NSV and a story about an ex.....

Maryaly40

So, I had an NSV this week. I bought bikini underwear and they don't roll down my "used to be there" roll LOL! Ladies, you'll know EXACTLY what I mean...maybe some men will too Now on to my lil story:

I'm happily married for 6 years, together for 10. However, I was previously married, but had no children with that man. I haven't seen him in 7 years. Well, his father passed away and tonight is the viewing. I'm going to go and pay my respects to his mom as she was very good to me while we were married. Now, I'm 45 lbs lighter and he may not even recognize me LOL It's a horribly sad occasion but I can't help but feel like I want to shove it in his face on how great I look! Does this make me a bad person?

Elizabeth_C34

You're not a bad person, but do remember the funeral is about his family, not you. Just be tasteful

SexyCook

So, I had an NSV this week. I bought bikini underwear and they don't roll down my "used to be there" roll LOL! Ladies, you'll know EXACTLY what I mean...maybe some men will too Now on to my lil story:

I'm happily married for 6 years, together for 10. However, I was previously married, but had no children with that man. I haven't seen him in 7 years. Well, his father passed away and tonight is the viewing. I'm going to go and pay my respects to his mom as she was very good to me while we were married. Now, I'm 45 lbs lighter and he may not even recognize me LOL It's a horribly sad occasion but I can't help but feel like I want to shove it in his face on how great I look! Does this make me a bad person?

Nope nothing like making an ex Mouth be open like WOW!! Love that!

AwesomelyAmber

:happy: I think your feelings make perfect sense

bluiz13

not at all....just be there to show your respect to his family and "gloat" on the inside about how great you look...no one but "US" needs to know how you are feeling.....

Maryaly40

Ok, so I went and I paid my respects. His mother was delighted to see me and HE looked at me once and wouldn't look again! LOL I then left with grace.......it felt pretty good! Thanks for your replys......now there's one other "ex" I would love to see :devil:

Elizabeth_C34

Ok, so I went and I paid my respects. His mother was delighted to see me and HE looked at me once and wouldn't look again! LOL I then left with grace.......it felt pretty good! Thanks for your replys......now there's one other "ex" I would love to see :devil:

A_New_Horizon

Just be respectful but it is nice to have an ex's mouth drop. I didn't have an ex's mouth drop, but I did have an old crush from high school make a doubletake at our high school reunion. I had a crush on this guy for years, and he wouldn't give me the time of day. At the reunion now, he has gained major weight whereas I am much smaller than what I was in high school. It is an amazing feeling.