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msstillion79

Ok first thank you for the most part of anwering my topic. I was so frustrated yesterday when i wrote that and i ended up goin with him to his work to get his check which is about an hour away and we talked i had to raise my voice but then he listened to me full hearted We have had other issues besides that word in our relationship since i have become i call it "back" i was sick for two years i mean the kind of sick that u think u will never come back from i had a allergic reaction to medicine and i was in a deep depression to the point of being deathly scared to go out of my house i lived in my room things in my home were not under control at all and i finally got the help that i needed to go on then i started my weight loss journey and in returned i grew emotionally and relized i wanted a man to help me to be on the same level and not fight with the kids to help me and he wasnt willing to change cause he didnt believe that is what i truely wanted after our talk he understand that him helping in the little things helps my stress level It isnt that he is jealous of me losing weight and wanting to get healthy its him not wanting to step up and be more of a front runner in our family Well last night and this morning have been wonderful he is helping with our kids that we had lost control of while i was sick thats all . Not everyone is jealous is why they back off I am sorry that i started agurments bewteen people that isnt what i wanted Everyone have a great day and take care:drinker: :flowerforyou: