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Maybe be TMI- SEX but not feeling sexy- vent

mscoco10
mscoco10 Posts: 527 Member
edited October 2024 in Motivation and Support
Okay, so i've never been small but never big either. I've always worked really hard to keep my weight in check. Well since moving to a new state, having a baby, job BS, etc the weight just piled on. I really started not to like who i saw in the mirror.

My BF and i have been together 3yrs and we both have strong sexually desires. Since gaining the weight i just didn't wanna have sex. Now he's no Morris Chesnutt but i just felt so uncomfortable. We went from anytime and where to every once in while only in complete darkness. He did be-friend some other women and had some very inapporaite conversations which i confronted him about. He let me know i just seemed very unahppy and he felt like i showed him no affection. I let him know that no matter what size or weight i may be i know my worth. All these other women are "Non Factors" and I will not be disrespected. We are working on our relationship becuase it takes two.

I started working out and losing weight and i feel much better. He see's my weight loss and is wanting more sex and romance. I'm still having a hard time getting back to being comfortable getting undressed in front of him. This weight has really taken away something I enjoy. I know that sex is a very important but its just bugs me. I can't wait til i can feel like my old self and just enjoy life and the people in it.
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