Come meet Jade 39 up close!

Jade_Butterfly

Hi this is just me Jade. . up close and personal. . .

I felt that I needed to make this post.. . .First and foremost I love this site and all the people on it. . . . ( here it comes though)

but sometimes things tend to have a highschool like quality to them. What I mean is that rather than get to know people you

listen to rumor. .

* I am a very straight forward honest person. . so anything that you ask me I will be honest about it(regarding me) or an opinion

about anything. . I will be straight.

WHAT (((JADE))) is:

A single mother

I am a Christian

I also tend to be a new age hippie. . lol. . With my business I make knit and crocheted accessories, jewelry. . my own soap. . next I am going to be making candles. .

a kind and caring person

not perfect , (by a long shot)

I own my own business

Going to school to be a trainer

finishing a degree in nutrition

WHAT ((( JADE ))) is not:

rude

intentionally mean to others

I don't like drama. . . I am supportive of others that have drama don't get me wrong. . I will be there for anyone in a heartbeat.

not into vulgar or crude things. . Just me.

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I care about everyone around me. . my family friends . . MFP'ers. . . people I know, people I don't. . .

So this is what I came here to say. . If you want to know me. . shoot me questions. . . talk to me. . . if you have an ISSUE with

me. . come talk to me in a POLITE fashion. . then we resolve the issue done.

*If you want to ask me about my CHRISTIAN views. . Please do so via PM as it is against MFP rules and regulations. . THANKS>

LIFE:
Life should be lived looking forward. . through the front windshield . . to better things. .moving forward.

Not living looking throught the (REARVIEW) mirror. . .(MIND YOU THAT IS JUST MY OPINION) feel free to disagree.

I like positve thinking and happiness. . I believe if you put positive things in your mind. . it will keep you going. . will pull you out

of any rut that you may be in. . We have to get rid of the negativity in our lives. . things that bring us down. . so that we can move

forward.

MFP: EVERYONE HERE: you are stronger than you think you are. . you are going to move forward and get where you want to go. . no looking back. . we will conquer it. .

freshstart4me

xoxo

screw the nay-sayers...theyre fake as **** anyways...

freshstart4me

awww, jade 122 views and nothing? they must be scuuurrred...

bonjour24

hi jade 39. thanks for telling us so much about you! i wish you look on your journey- you sound nice.

Jade_Butterfly

awww, jade 122 views and nothing? they must be scuuurrred...

No worries. . I put it out there just so that people could get to know the real me. . I am human. . not perfect, have an extremely busy life, but am a lover. . love people. . love supporting each other. . strengthening one another. . and when we SCREW up OWNING OUR MISTAKES. . . . . apologizing and moving on. . . So I figured if I put up a forum. . anyone who LOVES ME or DISLIKES me. . can come and ask me QUESTIONS. . I like having things all out in the open.

Jade_Butterfly

hi jade 39. thanks for telling us so much about you! i wish you look on your journey- you sound nice.

Thank you hon. . I wish you all the best on your journey as well.

bonjour24

awww, jade 122 views and nothing? they must be scuuurrred...

No worries. . I put it out there just so that people could get to know the real me. . I am human. . not perfect, have an extremely busy life, but am a lover. . love people. . love supporting each other. . strengthening one another. . and when we SCREW up OWNING OUR MISTAKES. . . . . apologizing and moving on. . . So I figured if I put up a forum. . anyone who LOVES ME or DISLIKES me. . can come and ask me QUESTIONS. . I like having things all out in the open.

but i don't have any questions for you. you've pretty much said everything in your intro!

Krull_the_WarriorKing

Nice post. I don't know you very well but from my observation you do seem to make posts just to get people going. Whether that is your intent that is the perception. Of course this is just my opinion and I could be wrong. Just seems like you're the one that continues to post these harmless topics that you know will get 100 comments and the use the opportunity to get those reported.

Just my two cents. I hope my observations are wrong.

Jade_Butterfly

Nice post. I don't know you very well but from my observation you do seem to make posts just to get people going. Whether that is your intent that is the perception. Of course this is just my opinion and I could be wrong. Just seems like you're the one that continues to post these harmless topics that you know will get 100 comments and the use the opportunity to get those reported.

Just my two cents. I hope my observations are wrong.

Thank you so much for your post. . . as no that certainly is not my intention. . I don't want people getting reported for anything. . I am actually a very laid back person. .

I just wanted the opportunity to put out there WHO I am . . and Who I am not. . so that perhaps some things being said could be alayed. . I really want to be friendly with everyone here. . We are all here to support one another and I am a firm believer in Love and never going to bed angry. .

So I just wanted to lay everything out here in the open. . Wishing you the best. . again thank you for your view.

Krull_the_WarriorKing

Maybe you should also consider who they are also. Just because you have one view doesn't mean others are wrong. This site isn't about who you are or who I am, but rather building a support staff from our common goal of health. Fitness is our tree but there are many branches on the tree. I love my branches, but you don't have to. Let those who you don't agree with talk to those that do have a common thread. Seems like all the problems here start when people jump in to something they have no interest in.

Contrarian

Hi Jade. Thank you for introducing yourself. Because we are all different, may I ask what things you would consider to be vulgar or crude?

Thanks!

Contrarian

Jade_Butterfly

Maybe you should also consider who they are also. Just because you have one view doesn't mean others are wrong. This site isn't about who you are or who I am, but rather building a support staff from our common goal of health. Fitness is our tree but there are many branches on the tree. I love my branches, but you don't have to. Let those who you don't agree with talk to those that do have a common thread. Seems like all the problems here start when people jump in to something they have no interest in.

Agreed. . WE have many personalities and are all unique. . that is what makes this site great. . We all come together for one common purpose and goal! So no matter what we all support one another. . Thank you for your honesty. . I really appreciate it.

Jade_Butterfly

Hi Jade. Thank you for introducing yourself. Because we are all different, may I ask what things you would consider to be vulgar or crude?

Thanks!

Contrarian

Most certainly. . Thank you for your question. I don't prefer foul language. . But again that's me. .

charityateet

Is it hard for you to go on the forums where people are having fun and there are inuendos thrown around?

reepobob

Hi Jade. Thank you for introducing yourself. Because we are all different, may I ask what things you would consider to be vulgar or crude?

Thanks!

Contrarian

Yeah, I'd like to know as well... A lot of my friends have left due to increased policing on this site and would like to know what less open minded people think...

Jade_Butterfly

Is it hard for you to go on the forums where people are having fun and there are inuendos thrown around?

Yes and no. . . I believe that with our fitness journey we all need to have a time of relaxation where we can just kick off our shoes and not think about life.

I love to joke around actually. .and I can put out innuendos with the best of them, but do I think that in an open fitness forum is the proper area for that too take place ? not particularly. . That is more private forum, FB, or peoples walls. .

Jade_Butterfly

Hi Jade. Thank you for introducing yourself. Because we are all different, may I ask what things you would consider to be vulgar or crude?

Thanks!

Contrarian

Yeah, I'd like to know as well... A lot of my friends have left due to increased policing on this site and would like to know what less open minded people think...

Hi bob.. Thank you for stopping in and thank you for your question. . And AGAIN. . this is just me personally . . . I find Explicit language and cuss words to be offensive. . I don't know how many people are offended by these things. It is also the context in which it is used. .

I think as I said that everyone needs to have time to have fun. . (LET THEIR HAIR DOWN) so to speak. . it is more about where it is appropriate to do so. . I would say private forums, FB or WALLS. . Or if you have a particular group that you click really well with make a room outside of MFP that you can goof off in. . I know on FB you can make group chat rooms. . Just a thought.

So in answer there is a time and place for everything in life.

charityateet

Is it hard for you to go on the forums where people are having fun and there are inuendos thrown around?

Yes and no. . . I believe that with our fitness journey we all need to have a time of relaxation where we can just kick off our shoes and not think about life.

I love to joke around actually. .and I can put out innuendos with the best of them, but do I think that in an open fitness forum is the proper area for that too take place ? not particularly. . That is more private forum, FB, or peoples walls. .

I can't wait for the private boards.......because the thing is - some people's idea of relaxing and joking around is totally different than others - and while someone might be offended by something I say.......someone else is lol'ing and relieving stress from maybe a crappy day (can I say crap?) and then.......well, they might be having FUN - and well, someone dosen't like their idea of fun...and boom - reported.......so yea. Can't wait for groups! :flowerforyou:

Jade_Butterfly

Is it hard for you to go on the forums where people are having fun and there are inuendos thrown around?

Yes and no. . . I believe that with our fitness journey we all need to have a time of relaxation where we can just kick off our shoes and not think about life.

I love to joke around actually. .and I can put out innuendos with the best of them, but do I think that in an open fitness forum is the proper area for that too take place ? not particularly. . That is more private forum, FB, or peoples walls. .

I can't wait for the private boards.......because the thing is - some people's idea of relaxing and joking around is totally different than others - and while someone might be offended by something I say.......someone else is lol'ing and relieving stress from maybe a crappy day (can I say crap?) and then.......well, they might be having FUN - and well, someone dosen't like their idea of fun...and boom - reported.......so yea. Can't wait for groups! :flowerforyou:

Lol. . much agreed. . I can't wait then we don't have to worry about getting in trouble or offending the masses. . . :bigsmile:

FindingFit50s

awww, jade 122 views and nothing? they must be scuuurrred...

No worries. . I put it out there just so that people could get to know the real me. . I am human. . not perfect, have an extremely busy life, but am a lover. . love people. . love supporting each other. . strengthening one another. . and when we SCREW up OWNING OUR MISTAKES. . . . . apologizing and moving on. . . So I figured if I put up a forum. . anyone who LOVES ME or DISLIKES me. . can come and ask me QUESTIONS. . I like having things all out in the open.

Why do suppose you so many people would view your post without commenting on it? And what do you think of the suggestion that people aren't commenting on it because they're so-called "scuuurrred" to do so? Are you aware that you have a reputation as someone who purposely looks for threads that you can report as "inappropriate"? How do you explain having developed such a reputation?

Slinkybaz

I read your post with interest. I would like to purchase some of your knitted Jewellery.

charityateet

Is it hard for you to go on the forums where people are having fun and there are inuendos thrown around?

Yes and no. . . I believe that with our fitness journey we all need to have a time of relaxation where we can just kick off our shoes and not think about life.

I love to joke around actually. .and I can put out innuendos with the best of them, but do I think that in an open fitness forum is the proper area for that too take place ? not particularly. . That is more private forum, FB, or peoples walls. .

I can't wait for the private boards.......because the thing is - some people's idea of relaxing and joking around is totally different than others - and while someone might be offended by something I say.......someone else is lol'ing and relieving stress from maybe a crappy day (can I say crap?) and then.......well, they might be having FUN - and well, someone dosen't like their idea of fun...and boom - reported.......so yea. Can't wait for groups! :flowerforyou:

Lol. . much agreed. . I can't wait then we don't have to worry about getting in trouble or offending the masses. . . :bigsmile:

Ohhhh! That's awesome! Are you like, you know, like FUN?? I mean, so you are worried about offending people? Awesome!! woo hoo!

Jade_Butterfly

awww, jade 122 views and nothing? they must be scuuurrred...

No worries. . I put it out there just so that people could get to know the real me. . I am human. . not perfect, have an extremely busy life, but am a lover. . love people. . love supporting each other. . strengthening one another. . and when we SCREW up OWNING OUR MISTAKES. . . . . apologizing and moving on. . . So I figured if I put up a forum. . anyone who LOVES ME or DISLIKES me. . can come and ask me QUESTIONS. . I like having things all out in the open.

Why do suppose you so many people would view your post without commenting on it? And what do you think of the suggestion that people aren't commenting on it because they're so-called "scuuurrred" to do so? Are you aware that you have a reputation as someone who purposely looks for threads that you can report as "inappropriate"? How do you explain having developed such a reputation?

Thank you. . Yes I am aware of this proposed reputation. . This is WHY I came here an posted a bit about me. . Hoping to get to TRULY get to know people and hopefully dispel any rumors. .

I think that in life people assume much without taking time to talk to someone person to person. . and that is not fair. . I am me. . As I said I love people. . We all are ROCKERS here and I would love it if we just kicked back and got along. . So yes by all means.. . ask me anything you like. .

I am not concerned with the amount of views. . . I am more interested in being open and getting rid of any possible negative vibes and or rumors. .

Jade_Butterfly

Is it hard for you to go on the forums where people are having fun and there are inuendos thrown around?

Yes and no. . . I believe that with our fitness journey we all need to have a time of relaxation where we can just kick off our shoes and not think about life.

I love to joke around actually. .and I can put out innuendos with the best of them, but do I think that in an open fitness forum is the proper area for that too take place ? not particularly. . That is more private forum, FB, or peoples walls. .

I can't wait for the private boards.......because the thing is - some people's idea of relaxing and joking around is totally different than others - and while someone might be offended by something I say.......someone else is lol'ing and relieving stress from maybe a crappy day (can I say crap?) and then.......well, they might be having FUN - and well, someone dosen't like their idea of fun...and boom - reported.......so yea. Can't wait for groups! :flowerforyou:

Lol. . much agreed. . I can't wait then we don't have to worry about getting in trouble or offending the masses. . . :bigsmile:

Ohhhh! That's awesome! Are you like, you know, like FUN?? I mean, so you are worried about offending people? Awesome!! woo hoo!

I can be a fun person. . . . like I said I just think there is a time and place for everything.:bigsmile:

Jade_Butterfly

I read your post with interest. I would like to purchase some of your knitted Jewellery.

Coolness. . making accessories is one of my true passions in life. . but per MFP rules. . if you would like more info please feel free to PM me about it. Have a nice night.

Krull_the_WarriorKing

People aren't responding because as I
Mentioned above this is looked at as a post to instigate negative comments and people are staying away due to excessive policing of boards and now walls. No one knows what will or won't get them served with a warning so nothing at all will be said. The end result of this crackdown is that people will lose the social benefit of this website.

On a side note- there is a good chance for sexual commentary on a site like this as people who maybe didn't feel sexy before are coming out of their shell as part of their weight loss. I say let loose and do what makes you happy.

Rachaelluvszipped

I like you Jade! Just the way you are:flowerforyou:

TheNewLK

People aren't responding because as I
Mentioned above this is looked at as a post to instigate negative comments and people are staying away due to excessive policing of boards and now walls. No one knows what will or won't get them served with a warning so nothing at all will be said. The end result of this crackdown is that people will lose the social benefit of this website.

On a side note- there is a good chance for sexual commentary on a site like this as people who maybe didn't feel sexy before are coming out of their shell as part of their weight loss. I say let loose and do what makes you happy.

Agreed. **walks out **

reese66

People aren't responding because as I
Mentioned above this is looked at as a post to instigate negative comments and people are staying away due to excessive policing of boards and now walls. No one knows what will or won't get them served with a warning so nothing at all will be said. The end result of this crackdown is that people will lose the social benefit of this website.

On a side note- there is a good chance for sexual commentary on a site like this as people who maybe didn't feel sexy before are coming out of their shell as part of their weight loss. I say let loose and do what makes you happy.

Agreed. **walks out **

RocketsGirl75

People aren't responding because as I
Mentioned above this is looked at as a post to instigate negative comments and people are staying away due to excessive policing of boards and now walls. No one knows what will or won't get them served with a warning so nothing at all will be said. The end result of this crackdown is that people will lose the social benefit of this website.

On a side note- there is a good chance for sexual commentary on a site like this as people who maybe didn't feel sexy before are coming out of their shell as part of their weight loss. I say let loose and do what makes you happy.

Agreed. **walks out **

Agreed. **takes Shannon's hand**

CaWaterBug8

People aren't responding because as I
Mentioned above this is looked at as a post to instigate negative comments and people are staying away due to excessive policing of boards and now walls. No one knows what will or won't get them served with a warning so nothing at all will be said. The end result of this crackdown is that people will lose the social benefit of this website.

On a side note- there is a good chance for sexual commentary on a site like this as people who maybe didn't feel sexy before are coming out of their shell as part of their weight loss. I say let loose and do what makes you happy.

Agreed. **walks out **

Agreed. **takes Shannon's hand**

Agreed. Hey guys wait up!!:flowerforyou: