Your 'perfect partner' list

CherryIceGlitter
CherryIceGlitter Posts: 145
edited October 6 in Chit-Chat
If you had a top 5 list of the physical and mental qualities of your perfect partner what would it be?
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  • richx83
    richx83 Posts: 334 Member
    Simple really, someone nice kind caring who likes me for me and doesn't mind I am a bigger guy :smile:

    I don't really do the looks think but as you are asking it would have to be red hair and green eyes please
  • Simple really, someone nice kind caring who likes me for me and doesn't mind I am a bigger guy :smile:

    I don't really do the looks think but as you are asking it would have to be red hair and green eyes please

    :D xxx
  • 1.) Sweet/Cute personality
    2.) Manly/protective
    3.) Sense of humor
    4.)Hard working/Driven
    5.)Taller than me
  • kouzzzz
    kouzzzz Posts: 540 Member
    Funny
    Honest
    Caring
    Attractive
    Easy going
  • Deckershann
    Deckershann Posts: 272 Member
    Smart
    Sweet
    Sexy
    Strong
    Someone I already found xoxo
  • Natalie49
    Natalie49 Posts: 210 Member
    to have a sense of humor
    good looking
    Optimistic and honest
    Adventurous and loves to try new things
    Sweet/ Caring
  • i_love_vinegar
    i_love_vinegar Posts: 2,092 Member
    PHYSICAL:
    1. eyes (asian)
    2. teeth (straight)
    3. body (thin)
    4. black or dark brown hair
    5. wears glasses

    MENTAL:
    1. sweet
    2. highly intelligent
    3. fun
    4. similar mindset
    5. optimistic

    Perfection! :bigsmile: :blushing:
  • Deckershann
    Deckershann Posts: 272 Member
    PHYSICAL:
    1. eyes (asian)
    2. teeth (straight)
    3. body (thin)
    4. black or dark brown hair
    5. wears glasses

    MENTAL:
    1. sweet
    2. highly intelligent
    3. fun
    4. similar mindset
    5. optimistic

    Perfection! :bigsmile: :blushing:

    Basically me...especially when I put on stunna shades!! (Don't have rX glasses...) Lol just kidding
  • PBJunky
    PBJunky Posts: 737 Member
    Warm hearted
    Kind
    Confident
    Passionate
    Adventurous

    I find myself more attracted to woman with mother like features...those to whom motherhood comes naturally.
  • Warm hearted
    Kind
    Confident
    Passionate
    Adventurous

    I find myself more attracted to woman with mother like features...those to whom motherhood comes naturally.

    I like this!
  • LesliePierceRN
    LesliePierceRN Posts: 860 Member
    I met my husband when I was 19 and he was 30.. we dated 7 days and he proposed.. Everyone around us thought we were crazy, that it would never last... That was almost 20 years ago. These are the reasons he is my perfect partner:

    I am type A, driven and headstrong, he is type B, laid back and lets it all roll off.
    I am a freebird. If a man tries to put limits on what/where/when/who/how with me, I'm out the door like a flash. My husband may not want to do many of the things that I like to do, but he never stands in my way of me doing them myself.
    We have the same view on child-rearing, money and Southern manners.
    He loves me and appreciates what he's got, even after 20 years of having it.
    Plus, I think he's cute as a button. :)
  • hush7hush
    hush7hush Posts: 2,273 Member
    1] Swedish.
    2] Plays hockey.
    3] Professionally.
    4] For the Detroit Red Wings.
    5] Must be named Johan Franzen.

    The end.
  • I met my husband when I was 19 and he was 30.. we dated 7 days and he proposed.. Everyone around us thought we were crazy, that it would never last... That was almost 20 years ago. These are the reasons he is my perfect partner:

    I am type A, driven and headstrong, he is type B, laid back and lets it all roll off.
    I am a freebird. If a man tries to put limits on what/where/when/who/how with me, I'm out the door like a flash. My husband may not want to do many of the things that I like to do, but he never stands in my way of me doing them myself.
    We have the same view on child-rearing, money and Southern manners.
    He loves me and appreciates what he's got, even after 20 years of having it.
    Plus, I think he's cute as a button. :)

    I absolutely love this. It's very similar to my relationship/current situation(:
  • BettyBudski
    BettyBudski Posts: 54 Member
    Independant
    Good sense of humour (the darker the better!)
    Pure confidence in who he is
    Loves to travel
    Cats instead of dogs

    Physically if I could paint a picture.....5 foot 10, medium build, grey or green eyes, a voice with some base to it, smells good (at least to me!)

    :love:
  • scarletleavy
    scarletleavy Posts: 841 Member
    1. Outdoorsy
    2. Type B personality
    3. Outgoing
    3 b. a Free Spirit
    4. Kind
    5. Loves to travel and move around

    In terms of physical appearance, I really like the tall and scruffy look- think long-ish hair, unshaven, etc.
  • I met my husband when I was 19 and he was 30.. we dated 7 days and he proposed.. Everyone around us thought we were crazy, that it would never last... That was almost 20 years ago. These are the reasons he is my perfect partner:

    I am type A, driven and headstrong, he is type B, laid back and lets it all roll off.
    I am a freebird. If a man tries to put limits on what/where/when/who/how with me, I'm out the door like a flash. My husband may not want to do many of the things that I like to do, but he never stands in my way of me doing them myself.
    We have the same view on child-rearing, money and Southern manners.
    He loves me and appreciates what he's got, even after 20 years of having it.
    Plus, I think he's cute as a button. :)

    Cute story!! Made me all warm and fuzzy inside BUT why does stuff like this NEVER happen to me LOL.

    A few people have been asking me to post my Top 5 so here we go

    Non Physical Attributes -

    Attentive to my needs as well as others, I like a man who would do charity work
    Spontaneous, somebody who grabs life with both hands and doesnt care what others think
    Not just funny but hilarious. I love to laugh
    Has great ambition
    Family orientated, I'm so close to my family and want a large family of my own

    Physical Attributes -

    Not TOO tall as I am only 5'1 but do like men tall enough to make me feel protected
    Sticking with the protection theme I like large men, I dont like skinny minnies!
    Well dressed but not ridiculously high fashion, I like to lay about in my scruffs on a sunday
    A kind face with a cheeky glint in their eye
    BIG strong hands!
  • Bahet
    Bahet Posts: 1,254 Member
    I was 19 when I met my hubby. He was 25. He was cute, fit, loving, kind, fun, funny, smart, witty, sexy, and hard working. Fast forward 22 years. He's not as fit (neither am I) but he's still everything else and more to me. I'd love him regardless of what he looked like.

    Love isn't about being sexy or physically attractive. Looks fade. Real love exists when the looks are gone, when the 6 pack abs turns into a keg, etc. Real love is in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer. Real love isn't about what someone looks like on the outside but how they make you feel on the inside.
  • sunkisses
    sunkisses Posts: 2,365 Member
    1) Honest (with himself as well as other people)
    2) Very Intelligent
    3) "Gets" me. (It's not as simple as it sounds because my level of eccentricity is off the charts.)
    4) Driven/passionate (about a cause, his job, etc.)
    5) Adventurous (outdoorsy, spontaneous, willing to just go - no/few questions asked)
  • KimmieBrie
    KimmieBrie Posts: 825 Member
    Real love isn't about what someone looks like on the outside but how they make you feel on the inside.

    Ditto!!!! My husband and I compliment each other - meaning we are each better people together than apart.
    I could give you a giant list of imperfections, and wouldn't have it any other way.

    Perfection is overrated.

    Must add: My husband is hot! :)
  • Iamfit4life
    Iamfit4life Posts: 3,095 Member
    Great lips
    Has a job
    Love his family and spends time with them
    Love my children
    Great big hands
    Also *gets me* is a good one, because I am a real weirdo.
  • kb455
    kb455 Posts: 679 Member
    Dark or red hair
    Tall
    Muscular but not OVERLY so
    The ability to be silly and goofy at times
    Protective/caring
    Loyal
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    Physical:
    1. 5' 4"
    2. Auburn Hair
    3. Beautiful Hands
    4. Busty
    5. Bedroom Eyes

    Mental
    1. Converstionalist (Quality not quantity)
    2. Very knowledgable
    3. Knows when I am full of *kitten* and calls me on it.
    4. Sexy mind
    5. Organized
  • Protective/ Kind Hearted
    Sense Of Humor (I'm terribly sarcastic)
    Honest
    Loyal
    Adventurous (like spontaneous/fun/outdoorsy sort of thing - I get bored with the indoors easy)

    Physical (Yeah I feel really vain doing this .. but it said physical and or personality)

    Nice Eyes (I'm a huge sucker for them - must be the photographer in me lol)
    Cute smile/nice lips
    Preferably same height or taller than me
  • lougru
    lougru Posts: 55
    Physical:

    Kelly slater

    or Brandon Boyd.

    Somewhere inbetween would be perfect ;)

    Mental:

    Not an a**hole
  • EricNCSU
    EricNCSU Posts: 699 Member
    Smart
    Sense of humor
    Fun loving/Playful
    Looks don't matter as much as being happy/confortable in thier body/own skin.. that shows. Confidence is sexy regardless of body type.
    Green eyes and freckles are nice though :)
  • cppeace
    cppeace Posts: 764 Member
    Omg my perfect partner list is looooong and hardly any of it is physical. top 5 are
    1. intelligence
    2. humor
    3. common interests
    4. common or open beliefs
    5. cuddly nature
    lol now 10x this list and you have my perfect partner list
    Kimmy
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    Physical:
    1. 5' 4"
    2. Auburn Hair
    3. Beautiful Hands
    4. Busty
    5. Bedroom Eyes

    Mental
    1. Converstionalist (Quality not quantity)
    2. Very knowledgable
    3. Knows when I am full of *kitten* and calls me on it.
    4. Sexy mind
    5. Organized

    Actually, 5' 3 and 1/2 inches. And I left out lips. Soft, plump, sexy lips.
  • xoxMandyxox
    xoxMandyxox Posts: 104 Member
    Brave
    Thoughtful
    Loyal
    Funny
    Tall ... What can I say? I like 'em tall :laugh:

    I have all of that and more, though, already :love:
  • InvictusPheonix
    InvictusPheonix Posts: 129 Member
    What's needed:

    1 has a job- doesn't need to be wealthy, but lazy isn't an option
    2 acitve/adventure-some: can "keep up" (aka like #1)
    3 intelligent. doesn't need to be stephen hawking or anything- just needs to be always learning new things/trying to grow
    4 respectful. (and respect towards me is a necessary, not a desire) but respecting other people/cultures and trying new things

    "dreams"
    5 I'd love a man who can speak different languages
    6 A man who "knows the outdoors" aka would hike/camp/swim/kayak with me
    7 Someone who loves action/war/or nerdy movies (my favorite)

    physical wish list
    8 eyes: either bright/interesting or extremely dark brown
    9 height isn't too big of an issue, but i'm 5'8"- so even if he is shorter he shouldn't feel intimidated when i wear heels!
  • smkey
    smkey Posts: 121 Member
    funny
    kind
    tall-ish
    intelligent
    independent
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