Any Moms-to-Be?

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I've been counting calories for a little over a year now, and I recently found out I'm pregnant and have discovered it's so hard to *stop* counting calories! I am struggling to eat over 1300-1400 cals a day (my BMR is around 1900) and nearly obsessing over it. I know I'm meant to be eating healthier and not "for two", but my calories are even lower now than before I was pregnant because I'm not allowing myself any of the junk food I used to eat in moderation. Anyone in the same situation??