teenage boys and sex

loved11

Uhg!!!!! Ok are they just dumb or what. My son 16. We have a good relationship, or I thought. Dad is notaround alot and we talk about all of it. Very candidly!!. Turns out he didn't tell me he had sex for the first time, actually lied. This happened couple ab months ago. They had sex and he broke up with her after then she thought she might be pregnant and he wouldn't talk to her. He was really horrible about it. So no protection, and no responsibility and just plain bad form. I really thought he at least had respect for women.

Can anyone enlighten me? How can i not be a grandma? How do I get him to see women deserve better.? What can I do different so he can feel he can come to me.