Annoyed!

CrystalFlury
CrystalFlury Posts: 400 Member
edited October 4 in Motivation and Support
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  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    Maybe she is just trying to be supportive and remind you that you don't have far to go.
  • CrystalFlury
    CrystalFlury Posts: 400 Member
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  • deadstarsunburn
    deadstarsunburn Posts: 1,337 Member
    I don't know her but from what I read maybe it was just to keep the conversation going? Didn't sound like a jab, maybe just her own way of encouraging. Generally speaking you wouldn't have extra skin from a ten pound loss but like you mentioned she hasn't been over weight so she wouldn't really know. Don't stress give her the benefit of the doubt =].
    Great work by the way!
  • deadstarsunburn
    deadstarsunburn Posts: 1,337 Member
    I don't know her but from what I read maybe it was just to keep the conversation going? Didn't sound like a jab, maybe just her own way of encouraging. Generally speaking you wouldn't have extra skin from a ten pound loss but like you mentioned she hasn't been over weight so she wouldn't really know. Don't stress give her the benefit of the doubt =].
    Great work by the way!
  • CrystalFlury
    CrystalFlury Posts: 400 Member
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  • deadstarsunburn
    deadstarsunburn Posts: 1,337 Member
    I don't know her but from what I read maybe it was just to keep the conversation going? Didn't sound like a jab, maybe just her own way of encouraging. Generally speaking you wouldn't have extra skin from a ten pound loss but like you mentioned she hasn't been over weight so she wouldn't really know. Don't stress give her the benefit of the doubt =].
    Great work by the way!
  • lor007
    lor007 Posts: 884 Member
    She's just jealous!! --Just kidding.

    Would you have rather said it looks like you have a lot of fat on your stomach left to lose? She is interested in your progress and is being supportive. Sounds like a good friend.
  • MrsCon40
    MrsCon40 Posts: 2,351 Member
    I think that you can rest easy that she's not jealous or getting a dig in. I am pretty sure she was just being complimentary.

    She might also be hurt that you would think otherwise, so I would just put it behind me if I were you.

    :flowerforyou:
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    that's kinda what my boyfriend was saying when I told him. I don't take "you might have extra skin" as a supportive comment :-/, to me it means, well, there's no hope in the world of your belly ever being flat without plastic surgery! See what I mean?

    Uh...no. I think you are reading way too much into it.
  • FearAnLoathing
    FearAnLoathing Posts: 4,852 Member
    that's kinda what my boyfriend was saying when I told him. I don't take "you might have extra skin" as a supportive comment :-/, to me it means, well, there's no hope in the world of your belly ever being flat without plastic surgery! See what I mean?

    Uh...no. I think you are reading way too much into it.


    ^^^^yeah this!
  • sallyv22
    sallyv22 Posts: 22
    Honestly, you know her better than anyone, and the decision is yours.... I have had a few toxic friends in my lifetime... and two of them had alot of bearing/ jealousy or gloating with weight.. and in turn that lead to me competing with them and leading to unhealthy descisions......
  • ilookthetype
    ilookthetype Posts: 3,021 Member
    that's kinda what my boyfriend was saying when I told him. I don't take "you might have extra skin" as a supportive comment :-/, to me it means, well, there's no hope in the world of your belly ever being flat without plastic surgery! See what I mean?

    Uh...no. I think you are reading way too much into it.


    ^^^^yeah this!

    Three agree, motion passes.
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