Ladies, what do you prefer to be called?

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  • kcb315
    kcb315 Posts: 160 Member
    i used to get upset when my boyfriend would just call me cute or pretty, like I felt I wasn't beautiful or sexy then just pretty. so i think i would rather be called sexy or beautiful.
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    Ever wonder why a guy loses his hair at an early age?
    All those terms are meant as sincere compliments to us and are considered interchangeable.

    A lady that is cute can also be called beautiful/gorgeous/sexy,none are meant as put downs or all could be false flattery.
    Just take the guy for who he is and don`t over think it. :drinker:

    Putting flame suit on again. :ohwell:
  • CavewomanCoby
    CavewomanCoby Posts: 253 Member
    Ever wonder why a guy loses his hair at an early age?
    All those terms are meant as sincere compliments to us and are considered interchangeable.

    A lady that is cute can also be called beautiful/gorgeous/sexy,none are meant as put downs or all could be false flattery.
    Just take the guy for who he is and don`t over think it. :drinker:

    Putting flame suit on again. :ohwell:

    Haha....
  • AshDHart
    AshDHart Posts: 818 Member
    I use the term cute a lot of times when talking about someone younger than me that I find attractive without being attracted to them. If I tell my husband that our server is cute he knows I just mean he is nice looking but I'm thinking about it the same way I would one of our kids.

    I love when my husband calls me sexy but anyone else would be creepy. Beautiful can come across a bit of a sleazy come on way but really tone of voice and body language can change that one up quickly. Having someone tell me I look nice is always good because it removes, in my mind, the connotation that it might be a pick up line. But, again, I make my final judgement based on body language and vocal tones. What is sleazy from one person is nice from another.
  • Leanne3552000
    Leanne3552000 Posts: 395 Member
    It's usually girls that call me cute rather than guys...
  • bbygrl5
    bbygrl5 Posts: 964 Member
    Just take the guy for who he is and don`t over think it.

    Take the thread for the fun it is and don't overthink it.
  • Misiaxcore
    Misiaxcore Posts: 659 Member
    My boyfriend only calls me pretty ;( I would prefer if he thought I was beautiful! :laugh:
  • TheBraveryLover
    TheBraveryLover Posts: 1,217 Member
    I guess gorgeous or beautiful would be my preference. I mainly get called sexy; I don't like that as much, but I'll take it over being called "ugly".:happy:
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    I would love to be considered beautiful, but I know at most I'm cute. If a guy ever called me cute, let alone beautiful, I would probably blush so much!!
  • thetrishwarp
    thetrishwarp Posts: 838 Member
    I like being told I'm beautiful or attractive. But recently I've been told that I'm "very goodlooking" which sounded so genuine, it made me smile for sure!
  • Beastette
    Beastette Posts: 1,497 Member
    At my age, I could care less what they call me. Fact is, I never really did. But I think the highest compliment to me personally is to be called smart. I've been called good looking and sexy but I prefer smart. I never much cared about my looks. I'd rather be judged for my character and intelligence.

    Took the words right out of my mouth. I'd also accept "funny", "awesome", "kick *kitten*", or "strong". Nothing to do with my age, though.
  • i_love_vinegar
    i_love_vinegar Posts: 2,092 Member
    I am usually called beautiful or cute...i prefer those two~so im quite lucky ^^

    I do NOT like being called sexy (unless its by my boyfriend), and I feel "pretty" is more a reflection of inner beauty. ^^

    I think gorgeous is nice as well, all be it a bit dramatic he he ^^
  • 3shirts
    3shirts Posts: 294 Member
    I like being called cute, it makes me make this face
    > :3
    I generally don't lik beautiful or sexy, as a lot of creepers use those words :L

    That being said, with the right person in the right situation being told I'm beautiful can make me feel like a princess, and sexy makes me feel...well...sexy :L

    But beautiful has to be from a bf in the right "moment", and sexy...well...definately in certain intimate situations :P

    Bang on. It is all contextual. I wouldn't say my girlfriend looks cute when she is dressed up for a night out but equally if she is cuddled up on the sofa, she doesn't look sexy so much as cute.

    I think beautiful tends to sound a bit contrived. Maybe it's just me but I can't see myself saying it without sounding totally in-genuine.
  • 4thehardman
    4thehardman Posts: 731 Member
    anything but cow works for me
    This!!
  • lilyinlove
    lilyinlove Posts: 441 Member
    As long as he calls me I'm happy!
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