what turns you on in the opposite gender?

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  • Levedi
    Levedi Posts: 290 Member
    My BF's biceps and his hands - he's not a gym guy at all, but he plays the piano and his arms and hands are so strong. Big turn on. Also his smile and goofy sense of humor. And listening to him play the piano. Cliched, I know, but it's true.
  • Melaniemarie86
    Melaniemarie86 Posts: 57 Member
    hairy legs :D

    Agreed... Haha... I also love that guys are alwaysss warm because I'm alwaysss cold. I love big, warm hands and dark, thick hair. All of the personality stuff is a given though... smart, funny, nice, you know, just be a genuinely good guy. :)
  • leynak
    leynak Posts: 963 Member
    Tall- I love tall guys (I prefer over 6') :wink:

    & of course a good sense of humor
  • BAMA66
    BAMA66 Posts: 240
    I love pretty eyes and smile
    I like humor and intelligence
  • fitfud
    fitfud Posts: 9
    So far I am what you want!!!

    thats what you think.... :)

    Ladies not dudes

    LOL....
  • kaylynn54
    kaylynn54 Posts: 141
    She has to be a cowgirl and wear a cowboy hat. ;) Seriously I think there is something gorgeous and sexy about every woman God placed on this earth. It can be the way she laughs, smiles, loves her kids, etc. So it's a case by case thing.


    I think that this is the best answer :-)
  • GTOgirl1969
    GTOgirl1969 Posts: 2,527 Member
    Respect, honesty, and patience.

    Oh...and a 1968 Dodge Charger, deep blue eyes, a killer smile, and a nice @ss would be great, too. :bigsmile:
  • LisaKyle11
    LisaKyle11 Posts: 662 Member
    this thread is destined for about anything...

    anyway, for me:

    *Sense of Humor
    *Charismatic personality
    *Spirituality (non organized religion)
    *Formed political/worldly views
    *In touch with feminine side
    *Nice voice and sexy eyes are pluses as well!

    **lucky to have found these in my husband!
  • AwesomeSauce4
    AwesomeSauce4 Posts: 1,062 Member
    A man who is loving and not afraid to be their own person,likeable personality, loyalty to his friends and family, and a good work ethic, sense of humor and a sense of adventure is always sexy! I’m also a sucker for tall, athletic guys who are driven and ambitious. Some big ol’ strong arms to hold me never hurt either. :wink:
  • Noonoo757
    Noonoo757 Posts: 280 Member
    he has got to make me laugh because as we start to age with one another and it all starts to sag and fall out i still want to be able to have a funny bunny :)
  • Chubby_bunnyy
    Chubby_bunnyy Posts: 50 Member
    someone with fair skin, who takes care to dress welll, thin with a little muscle, shaggy hair, hipbones that stick out

    someone who is funny, witty, artistic/cultured, open-minded/unjudgemental, kind
  • ebramlett
    ebramlett Posts: 306 Member
    In no particular order:

    a. confidence
    b. fit and healthy, or working towards that
    c. responsible
    d. loves to party
    e. outdoorsy like myself
    f. eyes I can get lost in
    g. infectious smile
    h. loves massages ( I like giving massages)
    i. loves kids
  • samrosenblum
    samrosenblum Posts: 2 Member
    Has to get my weird sense of humor. Just be nice and understanding. Good cook, Momma spoiled me sorry ladies~open minded, non judgemental of anyone, except who ever I may judge, lol...
  • CoachMaritova
    CoachMaritova Posts: 409 Member
    In no particular order:

    a. confidence
    b. fit and healthy, or working towards that
    c. responsible
    d. loves to party
    e. outdoorsy like myself
    f. eyes I can get lost in
    g. infectious smile
    h. loves massages ( I like giving massages)
    i. loves kids

    :love: :heart: :love: :heart:
  • JsGirl93
    JsGirl93 Posts: 1,156
    In no particular order:

    a. confidence
    b. fit and healthy, or working towards that
    c. responsible
    d. loves to party
    e. outdoorsy like myself
    f. eyes I can get lost in
    g. infectious smile
    h. loves massages ( I like giving massages)
    i. loves kids
    Damn it! If I weren't already married I'd snatch you up for the massages alone! :heart:
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,450 Member
    In no particular order:

    a. confidence
    b. fit and healthy, or working towards that
    c. responsible
    d. loves to party
    e. outdoorsy like myself
    f. eyes I can get lost in
    g. infectious smile
    h. loves massages ( I like giving massages)
    i. loves kids

    well hello..... :laugh:
  • FaithsVegWorkout
    FaithsVegWorkout Posts: 471
    Eye contact.
  • Awkward30
    Awkward30 Posts: 1,927 Member
    Pulse and low standards :love:

    Must also be able to afford enough alcohol to lower my standards
  • gdr1976
    gdr1976 Posts: 460 Member
    Pulse and low standards :love:
    I LOL'd
  • skinnimini16
    skinnimini16 Posts: 60
    Facial hair:)

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