What little things bother you about your SO?

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  • MzBug
    MzBug Posts: 2,173 Member
    bother: He turnes into a baby when even slightly ill. "feel my forehead..." "baby could you get me..." "I don't feel good..." and that will go on 24/7 until he is back to 110%.

    love: everything else
  • mamabearr
    mamabearr Posts: 304
    Bother: he never EVER has the blanket right when he get's in bed first. I go to cover up and I get a corner to cover my butt because he has it laid out like a diamond.

    Love: when randomly he will look at me and smile the biggest smile for no reason.
  • adrian_indy
    adrian_indy Posts: 1,444 Member
    My wife is a Debbie Downer. She'll take something positive and poop on it without realizing she's doing it.

    What I love, she's shy, conservative and demure, but every once in a while she says something so out of left field it shocks me, and is always hilarious!
  • JediMaster_intraining
    JediMaster_intraining Posts: 903 Member
    bother: he leaves whatever dishes he was using where he was last seen! for example: he drank some water and left the glass on my dresser for days....and also left his bowl on my keyboard. i have to pick up after him like a kid sometimes!

    love: his smile and his musical abilities! :) he makes me feel so special whenever he's made a new song on his guitar for me
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,984 Member
    My wife is an electrical engineer so she constantly asks me at LEAST twice if I did something. I could say emphatically yes, and later in the day she'll ask me again. I'm kinda used to it now.

    She's one of the most unselfish persons I've met in my life. She thinks of others many times before herself.
  • legacysh
    legacysh Posts: 464
    I love that my husband greets me with a smile and excitement when I walk into the room after work or rehearsals. He always seems so happy to see me, like he missed me so much and can't wait for me to get home.

    He was a Sherriff in his former youth, and he is way overprotective of everything (sometimes that's not bad either) :wink:
  • ThePhoenixRose
    ThePhoenixRose Posts: 1,978 Member
    Bother - my husband is ALWAYS right. even if he's not. He has to argue everything, until you see his side, and why he's right, even if he's not. Also, the lack of sex right now kinda stinks.

    Love - He's so smart, provides well, loving, supportive, everything else a great husband is!
  • mltdown
    mltdown Posts: 311 Member
    What I love about my husband is that he doesn't share the petty, irritating little things I do with people on the internet.

    don't hate ;)
  • cabaray
    cabaray Posts: 971 Member
    Good - He cleans more than I do & he has loved me no matter my size. Never once has he said I was too big and need to lose weight (at my highest I was 370 pounds).

    Bad - He talks so LOUD, especially when he's on the phone with someone.
  • cabaray
    cabaray Posts: 971 Member
    "S/O bashing is so retarded. Go talk to them. Jeez. "

    Not bashing, and he already knows as I have mentioned it before.
  • Jovialation
    Jovialation Posts: 7,632 Member
    well if he knows its fine but theres been plenty of threads in here when women especially go on and on about their SOs bad traits and dont ever once mention them knowing about those thoughts
  • FairyMiss
    FairyMiss Posts: 1,812 Member
    S/O bashing is so retarded. Go talk to them. Jeez.

    the ones i have reads have not really been bashing, there is always going to be something about a person that will annoy you, things you are not gona change, agreement in everything would be boring . If you love some one you just accept that annoing thing and look beyond it
  • Jovialation
    Jovialation Posts: 7,632 Member
    oh i totally agree about that. agreement on everything IS the suck.

    I just dont like some of the women's attitudes about their SOs on here. I worry that these poor men either A) get too much *kitten* for little things at home or B) have no idea their SO feels this way
  • FairyMiss
    FairyMiss Posts: 1,812 Member
    oh i totally agree about that. agreement on everything IS the suck.

    I just dont like some of the women's attitudes about their SOs on here. I worry that these poor men either A) get too much *kitten* for little things at home or B) have no idea their SO feels this way


    oh mine knows that i wished he'd eat bettter, he knows my exact views on frozen burritos lol.. the ear thing ... well maybe some day.
  • fteale
    fteale Posts: 5,310 Member
    I love that he lets me get on with my life the way I want. I don't like that he is too hard on the children.
  • catshark209
    catshark209 Posts: 1,133 Member
    He hates it when I track my calories and that bugs me cuz I want to know what I consume, etc and also sometimes he puts too much on his plate and I worry about him. I don't hate it, but it's to the point where he has way too much to do and I'm afraid it will affect his health.
    I love how romantic he is, and I'm truly blessed to have such a wonderful man by my side.
  • Brannock8
    Brannock8 Posts: 170 Member
    His invisibility. Effing annoying.

    Dating superhero's can be tough
  • overzoelous
    overzoelous Posts: 161 Member
    I don't like it when my cat bites my elbow in my sleep, or lays on my bladder when I have to pee and am just too lazy to get up.
  • otr12
    otr12 Posts: 632 Member
    oh i totally agree about that. agreement on everything IS the suck.

    I just dont like some of the women's attitudes about their SOs on here. I worry that these poor men either A) get too much *kitten* for little things at home or B) have no idea their SO feels this way

    Yep.
  • beccyleigh
    beccyleigh Posts: 846 Member
    Bothers: too many

    Loves: too many
  • d2footballJRC
    d2footballJRC Posts: 2,684 Member
    Mine isnt romantic and when he tries its just funny because he is so awkward with it. The things I love about him are so many I dont know where to start, but I will say he wants us(me and our children) to have everything we desire, which in return causes him to be a workaholic.(oops, thats 2 faults)
    Funny that I dont ask for much. Im way more about the family and doing things together.
    Bottom line is in order to be with him for the past 20 years I have learned to accept all good and bad.

    My SO says all those things about me. I am the most un romantic person to the point she laughs and I am a workaholic. That and when we fight she's called me fat before. :-( That's the hit below the belt!
  • sosayscyndi
    sosayscyndi Posts: 35 Member
    I HATE when he corrects me! but, i LOVE his hugs and how much he still loves me after a decade.
  • albayin
    albayin Posts: 2,524 Member
    He's so logical and his brain works like a computer. :(
  • martinah4
    martinah4 Posts: 583 Member
    Bothers me: He's an effin' Talk Blocker! Whenever I'm talking on the phone to a friend, he always has to talk to me AND whoever I'm on the phone with by making little comments in the background. Or, tell her this, say that, ask this....Of course, when HE is on the phone with someone, no one better make a sound or it's off with your head!

    Good things: He puts up with all my annoying crap. And I snore pretty loud for a woman ;^D

    HAHA I can so relate to the talk blocker. My one sister tells me that if he does not shut up I am going to come over and kick his butt.

    It's ridiculous! The only time I can truly have a phone conversation is when he's at work or I'm away from him!
  • HollyTsiaussis
    HollyTsiaussis Posts: 415 Member
    His overreacting bothers me quite a lot.
  • SabrinaJL
    SabrinaJL Posts: 1,579 Member
    well if he knows its fine but theres been plenty of threads in here when women especially go on and on about their SOs bad traits and dont ever once mention them knowing about those thoughts

    I'm actually reading these to my husband and he's snickering because quite a few of the things women are annoyed about their husbands doing are things that I do. He said, "You're such a dude and yes, those things are annoying." :laugh:

    Anyway, the little thing that bothers me about him is that he's ridiculously uptight about things being cleaned and put away. He actually follows me around while I'm cooking and cleans up after me. Which is particularly maddening when I turn around to grab an ingredient and he has put it away. Or the other day I cooked brats in beer and onions. I wanted to use the onions as a topping, but when I was out grilling the brats, he dumped the beer and onions down the drain and washed the pan. :sad:

    What I love most about him is how supportive and patient he is. He puts up with all my crazy and believe me, there is a whole damn lot of it.
  • Mixmode
    Mixmode Posts: 332
    Reading all these posts makes me realize what a good man I am. I cook pretty much everything, clean, do laundry (I even iron pretty damn good if needed), I care for our daughter (get her up and out the door to school every morning as well as feed & bathe her on the nights I have off) and I work 2 jobs @ 55-60 hrs a week.
  • Iamfit4life
    Iamfit4life Posts: 3,095 Member
    oh I thought of ONE thing

    Anti PDA

    to the point where once I kissed him on the cheek in public and he literally said "whoooooooaa relax"

    I mean come the eff on.
  • Mixmode
    Mixmode Posts: 332
    oh I thought of ONE thing

    Anti PDA

    to the point where once I kissed him on the cheek in public and he literally said "whoooooooaa relax"

    I mean come the eff on.

    ok THATS a bit redic. Ease the eff up dude.
  • Iamfit4life
    Iamfit4life Posts: 3,095 Member
    oh I thought of ONE thing

    Anti PDA

    to the point where once I kissed him on the cheek in public and he literally said "whoooooooaa relax"

    I mean come the eff on.

    ok THATS a bit redic. Ease the eff up dude.

    Other than the distance(which we're working on fixing) It's my only complaint. And it's most annoying because of the distance.

    I told him "you know, when we get married....you're going to have to kiss me" he laughed.
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