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Xtina_Beba

So I've been getting private messages from random people (obviously women) stating that they're taking offensive when I talk about my breast augmentation or suggest it and that it's hurtful to those with smaller cup sizes or who can't afford them. One, I never suggest anyone to have breast augmentation. I clearly stated that I was unhappy with the size and lift after nursing and weight loss so yes to make myself happy I bought myself a pair and yes I love the results. I sleep naked and walk around naked when I can. As for the price, just so everyone stops nagging my cost was less then 4 grand. So no I not narcissistic and spent 10 grand on boobs! The last thing, I'm not trying to be rude or hurtful to anyone with a smaller cup size; I just did what made me happy!


CONCLUSION: Stop private messaging me complaining about me...if you have time to private message me then you clearly have time to jump on the treadmill or take a trip to the gym. If you're unhappy with yourself then do something about it!

SueGremlin

That's kinda sad. It's not about them, it's about you Anyone who is offended needs to lighten up.

cmriverside

Unfortunately, I am afraid your thread is going to have the opposite result from what you had hoped.

If you draw attention to anything like that, expect attention.

Uerzer

Enjoy them! :flowerforyou:

MamaCat9

Good for you! Why are there always haters who have to put their negative on others?! Makes complete sense what you wanted, did and enjoy for YOURSELF! I hope to have a lift after losing all my weight, can't stand where they at now!
You go girl!

rudegyal_b

i cant believe people even care enough to complain about stuff like this..

CherrySunday

who cares?

JennW130

i dont see why anybody would take offense to that. its about you and what makes you feel good about yourself. Thats like somebody posting up a before/after pic and somebody PMing you saying you should take down your post because they find it offensive you lost more weight than them or something!

Xtina_Beba

Unfortunately, I am afraid your thread is going to have the opposite result from what you had hoped.

If you draw attention to anything like that, expect attention.

I just want the private messaging to stop! PERIOD!

Rain_Howard

If you seek attention for any reason don't complain when your receive it for the wrong reason.
Live your l life the way you want, not the way others think you should.

flatbellybella

they're your boobs enjoy them!

If they have all that time to sit there and message you... they obviously have no life of their own.

#teamBoobs Lol :drinker:

icemaiden17_uk

Totally agree!! That is rediculus!! Just ignor them they are not worth the trouble! People need to but out of other peoples lives and them get on with what makes them happy! We are all here for support and that is what we should get! If you don't have anything supporting to say then don't say anything!! I hope these people leave you alone! It is up to you what you do with your money and your body and as you abviously havent been forced into it by another I say good on you!

LorinaLynn

I have little boobies. No one else having bigger boobies, whether they've always had them or newly acquired them has any impact on how I feel about my own.

I'm quite content with the boobs I have. If I wasn't, that would be my own hang-up to deal with.

It's ridiculous. It's like saying I shouldn't post photos or talk about my weight loss because other people are still struggling to lose or feel bad about not losing. I found a way to reach the physical goals I had for myself. I'm willing to share what it took to get me there. That's no different than someone wanting an augmentation (or reduction) and letting people know what they did to reach those goals.

Xtina_Beba

If you seek attention for any reason don't complain when your receive it for the wrong reason.
Live your l life the way you want, not the way others think you should.

I commented on boob job posts and weight loss affecting cup size posts on the forum to peep sake. It's not like I'm randomly shouting to the world I have BIG BOOBS!

capriciousmoon

I don't see why people care... The only thing that matters is if you are happy. If those people aren't happy then they have to work through their issues or do something about it. You don't get what you want by complaining and being jealous of other people, you have to get out there and work for it.

macpatti

I have a hard time believing people would PM you just to say they're jealous and to ask you to stop talking about your purchase. I can't understand others caring that much.

sweetsarahj

Haters gonna hate... LOL.

I want fake boobs too.... once I get to my fitness goal, i might get them. I've had the consults, etc, but the doctor I want & type I want are hella expensive. Maybe next year

shovav91

That's shocking- do people really have nothing better to do than take stabs at your lifestyle choices?
If I could afford it, I would do it- but that doesn't mean that I am going to try to make you feel bad because you have something that I don't. This isn't middle school; I thought we were adults. I'm so sorry dear, this isn't fair to you. Don't take it personally, people envy you.

kittyr77

I don't think you have done anything wrong or why anyone would take offense at your personal choices?!
Hope the private messages stop!

SarabellPlus3

Wow, how many PMs did you get? That's crazy. Enjoy life, ignore crazy people. Good luck!

DiamondInTheDirt

Some people are basically insecure about themselves, so when you want to change something about your self then they attack you. But haters gonna hate. ignore the sad people. When i wanted to loose weight my other friends would plead with me not to even though i was big...because they were afraid i would look better then them. lol its always so nice to have a fat friend/an insecure friend who cries about something that they can change, that way others can feel superior to you. Enjoy your boobs though, ive been blessed in that area of life but if i wasnt i would probably get a boob job too. i love big boobs. loool

PRprincess

i cant believe people even care enough to complain about stuff like this..

I totally agree! Some people have either to much time on their hands, or they are very miserable. Enjoy them that is the reason you got them, for YOU no one else, Just ignore the haters!

4thehardman

I don't think that having a boob job is any different than getting a tummy tuck to remove baggy skin. I think that once I have lost the weight I would happily spend 4 or even the 10 grand if I had it to make my body the one I worked for (you can't fix everything with the 30 day shred after all!). I'm planning to lose over 100lbs. I will probably spend 4k on clothes alone when I'm done (I already have the boobs!)
This is bullying and so many of us here have been through this before. I agree it is not something that should be tolerated on MFP.

AZackery

I want to address bullying. This sites have bullies. And every chance they get, they will try to come at you. I'm not scared of bullies. Bullies are nothing but people that have low self esteem. If you notice, a bully can't stand alone. They have to have followers. A coward needs back up. The best thing to do with bullies is stand up to them first and then after you have said your peace, ignore them. They will eventually get the message.

Now, I want to address getting messages. Yes, people will go as far as to sending people messages, trying to give a person a piece of their mind. Just because you haven't gotten them, doesn't mean the next person hasn't gotten them.

If a person wants to get a boob job, nose job, tummy tuck or liposuction, let them. That's their body and money. They have to live with their choice. Never base your happiness on someone else.

I can't afford a lot of things, but I will not get upset with the person that can. If a woman wants a boob job, she should save up for it. It might take her a few years to get all the money, but if that's what you want, you will not care how long it takes you to get it.

keiraev

I can't believe people would actually waste their time sending those kind of messages- have they nothing better to do?

Someone on my friends list actually deleted their account recently coz she was getting hate mail from some girlwith an ED who was jealous she could eat 2000 calories a day and started calling her fat (she was far from fat and looked incredible actually).

Very sad.

TheBraveryLover

It's ridiculous that you're getting messages like that. Their insecurities about their body should have no bearing on what you should or should not post. Glad you didn't take what they said to heart.

DWilbanks

Would I go so far as to pm someone and tell them not to put that in their posts, NOPE.... Sheeshh... Dang people, you have a choice, normally the topic generally sets the tone for the post. If you think it's something that you would get offended by... don't click into it. I'm not a hater by any means, Do I wish it was me loosing the pounds right now, certainly but I can't get mad because someone else's diet is working for them, that's ridiculous. Seriously people need to grow the heck up!

karinaes

werd.
preach it girl!

Oishii

If you seek attention for any reason don't complain when your receive it for the wrong reason.
Live your l life the way you want, not the way others think you should.

I commented on boob job posts and weight loss affecting cup size posts on the forum to peep sake. It's not like I'm randomly shouting to the world I have BIG BOOBS!

Ah... Can I hazard a guess at what's happening?

Someone said their boobs had shrunk. You said you had got nice big, new ones, as that was your solution to the problem. However, whinging women don't want solutions, they want pity, so they (or people who aligned themselves with them) got offended. Ah... Women! Despite being one, I'll never understand them

bflicker11

Wish I could afford some!!! Congrats! Whatever makes you feel good about you.