Just having a moan and a whinge...

CherryIceGlitter

...Feel free to join me!

I met my boyfriend almost 2 years and I was a stone lighter (thats 14lbs for you no UK folks out there!) now sorry if this is a tad crude but we used to have sex AT LEAST twice a day. Now I don't know if my weight gain has contributed to the loss of libido (on his side) or its just one of those things that happens?

The reason I panic is because my ex partner left me for a skinny minnie about two years after we had been together. Do all men cheat?

I'm so confused. I feel as though if I was skinny everything in my life would be better not just the sex but my relationship, my work.. even my hair!! LOL

PAH. It's on of those days where I have had too much time to think

lougru

Its really weird you should say this. Ive been with my fella for just over two years too and recently i have been so insecure about everything.
My ex cheated on me after 5 years and absolutely broke my heart so i now have major trust issues at the best of times but when im feeling down aboput myself it comes to the surface alot more and i find myself making life extrememly difficult for myself.
And, in regards to sex, me and my boy used to be at it all the time too but now we're lucky if its once or twice a week. But i dont worry about that so muc. Just because its inevitable that you will get comfortable and sex isnt the first thing on the agenda anymore.
And the only way that your weight will have affected the situation is because you are now less confident. When im feeling confident about the way i look i know that my sex drive increases (and who is he to argue?!) and when im feeling ****ty, i dont want him anywhere near me!
The last thing i think you should do is worry - theres no way he will have 'gone off' you - youre bloody gorgeous!