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Wis. Couple Accused of Starving Infant Daughter


A Wisconsin couple who were worried that their infant daughter would become obese starved her for months, causing the girl to gain just 5 pounds in the 14 months after her birth, prosecutors allege.

Christopher and Mary Sultze, of Appleton, were each charged this month with a felony count of child neglect, and each faces up to a year in prison and a $25,000 fine if convicted.

Christopher Sultze, 35, appeared in Outagamie County Circuit Court on Thursday and was released from jail on bond on the condition that, among other things, he'd have no contact with the child. His preliminary hearing was rescheduled for next week.

Mary Sultze, 36, waived her right to a preliminary hearing Wednesday in exchange for her release on bond so that she could tend to her other three children, said her attorney, Brandt Swardenski. She, too, was ordered to have no contact with the daughter she's accused of starving.

Neither has entered a plea.

"I have serious reservations about whether there's any criminal activity here or just misguided parenting intentions," Swardenski said. "This is a case where we need to reserve judgment until we learn more details on exactly what occurred."

Christopher Sultze's attorney, Michael Petersen, declined to comment.

According to the criminal complaint, the couple's daughter weighed slightly more than 8 pounds when she was born in July 2010 and weighed just 13 pounds this past September. A doctor told police the girl would have to weigh 22 pounds to even appear on the growth charts for her age. Another physician noted that the child had no subcutaneous fat on her body and was essentially starving.

Doctors began tracking the girl's lack of growth and weight gain at her four-month checkup in November 2010, when she weighed just 7 pounds, 9 ounces.

Her parents began to grow irritated that doctors were continually concerned about her weight, the complaint said. They insisted they were feeding her enough, and said their other children grew slowly and that they believed the girl would eventually gain weight.

Months went by with no significant improvement and tests for potential medical problems came back negative. In August, the family's doctor convinced the Sultzes to admit the girl to Children's Hospital of Fox Valley for an evaluation, investigators said.

The girl gained 8 ounces over a day at the hospital, but a social worker assigned to the family as part of the admittance process noted that the girl's parents were upset by recommendations that they needed to feed her more calories and said they wanted to take their daughter home, against the advice of her doctors.

According to the complaint, Christopher Sultze told a doctor he didn't want to have obese children and he kept insisting the girl would "get fat" at the hospital.

He later told police and another social worker that his family follows a very low cholesterol diet. He said he underwent bypass surgery for a blocked artery when he was 25 years old.

Court records show that Mary Sultze was charged in 2009 with misdemeanor battery and disorderly conduct for biting her four-year-old daughter on the arm. According to the criminal complaint in that case, she told police she bit her daughter to teach her a lesson after the girl bit her older sister. Mary Sultze acknowledged that "it probably wasn't right to do."

She ultimately pleaded no contest to the disorderly conduct charge, which is not an admission of guilt but is treated as such for sentencing purposes. Prosecutors dismissed the battery count.

Appleton, a city of about 70,000, is 125 miles northeast of Madison.

kittytrix

Horrible! It's a travesty what parents will do to their children. I've seen it. It turns your stomach.

God bless this little one. Her suffering is over now.

Fairysoul

That is sad, I can't even hardly read past the first few paragraphs, it just kills me.

Espressocycle

Parental anorexia? So weird.

EricNCSU

Only one year of prison?!? Seriously? "Child neglect"? how about attempted murder... disgusting.

idshields24

This is ridiculous and they should have been put under the jail. I can't stand hearing about parents mistreating their children when there are so many people in the world that would like to have children and can't. The child didn't ask to be here. I hope they find her a loving home.

dasskinny

well i would rather have a child too skinny rather than obese, cuz i know how hard it is too be fat!

herwonderland

This is just messed up! The goal is to be healthy, not skinny or obese. I hope none of the other children have developed body dysmorphic issues.

ajbeans

At first when I was reading this I wondered if there might be a mistake. I went through some similar stuff with my daughter when she was a baby -- she stopped growing for about 6 months, for no apparent reason. No height gain, no weight gain, nothing. I got a lot of crap for it, and eventually she started growing again, just out of the blue. She still goes for long periods with no growth whatsoever, and her current pediatrician just figures it's just something that her body does, since there are no other health concerns at all. So at first I was thinking maybe something like that was happening, until I read the part about them being worried about obesity. So yeah... that's sad.

havalinaaa

well i would rather have a child too skinny rather than obese, cuz i know how hard it is too be fat!

This isn't a skinny child, this is a child that is starving. A healthy 14 month old should weigh at least 20 pounds. This kid weight 13. The 7 pound weight difference on a BABY is much more drastic than on an adult, clearly. Being malnourished as a child can lead to lifelong health problems - stunted growth, developmental issues both physical and mental, and it can even affect their future children.

lururu

It is sad and horrid that this child suffered in this way but there are obvious reasons why the parents did this. The father had a bypass at 25, that is really young so you can bet he was getting lots of advice and encouragement regarding weight loss. He probably didn't want his children going through what he went through and so, very misguidedly, tried to apply what he had been taught to do for himself to them.
Some people just aren't very clever and harm people with their good intentions.

My babies were both over 8lb when they were born, I was put on a diet when pregnant with my first child to prevent her from being too big, if I wasn't a slightly intelligent person with very loving and very intelligent people around me maybe I would have tried to control my child's weight gain through fear.

I doubt that these parents were mallicious I think maybe they were just ignorant and afraid.

TequillaLover89

well i would rather have a child too skinny rather than obese, cuz i know how hard it is too be fat!

But, you would rather have a starving, suffering, possibly dead baby, than a most likely health, maybe obese baby or child?

lexgem

I think it's odd they're letting her keep her other 3 children, and it's weird she didn't do that to them when they were babies...
How horrible