Interesting thing my bf said

mznisaelaine

Yea... My ex heard from somebody that I lost 23 pounds...... He didn't take it very well..............

wrevhn

that is sooooooo funny! and a FANTASTIC EXAMPLE of why.... YOU SHOULD NEVER LISTEN TO OTHERS! esp on relationships.


My hubby is very supportive of whatever i do. but extra supportive of me being hot. not when i'm done I'm expecting him to be proud and showing me off. I could be wrong, to much outside attn could bring out that side instead. lol. men. they are adorably funny.

jkestens63

My hubby is super confident and has never told me he worries about me leaving. He knows I'm not going anywhere. But he has always has been attracted to the big gals. So while he is glad I lost weight especially for my health, sometimes he tells me not to lose too much more because he likes my softness. Occassionally will bring junk home even when I tell him not to. Now I just tell him that because I am eating healthy now, the sugar/grease bother my stomach. He doesn't want to make me sick so rarely brings it in the house. Once in a while slips especially with my previous favorites- remembers how happy/appreciative I was when he brought me home stuff previusly. But he's just trying to be thoughtful which I can appreciate and work around.

babylemonade

My hubby is super confident and has never told me he worries about me leaving. He knows I'm not going anywhere. But he has always has been attracted to the big gals. So while he is glad I lost weight especially for my health, sometimes he tells me not to lose too much more because he likes my softness. Occassionally will bring junk home even when I tell him not to. Now I just tell him that because I am eating healthy now, the sugar/grease bother my stomach. He doesn't want to make me sick so rarely brings it in the house. Once in a while slips especially with my previous favorites- remembers how happy/appreciative I was when he brought me home stuff previusly. But he's just trying to be thoughtful which I can appreciate and work around.

I know what you mean, my boyfriend liked that I was a bigger gal, still am. He told me not to lose too much or I might lose my..um..junk in the trunk, hehe.

MrsNoir

Lol that is interesting! My ex thought the same thing. He jokingly (in a serious way) said that i was doing it for more attention and figured once i started to get it i wouldn't need him anymore. I don't know if that happen to someone he knew or something but it was weird haha. I think they get scared that you'll get more conceited, confident, or cocky and want to find something "better" than what you currently have....not only bf's but friends and family also

Funny, I also had an ex that thought the same, funny that they're both EX's! However I must say he preferred me with love handles, so he said, later I found on the history of my computer that he had been logging on in somewhat erotic pages of very very fit women, not porn or anything like that but wherever there was an article of a woman stripping, there he clicked. Yes, they all were very very fit., I guess after that I couldn't believe he liked me chubby anymore.

The reason why I'm slimming down now it's mainly to be adored by my hubby, he loves me to bits but when I slimmed down for the wedding he was complimenting me like 10 times a day, after the baby and my quick back to shape he still is, however he keeps mentioning that my tummy still looks floppy, which is quite annoying, so if he keeps annoying me that way, I'll be better fitter for the market, that's for sure!:D... so let's hope he stops being so demanding with my tummy or I'll kick him and get another one soon!:D