all the single ladies/men - dating.....

kimski08

I split from my last true love about 4 years ago and since then there have been 2 guys, neither of which I've knew deep down were right for me but persevered with non the less. Needless to say I've been single for the past 8 months.

But since I split from him I found myself putting on weight and therefore my confidence shot through the floor and thought I was best to just settle. That clearly din't work!

I know thats wrong, but the question I want to ask is have you ever not dated, because you think that you want to wait until you reach your goal, whatever that may be i.e. bulk up lose weight etc. But found that time getting further and further away because of the pressure you have put yourself under?

christine24t

i've been on one date in my life and it was last month, and i definitely think it's okay if you don't want to date because you wanna lose more weight. but if you meet someone you like/could like i wouldn't use it as an excuse.