It is rather childish, but hey, you can't please everyone right?
  • I am totally with you on this! I mean who cares how anyone of uses this site?!? You do what makes this better for you and i will do what makes this better and more fun for me! screw you if you don't like it!

    :tongue: :tongue:
  • robin52077
    robin52077 Posts: 4,383 Member
    I disagree this shouldn't be fun at all. You are wrong I am right the end!!!!

    Damn, you're hot....just sayin'....off topic and all....
    And is "BAMF" a Nightcrawler reference?
  • 1. I agree.

    2. Why so serious?

    So raise your glass if you are wrong,
    In all the right ways,
    All my underdogs,
    We will never be never be anything but loud
    And nitty gritty dirty little freaks
    Won't you come on and come on and raise your glass,
    Just come on and come on and raise your glass

    :drinker:
    :drinker:
    :drinker:
    :happy:
  • CoachMaritova
    CoachMaritova Posts: 409 Member
    I can't stand all serious, nor all silly... a good mix of the two and I'm fine! Obviously, it's working for me so why would I be assed to leave? I'm losing weight... why should someone be offended if I have some fun while doing it?? heehee, I said, "doing it!!!!!"
  • Panda_Jack
    Panda_Jack Posts: 829 Member
    [/quote]

    Damn, you're hot....just sayin'....off topic and all....
    And is "BAMF" a Nightcrawler reference?
    [/quote]

    The fact that you know that is awesome!
  • heather7marie
    heather7marie Posts: 506 Member
    I completely agree with you... and this thread will probably end up getting closed like all of the others. :huh:
  • Thomasm198
    Thomasm198 Posts: 3,189 Member
    This post is inaperoperaiate and I am reporting you


    The fact that I keep wanting to smack the bug on the screen makes all of your posts inaperoperaiate and I am reporting you. :tongue:

    But wait this site is supposed to be for support not bug smacking
    Well I support the right to smack a bug.
  • :blushing: I don't know but I'm trying to measure my banana but can't read the measuring tape because I got nut butter all over it...

    LMFAO!!

    need any help with that?!?

    LOL!

    Was that inappropriate?
  • babylemonade
    babylemonade Posts: 250 Member
    Because people let others get to them. If you don't like what someone is saying, ignore that post. Who cares?

    And if you happen to meet someone on here, then great for you. There's no point in people *****ing about it.
  • bry_all01
    bry_all01 Posts: 3,100 Member
    :blushing: I don't know but I'm trying to measure my banana but can't read the measuring tape because I got nut butter all over it...


    Oh noes!!!!
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