OK Rantin N Motivation Wanted!!!

lenece

OK...Here goes...I have a lil ranting I want to do....I this site..I have made many new friends and found alot of new things to help me out...I know we didnt put this weight on over night n its not gonna come off over night..Thats my lil sayin at the end of every post...But have you ever just felt like no matter what you do at times you suck...Well I'm not tryin to bring neone down this is just the way I feel right now at this point in time...I got the 30 Day shred finally today in the mail..I couldnt even get through level 1 how flippin sad it that :mad: ..Really sad in my book...I want to be healthy but my bf is not helping matters much...He's glad I'm losing weight n wants me too but he cooks like you wouldnt beleive..He really should of been a chef, I'm not kidding he cooks that good...But he knows I want to lose weight but yet n I quote "I'm glad you are losing weight and getting helathy, But I dont want you to skinny" end quote..What the heck is that about..Come on I want to be as skinny as possible..I'm SO SICK OF BEING A FATA$$...I'm done, I'm tired of being tired, I'm sick of the fat clothes the looks the stares the comments..Other mothers thinking they are better then my cuz they wear a size 2 ...Please what is wrong with the world today...I'M SO SICK OF BEING JUGDED!!!!! I feel like a failure cuz I am a failure..Theres just days like today I want to walk away n throw in the towel...I'm not looking for flippin sympathy here I am just ranting like a mad woman..This is one place I can go n no one yell at me or anything like that...I'm sorry if I crossed the line on nehting or offened anyone..Hope everyone is having a better day then me..
Thanks Dana

lenece

OK...Here goes...I have a lil ranting I want to do....I this site..I have made many new friends and found alot of new things to help me out...I know we didnt put this weight on over night n its not gonna come off over night..Thats my lil sayin at the end of every post...But have you ever just felt like no matter what you do at times you suck...Well I'm not tryin to bring neone down this is just the way I feel right now at this point in time...I got the 30 Day shred finally today in the mail..I couldnt even get through level 1 how flippin sad it that :mad: ..Really sad in my book...I want to be healthy but my bf is not helping matters much...He's glad I'm losing weight n wants me too but he cooks like you wouldnt beleive..He really should of been a chef, I'm not kidding he cooks that good...But he knows I want to lose weight but yet n I quote "I'm glad you are losing weight and getting helathy, But I dont want you to skinny" end quote..What the heck is that about..Come on I want to be as skinny as possible..I'm SO SICK OF BEING A FATA$$...I'm done, I'm tired of being tired, I'm sick of the fat clothes the looks the stares the comments..Other mothers thinking they are better then my cuz they wear a size 2 ...Please what is wrong with the world today...I'M SO SICK OF BEING JUGDED!!!!! I feel like a failure cuz I am a failure..Theres just days like today I want to walk away n throw in the towel...I'm not looking for flippin sympathy here I am just ranting like a mad woman..This is one place I can go n no one yell at me or anything like that...I'm sorry if I crossed the line on nehting or offened anyone..Hope everyone is having a better day then me..
Thanks Dana

ChubbyBunny

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ONAMISSION

I UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH. WHENEVER I TRY TO EAT SOMETHING A LITTLE HEALTHIER THAN HIM HE SAYS THAT I AM STUPID FOR WATCHING WHAT I EAT AND SAYS I SHOULD JUST EAT WHAT I WANT. HE ALSO SAYS THAT I AM OBSESSED WITH LOOSING WEIGHT.







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memaw66

Hey, you have already lost over 100 lbs! How could you consider yourself a failure?????
Failure happens when you give up! Like the old saying goes "Quitters never win and winners never quit!" So you're having a bad day, it happens. Believe me, I have started over on this weight loss journey more times than I care to remember but I refuse to give up and I am still just at 4lbs lost! How I wish my ticker could say 100lbs!!! Tell that boyfriend of yours that you are losing weight for YOU not HIM and if he loves you he will love you skinny too! Sometimes it's just insecurity that makes them say that. If you have a strong solid relationship he has nothing to worry about. So tell him to start cooking right or you will have to eat something else.

Now, you pick yourself up, put a smile on that beautiful face of yours and have a wonderful rest of the day!!!!

Memaw:flowerforyou:

gsschulte

I totally hear you. i work two jobs so some days i walk into the gym and feel to tired to get it moving. some days it works out and i glide through and never notice. and then there are the other days.

my shoes don't flex right, i feel every step and sweat gets in my eyes, and wahhhhhhh. i just do the minimum i can do which is 30 minutes at a 5.0 jog. and then the days i feel great i can run the 6.5 miles i like to run at the slightly higher 5.5. just do your best everyday and accept that it takes time to be where we should be.

Jelybe

I had my own little rant yesterday. We definitely have our phases and breaking points and times when we can be positive and times when we just need to RANT and be upset with the whole world! LOL

I think it much better to be upset when we don't see progress, than to get comfortable at a weight we know isn't best for us. It's motivating!

So get angry and go take it out for a long calorie burning walk! And tomorrow get a little further w/ the 30 day shred than today. Show it who is boss! You'll probably also burn off some of that frustration too - happy accident.

lenece

Thanks ladies..I'm soooo sorry I just flew away at the mouth..I've been totaly stressed out for the last year of my life n somethings r still in termoil in my life that I jsut cant shut out...wish I could but it cant happen that way...I just wish I could go hide for a bit..but maybe things will be better tomorrow...have a great night everyone..Thanks again ladies:flowerforyou: