Cecy (Flsportsfan)

WarriorMom2012
WarriorMom2012 Posts: 621 Member
edited October 5 in Chit-Chat
I received this email from Cecy last week. I am doing as I was requested:

Hi Lisa,

This has been extremely difficult for me. My husband has been threatening with divorce if I have any contact with ANYONE from MFP, including women. Most especially, though, men. I am taking a big risk sending this, as he has access to my email account. Everything's ok, I just have to honor his request because I don't want him to leave and take my kids away from me.

Can I ask you a huge favor since you know so many people? Can you please post a message for all to see that I am not going to respond to any emails from my friends MFP? I hate that I can't acknowledge them, but this is his demand. I have to save my family. I'm sorry it has to be this way.

PLEASE DO NOT REPLY TO THIS MESSAGE AS HE IS MONITORING THIS!!! Thank you for your prayers. I need them so badly.

Thank you!!! God bless.

Cecy

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  • bry_all01
    bry_all01 Posts: 3,100 Member
    I too received the very same message, on my birthday. I could not post it as a thread as I was on my phone, so thank you for posting this, Lisa.
  • Krizzle4Rizzle
    Krizzle4Rizzle Posts: 2,704 Member
    I was not friends with her but..Wow..just..wow.
  • ilookthetype
    ilookthetype Posts: 3,021 Member
    This just breaks my heart.
  • Pretty_Pain
    Pretty_Pain Posts: 71 Member
    I got the same lisa... Miss her !!!!!!!
  • _Timmeh_
    _Timmeh_ Posts: 2,096 Member
    WOW!
  • myofibril
    myofibril Posts: 4,500 Member
    Edit... I will pm the OP.
  • drog2323
    drog2323 Posts: 1,343 Member
    I hope all works out.
  • nehtaeh
    nehtaeh Posts: 2,849 Member
    It's also searchable. I'm sure the husband knows her screenname on here and could easily see this post...which shows the message she sent that she is not allowed to do.

    I don't know her or her situation but for her safety I would think this might not be the best idea.
  • supertracylynn
    supertracylynn Posts: 1,338 Member
    I don't know her or the situation, but I have a LOT of thoughts on this.

    Wow. Just wow.

    :frown:
  • iAMaPhoenix
    iAMaPhoenix Posts: 1,038 Member
    Wow...The Internet. Still breaking up happy homes for 20 years and counting... Cecy was one of my best friends on here and I am so sad to hear this, but family comes first. She loves her children and would not do anything to jeopardize her relationship with them. The only thing we can do is honor her wishes and wish her blessings in her marriage.
  • bry_all01
    bry_all01 Posts: 3,100 Member
    It's also searchable. I'm sure the husband knows her screenname on here and could easily see this post...which shows the message she sent that she is not allowed to do.

    I don't know her or her situation but for her safety I would think this might not be the best idea.

    my first thought would have been the same, except that she asked us to do this, so it was to honor her wishes. I wish her the very best of luck and happiness.
  • nehtaeh
    nehtaeh Posts: 2,849 Member
    It's also searchable. I'm sure the husband knows her screenname on here and could easily see this post...which shows the message she sent that she is not allowed to do.

    I don't know her or her situation but for her safety I would think this might not be the best idea.

    my first thought would have been the same, except that she asked us to do this, so it was to honor her wishes. I wish her the very best of luck and happiness.

    Well, I hope it all works out for the best for her.
  • skinnywithin
    skinnywithin Posts: 1,392 Member
    OK ...so why doesnt she just change her user name and password...doesnt she think he can see this too ?? I think its time he hits the road !
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    This is a shame.
  • FearAnLoathing
    FearAnLoathing Posts: 4,852 Member
    OK ...so why doesnt she just change her user name and password...doesnt she think he can see this too ?? I think its time he hits the road !

    especially since shes emailed multiple people,it seems like if this is the way her husband is if its not one thing it will be another
  • april_beth
    april_beth Posts: 616 Member
    Wow...The Internet. Still breaking up happy homes for 20 years and counting... Cecy was one of my best friends on here and I am so sad to hear this, but family comes first. She loves her children and would not do anything to jeopardize her relationship with them. The only thing we can do is honor her wishes and wish her blessings in her marriage.

    wow...the behavior of some people on the internet...still breaking up (un)happy homes for 20 years and counting...
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    She wasn't a friend but I had seen her on the forums. I don't know what the situation is either, but it sounds really terrible for her. I have my opinions but I'll keep them to myself. I just pray that she and her kids will be okay.
  • skinnywithin
    skinnywithin Posts: 1,392 Member
    For someone not allowed to have contact with MFP people , she sure sent it to alot of them !
  • Buca412
    Buca412 Posts: 301 Member
    Man, I do miss her on here but I'm wishing her all the best. I hope they can work this out for the better.
  • cdngirl71
    cdngirl71 Posts: 2,641 Member
    I miss her around here but she needs to do what is best for her family. All the best to her!!
  • killagb
    killagb Posts: 3,280 Member
    Seems to me that if her family was really THAT important she wouldn't go sending out things like this that would risk it? *shrug* Just thought I'd point out the obvious. :drinker:
  • Saruman_w
    Saruman_w Posts: 1,531 Member
    Huh... I must be missing something here. Sounds like the guy is either super-insecure or she's been getting too close with some of the members here.
  • WarriorMom2012
    WarriorMom2012 Posts: 621 Member
    I'm just doing what I was asked to do. I do not pass judgement on anyone here on MFP or IRL. She is a very nice person and I wish her all the best!!
  • CaptainGordo
    CaptainGordo Posts: 4,437 Member
    Seems to me that if her family was really THAT important she wouldn't go sending out things like this that would risk it? *shrug* Just thought I'd point out the obvious. :drinker:
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  • p0pr0cksnc0ke
    p0pr0cksnc0ke Posts: 1,283 Member
    I'm just doing what I was asked to do. I do not pass judgement on anyone here on MFP or IRL. She is a very nice person and I wish her all the best!!

    ^^^^^^THIS!!!

    I love Cecy. I will greatly miss her. I pray for the best for her and hope that others passing judgement never find themselves in a situation like this.
  • bry_all01
    bry_all01 Posts: 3,100 Member

    hope that others passing judgement never find themselves in a situation like this.


    AGREED.
  • TNGURL
    TNGURL Posts: 89 Member

    hope that others passing judgement never find themselves in a situation like this.


    AGREED.

    Yes, I agree... I just hope she's safe. Some people don't realize what goes on behind closed doors...
  • CaptainGordo
    CaptainGordo Posts: 4,437 Member
    hope that others passing judgement never find themselves in a situation like this.
    AGREED.
    Yes, I agree... I just hope she's safe. Some people don't realize what goes on behind closed doors...
    Right. Which is why I wouldn't pass judgement on the husband either, without knowing what's going on. :flowerforyou:
  • mrmarius
    mrmarius Posts: 1,802 Member
    she deactivated so the only way the hubs would see this is for him to start an account etc...

    i hate that she had to leave but family comes first. we were only friends for a short time but she was a real nice person i hope things work out for her
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