When Looking for Friends...Diversity!

SMarie10

I'll admit that when I first joined MFP - I went looking for people just like me, similar backgrounds and from the midwest. Now I'll admit that some of my most enjoyable conversations are with those in Europe or in completely different parts of the country, with totally different backgrounds and goals. Variety is the spice of life. I've now gotten to the point where I tend to hide people or delete people if they only log their food/exercise and never interact with me. I also like those with open diaries, helps me find new healthy food, or food I'd never think of eating, but I understand people who want to keep things private.

I'm not the religious type, nor am I an angel, or a heathen, so your language won't offend me. But after 12 year of catholic school, I do mind my P's and Q's

I'm open to new friends

karyngrace

love this post!!! I have friends of all different walks of life.......ages, races and religions etc.......and i wouldnt have it any other way

paxetamore

I have noticed that a lot of people, especially when they first sign up here, tend to want friends... same height and weight, goals, marital status... you end up with a friends list of people who are all in the same situation, it can be a case of the blind leading the blind, so to speak.

I have an amazing group of people on my list and I have learned something from all of them. Try it - you might like it!

See! We do gravitate together, based on being amazing mfp friends ;-)

Seriously, though, i get what you are saying and encouraging everyone to have a variety of friends, as we do, is Wonderful! I will say, though, when i am having a tough day, the one's who are closer to my age, weight, goals, health, marital/kid status, hobbies, and even location are the ones who tend to chime in with support.

As for me, i am an equal opportunity supporter :flowerforyou:

LeeKetty1176

some good points