How DOES normal dating work these days

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  • Iam918
    Iam918 Posts: 118 Member
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    Wouldn't know personally. All I've ran into lately are "ladies" who claim they want a relationship but are really just trying to score free meals from as many guys, concurrently, that they can. When they find out I don't play that game they take off.
  • Sublimely_Self_Righteousreused
    Sublimely_Self_Righteousreused Posts: 935 Member
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    The way I think it works now is you log onto myfitnesspal.com and hit up the forums, get on a few crush lists, and voila! You can haz date!
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
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    I'd like to know how she's "Trying to set up a second date."

    That right there seems... wrong.
  • Yanicka1
    Yanicka1 Posts: 4,564 Member
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    The way I think it works now is you log onto myfitnesspal.com and hit up the forums, get on a few crush lists, and voila! You can haz date!

    LOL didn't get any dates from MFP
  • Grimmerick
    Grimmerick Posts: 3,342 Member
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    Yeah I am afraid she flubbed this one, if he was interested I really don't think he would have hesitated to make a second date. I think her eagerness is unattractive......................so's the hickey.
  • BobbyClerici
    BobbyClerici Posts: 813 Member
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    ***disclaimer, I have no interest in dating anybody lol****


    I've got this friend, and she's a little nuts. She went on this date, had a great first date.
    Now she's trying to set up a second date(not even a week later) dude is like "we'll see" which personally seems pretty normal from what I can remember back when dinosaurs roamed.


    And she is flipping out "oh well, onto the next guy..I'm not playing these games"

    I don't think this dude is playing games, she probably smothered the poor guy.

    Plus she showed up at the first date trying to hide a hickey. lol

    Sorry, but he's done with her.

    Move on.
  • stcar
    stcar Posts: 207 Member
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    I'd say he's not interested and I personally would never ask a guy out on any kind of date (1st, 2nd, 5th)....men like the chase, not what's laid out in front of them with a neon "pick me please" sign.
  • Iamfit4life
    Iamfit4life Posts: 3,095 Member
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    honestly what 33 year old gets or gives hickeys anymore? Skeevy!
  • PepeGreggerton
    PepeGreggerton Posts: 986 Member
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    Dating sucks.
  • Elzecat
    Elzecat Posts: 2,916 Member
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    what's a date?







    lol.
    :wink:

    yep...that's what I was gonna say.
  • mattquit
    mattquit Posts: 175
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    people meet at a certain location. then they tweet each other instead of talking.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
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    Your friend sounds a little bat *kitten* crazy from this little information we have. And I would know, cause I'm full out bat *kitten* crazy. It's unfortunate, really.
  • PepeGreggerton
    PepeGreggerton Posts: 986 Member
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    Your friend sounds a little bat *kitten* crazy from this little information we have. And I would know, cause I'm full out bat *kitten* crazy. It's unfortunate, really.

    I was thinking more like desperate, which is a turn off...
  • CouchSpud
    CouchSpud Posts: 557 Member
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    lol NEXT...

    anyway, there's no guarantee, you can have someone asking for a second date several times on a first and it still never plays out...
  • oneIT
    oneIT Posts: 388 Member
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    I've never "dated" traditionally. I hang out with my friends and do whatever I feel like doing. Then I end up falling for a friend, usually. I think "normal" dating is really %^&$#ing weird, personally. Trying to establish a "romantic" connection with a stranger? Weird weird weird.

    And as for your friend: b*tches be crazy, yo.
    (myself included).

    ^ Agree
  • Pookylou
    Pookylou Posts: 988 Member
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    In my very limited experience (a whole 3 dates in a year and a half) a guy will arrange something if he is interested, sounds like a nice brush off to me. Maybe he sensed her slight crazy??
  • bizco
    bizco Posts: 1,949 Member
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    Well, in my book if a guy say "we'll see", it mean don't think about it. Guy that want to be with you will make the time and will schedule the next date.

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    ^ This. The guy probably saw the hickey and doesn't want to date someone who is playing the field. Unless of course he's a player too.
  • Libby81
    Libby81 Posts: 734 Member
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    The way I think it works now is you log onto myfitnesspal.com and hit up the forums, get on a few crush lists, and voila! You can haz date!

    LOL didn't get any dates from MFP

    Me neither
  • Scott613
    Scott613 Posts: 2,317 Member
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    ***disclaimer, I have no interest in dating anybody lol****


    I've got this friend, and she's a little nuts. She went on this date, had a great first date.
    Now she's trying to set up a second date(not even a week later) dude is like "we'll see" which personally seems pretty normal from what I can remember back when dinosaurs roamed.


    And she is flipping out "oh well, onto the next guy..I'm not playing these games"

    I don't think this dude is playing games, she probably smothered the poor guy.

    Plus she showed up at the first date trying to hide a hickey. lol
    She gave him the hickey and wants to give him another but, he won't let her so now she's mad.:brokenheart:
  • TNAJackson
    TNAJackson Posts: 686 Member
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    ***disclaimer, I have no interest in dating anybody lol****


    I've got this friend, and she's a little nuts. She went on this date, had a great first date.
    Now she's trying to set up a second date(not even a week later) dude is like "we'll see" which personally seems pretty normal from what I can remember back when dinosaurs roamed.


    And she is flipping out "oh well, onto the next guy..I'm not playing these games"

    I don't think this dude is playing games, she probably smothered the poor guy.

    Plus she showed up at the first date trying to hide a hickey. lol

    I think she has her first and last date with that guy at the same time....

    ^ ^ ^ Yep. He's definately not interested... probably noticed the hickey. LOL!

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