Disgusted

GTOgirl1969
GTOgirl1969 Posts: 2,527 Member
edited September 19 in Chit-Chat
The week started off crappy (scattered my mom's ashes on Monday) and only got worse. I returned home from my brother's to find my house a total disaster (sink full of dirty dishes, laundry piled to the ceiling, etc) and my husband said, "Well, if you aren't here to do it, then who will?" :noway: :mad: :mad: :explode: Damn I think sometimes it would be cheaper for him to hire a call girl and a maid because that's all he's using me for lately!:explode: It makes me not even want to TRY because I know I will always fall short and there will ALWAYS be something lacking.:frown:

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  • GTOgirl1969
    GTOgirl1969 Posts: 2,527 Member
    The week started off crappy (scattered my mom's ashes on Monday) and only got worse. I returned home from my brother's to find my house a total disaster (sink full of dirty dishes, laundry piled to the ceiling, etc) and my husband said, "Well, if you aren't here to do it, then who will?" :noway: :mad: :mad: :explode: Damn I think sometimes it would be cheaper for him to hire a call girl and a maid because that's all he's using me for lately!:explode: It makes me not even want to TRY because I know I will always fall short and there will ALWAYS be something lacking.:frown:
  • jamerz3294
    jamerz3294 Posts: 1,824 Member
    Ahhhhh baybee... let me giva ya a patented Jamerz Big Brutha Hug :drinker: :flowerforyou: Hope that things settle back down for ya sis! :heart:
  • melissa91971
    melissa91971 Posts: 217
    Where to start.....

    You husband sounds like a total jerk !.....on EVERY post!:grumble:

    Is there a reason you put up with his crap!?

    ok...it's probably not ALL bad. right?

    Cheer up. You have us!:flowerforyou:
  • FloridaGatorGirl
    FloridaGatorGirl Posts: 43
    The week started off crappy (scattered my mom's ashes on Monday) and only got worse. I returned home from my brother's to find my house a total disaster (sink full of dirty dishes, laundry piled to the ceiling, etc) and my husband said, "Well, if you aren't here to do it, then who will?" :noway: :mad: :mad: :explode: Damn I think sometimes it would be cheaper for him to hire a call girl and a maid because that's all he's using me for lately!:explode: It makes me not even want to TRY because I know I will always fall short and there will ALWAYS be something lacking.:frown:

    so sorry to hear about your mom I can totally relate--just lost my mom march 13 of 2008:sad: on the subject of the Husband Im soo sorry you had to go through that because I would honestly hit my husband if he said that to me after a week like yours!:explode: Men just tell him to hire and maid and your going to get a sugar daddy!! lol j/k! I hope that everything starts to get better for you!.
    :heart: Summer:heart:
  • BrainyBurro
    BrainyBurro Posts: 6,129 Member
    two words... trial separation.
  • dbmata
    dbmata Posts: 12,950 Member
    Why would you put up with that?
  • CookNLift
    CookNLift Posts: 3,660 Member
    he's a *kitten*
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    Dont do it let them continue to pile up he'll be hurting soon when he has no clean underwear and no dishes to eat off. Lots of hugs with the loss of your Mom. :flowerforyou:
  • ren_ascent
    ren_ascent Posts: 432 Member
    Leave it. Not him necessarily, just all the crap that needs to get done. Leeeeeave it. Once he starts to ferment in his own cloths maybe he'll get a clue :huh:

    And I'm very sorry to hear about your Mom. 15 years gone and I still miss mine.
  • BeachGingerOnTheRocks
    BeachGingerOnTheRocks Posts: 3,927 Member
    I should report that OP did, in fact, hit her husband. Pretty hard! When he woke up from his coma, he testified against her. She pled her sentence down to 3 years, got out a little early for good behavior, and has been a remarkable parolee.
  • Mia_RagazzaTosta
    Mia_RagazzaTosta Posts: 4,885 Member
    :frown:
  • BrainyBurro
    BrainyBurro Posts: 6,129 Member
    I should report that OP did, in fact, hit her husband. Pretty hard! When he woke up from his coma, he testified against her. She pled her sentence down to 3 years, got out a little early for good behavior, and has been a remarkable parolee.

    party pooper!

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  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    Why revive what is sure to be a painful memory on a thread almost 5 years old? :noway:
  • highervibes
    highervibes Posts: 2,219 Member
    I should report that OP did, in fact, hit her husband. Pretty hard! When he woke up from his coma, he testified against her. She pled her sentence down to 3 years, got out a little early for good behavior, and has been a remarkable parolee.

    damn it, she had me going lol
  • happysherri
    happysherri Posts: 1,360 Member
    So sorry about your bad times. Big hugs.

    As of the husband situation, doesn't sound promising.
  • Monkey_Business
    Monkey_Business Posts: 1,800 Member
    ya'all are being VERY bad today :-)
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    Why revive what is sure to be a painful memory on a thread almost 5 years old? :noway:

    oh lord fell for it again...G-d damn it I hate that. GRRRRR!
  • TheCalorieSMASHER
    TheCalorieSMASHER Posts: 162 Member
    This doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. I mean, if you agree to one person cleaning and cooking and one person working full time and making tons of money, that's fine. But you shouldn't *have* to do it when you have so much stuff going on. Losing a parent is terrible and he needs to be more supportive. My advice is to leave him.
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