How do you guys keep motivated !?

mabbett1990

Ive tried this website three times, and ive tried losing weight too many times to even count. I just can not stick to it at all!! someone please help me

0PhAtDaDdY

I just wanted to look better, feel better, and I have a 7yo daughter to raise....That's it for me!!

dkvote

Once you have commitment...motivation comes easy! At least that is what works for me! Good luck!

MrsFusion

You really have to WANT to do it for YOURSELF....trust me, I know from experience! I tried many, many, many times before too...but, I was doing it for the wrong reasons. This time I'm totally doing it for ME! And it's working!!!

Best wishes on your journey
Add me if you like for support!

shovav91

If your reasons for wanting to do what you're doing (health, family, your future) are important to you, it's worth skipping that extra cupcake or getting yourself to the gym. Think long and hard about if your reasons are more than just shallow ones (while helpful at the beginning, they aren't enough to keep you motivated).
Tell yourself results will come eventually- it took time to put on weight and it will take time to work it off. Stick to it, take full advantage of the supportive community here and you will see results! Good luck!

corinneselene

I have to set goals. I have a wedding coming up in May that I need to look amazing for, obviously! Besides that, I try and reward myself. I refuse to buy myself this awesome lingerie set (that I really want) from Victoria's secret until I have logged 5 weeks of exercise. It is also amazing to know that your MFP friends are practically waiting for you to log and complete your diary for the day. For me, that is motivating enough- I don't want to let them or myself down!

fitzie63

Welcome to my Heart Healthy World
The Making of the New You


Welcome to the beginning of your new, healthier lifestyle. You have embarked on a great program where you are the only one “in charge” of your own personally developed nutrition and exercise program on My Fitness Pal (MFP).

From my age of 18 until the present, more than a 55 year adult life span, I have lost and re-gained from between 30 to 75 pounds in my life so many times (the yo-yo dieting syndrome), if I had not done that I would weigh over 800 pounds (IF I was still alive).

On 15 November 2010, a good friend and I were visiting ladies in our church and I was telling her how depressed I was over my frustration in trying to stop being overweight. She told me how one of her adult sons (she & her husband raised 10 children) had lost a whole lot of weight using this free online food and exercise diary program. I went home that afternoon and checked the web site carefully and said, “YES”! I started the program the next morning.

From that first day, 16 November 2010, I started accurately weighing or measuring (depending upon the food/fluid item), leveling off all excess quantities & recording it all on MFP. You may look at my photos and statistics and scoff while thinking that I didn’t have very much weight to lose. Please consider this, 35 extra pounds on my short, very small body frame is not much different than 75 or even 100 extra pounds on a taller person with a larger body frame. It has taken me more than nine very long, very slow months to shed all but the last 1.1 pounds.

To begin, you should have the proper tools for accuracy and ease of staying with your program. Those are:

A digital food scale
An individual set of 4 measuring cups: ¼ c, 1/3 c, ½ c, 1 c
An individual set of measuring spoons: ¼ tsp., ½ tsp., 1 tsp., 1 tblsp.
A small, straight blade spatula or knife for leveling off all excess quantities

START THINKING DIFFERENTLY but do NOT think “diet”. Use the lighter, lower calorie mayonnaise (that has olive oil). Look at the various brands of lower calorie margarine spreads that also have olive oil. SHOP DIFFERENTLY in the SUPERMARKET. Allow a lot more time when you shop. Do NOT pick up items and put them in the shopping cart until you have carefully READ every single label. REMEMBER THIS: All ingredients are listed in order of highest quantity to lowest. If the first 4 items on the ingredients say: salt, sodium, corn syrup or any form of sugar, dextrose, maltose, or other sugar forms, buy something else. High sodium contents will prevent you from losing weight well & can cause water retention as well as cardiac overload. When we’re packing around all those extra pounds, our hearts are already over-worked. All our body systems work as a team so when one organ system is out of whack, so is everything else. Prepared or frozen foods are nearly always overloaded with sodium and fats. Low calorie is not always low sugar nor low fat. “Healthy” is not always labeled correctly. Once you become an avid “label reading shopper”, you will learn which items work best for you and which ones to avoid.

Beware of well-meaning family members, friends or even co-workers who think they know what is best for you. You are the only person who knows how you feel and what will help you become successful in achieving your personal healthy goal. I believe in your unique ability to be successful. You can and will succeed if you keep following your program faithfully by taking things one meal at a time/one day at a time on a continuous basis. I have had some former MFP users complain about “too much counting”. It does not take me any more extra time to take the proper measuring spoon to level off my single PORTION of mayonnaise or mustard that it used to by just dipping the spoon in the jar and dumping a lump of stuff on the plate, the food or the bread. Then we have, what I call, the “enablers”. Those are the people who consciously or even sub-consciously, are out to keep you from being successful. They’re the “Oh, just one little piece of this dessert I made just for you won’t hurt you”. Or, I made all your favorite recipes for your birthday, Christmas dinner, etc. Just tell them that you’ve developed some difficult ALLERGIES and are under medical supervision (do not tell them anything more than that). You don’t have to tell them that the “allergies” make you “break out in FAT”. Then we have the proverbial, “You’re getting so thin, you’re going to get sick and end up in the hospital” types. They may even try to carry on by telling medical horror stories how someone they knew who ended up dying because of blah, blah, etc. Change the subject quickly and keep the conversation light and comfortable.

MFP tells us how much of each items chosen is ONE PORTION. It is up to us to tell the computer how much of the portion we plan to have or did have. I call this program a “no brainer” because the computer does all the work for me. All I have to do is look up the item in the database and select the correct product. Watch out for all the idiots who’ve monkeyed around with the database by putting in their own screwball versions of many items. As you first begin, keep that product label handy as you do your food diary recording so you can check before you add that item to your diary. As time goes on, you’ll understand how this works better.

You will soon get into the mode of thinking of “eat this…not that” of the items that you enjoy having that are working to help you reach your successful heart healthy ultimate goal.

GOAL SETTING: Please be extra kind to yourself and not set impossible goals. Think in terms of short-term, reachable goals for now. I started by using Dr. Mehmet Oz’s “Just 10” program, i.e. thinking in terms of just reaching the next set of 10 pounds off short-term goal.

I’m personally in this for the “long haul”. That means, I will be doing this for the rest of my life as long as the program is available and I have the capability of using it. If I stop keeping a daily food diary or stop weighing, measuring, etc., I know that I’ll end up piling the fat pounds right back on and never get them off again. Last November, I was in a full-blown DIABETES state and was sick all the time. I refuse to put my body through that ever again.

You WILL be successful because you’re a WINNER. I strongly believe that and believe in your ability to keep on winning.

Remember, you are in charge~~~no one else can ever take your place!

bigdaddycowgill

If your reasons for wanting to do what you're doing (health, family, your future) are important to you, it's worth skipping that extra cupcake or getting yourself to the gym. Think long and hard about if your reasons are more than just shallow ones (while helpful at the beginning, they aren't enough to keep you motivated).
Tell yourself results will come eventually- it took time to put on weight and it will take time to work it off. Stick to it, take full advantage of the supportive community here and you will see results! Good luck!

I couldn't agree more! The quick fix & "miracle" diets aren't going to make the weight stay off. It takes a change in lifestyle & you've gotta want it.

Carrie_D

I am so struggling with this very thing right now! I received some great replies so I thought I would send you the link to my post from last night.

Good Luck!

http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/374319-will-i-ever-really-make-it

fixeruppper

WOW, You are in inspiration.

voodoomoocow

Other than what people have said, I'm a product of social networking. I posted a thread asking if anyone needed encouragement and support and over 90 people replied and/or friend requested me. Now, I am holding my end of the bargain and that keeps me logging in everyday. I have 95 new friends who felt they needed some encouragement and I don't want to let anyone down, but more importantly, i don't want to let MYSELF down. I'm actually interested in what people post, and seeing what people are eating, how many calories they are burning, and what types of exercise they are doing keeps me on my game. I never had motivation to lose weight before, but now I have a community I enjoy being a part of, supportive friends, and not to mention the perks of free calorie/exercise counters. I really want to change my life for the better, and the social aspect of this is keeping me working towards my goal.

sonicat

it is tough,i agree. I think if you can have treats and not beat yourself up about it ,you can stay on plan 80% of the time.Its a lifelong struggle! but worth it!

Halothane

I've come to realize a few things. You have to want this for YOURSELF and nobody else and no other reasons.

I set a few goals, signed up for a 5K with a friend, and got myself a personal trainer. The rest is history.

When you're paying $165 per week for 3 1-hour personal training sessions you find your motivation to not be wasting your money and to begin cutting the fat and building the muscle.