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syiyi
syiyi Posts: 341 Member
edited October 2024 in Chit-Chat
How often do you tell your gf or wife that you love them??

If you don't do you get upset when asked: Do you love me?

just curious.. because my bf hates me asking him :/

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  • evanblove
    evanblove Posts: 82 Member
    I tell my wife every day. She doesn't need to ask because I also show her I love her by my actions.
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,450 Member
    She doesn't need to ask because I also show her I love her by my actions.

    This is where it counts most. :flowerforyou:
  • Busyboymomx3
    Busyboymomx3 Posts: 110 Member
    when i ask mine if he loves me he says, "of course sweetie, with all my heart"....but cant look away from Madden to do it
  • syiyi
    syiyi Posts: 341 Member
    I tell my wife every day. She doesn't need to ask because I also show her I love her by my actions.


    :flowerforyou:
  • thesmellofapples
    thesmellofapples Posts: 287 Member
    we say it constantly throughout the day and it kind of lost it's meaning. it's more of a general way to say goodbye when we leave for work and stuff. but now we occasionally say "i'm in love with you" and that holds special meaning because it means that either of us are feeling a larger amount of emotion than normal and feel the other should know how much we love each other. the 'i'm-in-love-with-yous' only occur about 2 times a month, respectively.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    I tell those that I love every time we are together. I end everey phone conversation with "I Love You." The fist thing I tell my wife each day and the last thing is "I Love You".

    My wife has never asked me if I loved her. She never tires of hearing me tell her and I never tire of hearing it either.

    There will be those that say it is losing meaning when you say it so often. To those people, I say: "I'm sorry you don't have that kind of love in your life."
  • syiyi
    syiyi Posts: 341 Member
    I tell those that I love every time we are together. I end everey phone conversation with "I Love You." The fist thing I tell my wife each day and the last thing is "I Love You".

    My wife has never asked me if I loved her. She never tires of hearing me tell her and I never tire of hearing it either.

    There will be those that say it is losing meaning when you say it so often. To those people, I say: "I'm sorry you don't have that kind of love in your life."

    :flowerforyou:
  • Captain_Mal
    Captain_Mal Posts: 945 Member
    We never ask each other. We say it a bazillion times a day, when we wake up, when he leaves, when he calls, when we hug, when he comes home, etc. It just comes out naturally. I don't say it to just say it, I do love him and love everything he does for me. It does depend on the person though. Not everyone feels like they need to say it all the time.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    We never ask each other. We say it a bazillion times a day, when we wake up, when he leaves, when he calls, when we hug, when he comes home, etc. It just comes out naturally. I don't say it to just say it, I do love him and love everything he does for me. It does depend on the person though. Not everyone feels like they need to say it all the time.

    She speaks the truth. Words are worthless by themselves.
  • liftingbro
    liftingbro Posts: 2,029 Member
    We don't tell each other we love each other very often but that's because neither of use needs the verbal confirmation. We do things to show each other that we love them. If i'm feeling exceptionally lucky to have her (above normal), I will tell her but it's not a daily occurrence.

    I write her little notes, send here flowers at work, send her chocolate covered strawberries or a funny letter and footie jammies. Simple things too like being there the minute she needs me any time. If she calls me at work and needs me now, done, home in 10 minutes. I would drop everything if she needs me and I think that's one way of making sure they know you love them.
  • anubis609
    anubis609 Posts: 3,966 Member
    I express my love through carpal dexterity and bedroom Olympia.
  • tebbs915
    tebbs915 Posts: 130 Member
    We tell each other we love each other every day, all day long. We never ask if we love each other, but we often joke and say "how much do you love me?" that's our way of keeping each other smiling. we never tire of hearing and never feel as though its lost its meaning.

    i believe true love needs to be communicated, felt, and experienced to its fullest. :heart:
  • liftingbro
    liftingbro Posts: 2,029 Member
    I express my love through carpal dexterity and bedroom Olympia.

    I guess mine is more like P90X "bring it, do your best and forget the rest". :laugh:
  • LaPistolaSexola
    LaPistolaSexola Posts: 243 Member
    I express my love through carpal dexterity and bedroom Olympia.
    this.
  • BigDaddyBRC
    BigDaddyBRC Posts: 2,395 Member
    Rule of thumb for the Romantic...you say it as many times as it comes to your brain...together or not.

    You show it every chance you get...
  • Abbey70
    Abbey70 Posts: 82 Member
    My husband and I tell each other we love one another several times a day. When we are to part for work or whatever we always give one another a kiss and tell each other we love one another. You never know if something tragic may happen and so we want our last words upon parting for work, ect to be I love you!!
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