would i be a female dog.

Johnnyswife

well its kinda a non issue with the mail i got today, well no way i can go, even with him paying the actual cruise

What came in the mail?

infamousmk

I stopped reading when you said you wanted a life with him. People don't act like this and speak like this about people they want to spend their lives with. If you guys really liked each other you 1] wouldn't do stupid teenage *kitten* to each other and 2] you'd talk about your issues and come to resolutions that are reasonable for both of you.


I can't believe I'm pulling this out twice today:


As the wise Garth Algar would say: Get over him. Go out with somebody else.

reinach31

He is paying for this trip! Why don't YOU pay for the tour you want to go to??!!!

Anyway, just enjoy the vacation with the person you say you LOVE so much!

_beachgirl_

well its kinda a non issue with the mail i got today, well no way i can go, even with him paying the actual cruise

What came in the mail?

I wanna know what came in the mail! *grabs popcorn and waits anxiously*

FairyMiss

Pay for your own excursion. And offer to pay for his too. That would be the decent thing to do.

yeah, cant

FairyMiss

well its kinda a non issue with the mail i got today, well no way i can go, even with him paying the actual cruise

What came in the mail?

I wanna know what came in the mail! *grabs popcorn and waits anxiously*

oh just a letter saying i have to pay back my sons whole check from sept. which i used to by his school clothes

welcom to my world of hell,

Iamfit4life

End the relationship


here is why


I am in a long distance relationship as well.
And if he called me and said we were going on a cruise together I wouldn't care if it was freaking Alaska we were going to... I'd be there with my best parka! Every moment I spend with him, no matter where it is ...is just fantastic.
Plans get made, **** happens and all the sudden plans change.

If I we're him I'd be hurt you wouldn't just be happy to be taking a vacation with him.


I'm sorry if this is harsh but I'd JUMP all over this if I were you. Ruins or not.

Johnnyswife

well its kinda a non issue with the mail i got today, well no way i can go, even with him paying the actual cruise

What came in the mail?

I wanna know what came in the mail! *grabs popcorn and waits anxiously*

oh just a letter saying i have to pay back my sons whole check from sept. which i used to by his school clothes

welcom to my world of hell,

It never rains, it pours. :noway: :flowerforyou:

infamousmk

well its kinda a non issue with the mail i got today, well no way i can go, even with him paying the actual cruise

What came in the mail?

I wanna know what came in the mail! *grabs popcorn and waits anxiously*

oh just a letter saying i have to pay back my sons whole check from sept. which i used to by his school clothes

welcom to my world of hell,

Grab that hellscape you call a life by the balls and do something about it if it's so damn bad. Drop the boyfriend you clearly don't like, pay back that check or whatever, and find joy in the little things. Love every second you're on this earth, because you'll be gone before you know it.

Iamfit4life

well its kinda a non issue with the mail i got today, well no way i can go, even with him paying the actual cruise

What came in the mail?

I wanna know what came in the mail! *grabs popcorn and waits anxiously*

oh just a letter saying i have to pay back my sons whole check from sept. which i used to by his school clothes

welcom to my world of hell,

Grab that hellscape you call a life by the balls and do something about it if it's so damn bad. Drop the boyfriend you clearly don't like, pay back that check or whatever, and find joy in the little things. Love every second you're on this earth, because you'll be gone before you know it.

I think I love you!

infamousmk

fit4life127 - :flowerforyou:

CCSunlight

if you have to ask, the answer is probably yes.

FairyMiss

well its kinda a non issue with the mail i got today, well no way i can go, even with him paying the actual cruise

What came in the mail?

I wanna know what came in the mail! *grabs popcorn and waits anxiously*

oh just a letter saying i have to pay back my sons whole check from sept. which i used to by his school clothes

welcom to my world of hell,

Grab that hellscape you call a life by the balls and do something about it if it's so damn bad. Drop the boyfriend you clearly don't like, pay back that check or whatever, and find joy in the little things. Love every second you're on this earth, because you'll be gone before you know it.

actually go things about the cruise straghtened out will have to still have the where the hell is this thing going chat. I do like the boyfriend, love him infact, its this status quo bull**** he seem content with . well as everyone seems to like point out i am in my 40's and i dont have time for this endless bull****. i want a family dammit , a come home to my husband every night kinda family, i would love it with him, but not gonna waste my life waiting, we will have to have some talk time since we will be having plenty of time to just us on the cruise



as far as my sucky life, going to call them tomorrow and ask them what chimps are doing their paper work and why cant they get their **** together since THEY caculate how much he is supposed to get and can't get it right. there is no way i am paying all that back. It is neither my fault or my sons that they cant get THEIR **** together, i do my part and send all the **** they want each month.

FairyMiss

double

kennethmgreen

You know what they say about people attracting complicated drama into their lives because they need the drama to focus on?

They say that.

FairyMiss

thanks for all the resposnses even the harsh ones, they can get you thinking the most.

infamousmk

I try not to drag my bullsh!t in to the forums, but I feel like it might be beneficial for me to point out that I loved my abusive drug addict husband, but that didn't mean he was a good husband or right for me. (we're divorced now, thank jeebus)

I'm not saying your boyfriend is abusive or anything like that ... I'm just saying that you can love someone very very much and they can still be very very wrong for you. You gotta decide who is more important.


Good luck to you.

kennethmgreen

I try not to drag my bullsh!t in to the forums, but I feel like it might be beneficial for me to point out that I loved my abusive drug addict husband, but that didn't mean he was a good husband or right for me. (we're divorced now, thank jeebus)

Yeah, always a tough call. But it makes you credible. I like you more and more with every post you write. And I do thank jeebus.

thanks for all the resposnses even the harsh ones, they can get you thinking the most.

Good to read this. I respect those who can take criticism. Remain teachable, I think you'll be fine. Life is about learning and making incremental improvements. At least that's what my cat tells me.

Cait_Sidhe

It seems that the issue has been solved. But honestly, I would perhaps voice my disappointment at not going where I wanted. But I certainly wouldn't be mad about it. I would be very grateful that someone is paying for me to go on a cruise with them and I'd be extremely excited about it. It's a wonderful opportunity. Have fun!