What's the point?

kat65

You need to keep yourself safe. This guy sounds out-of-control! You never know what he might do. Please take all measures to protect yourself!!!

TheirEllie82

Also, a restraining order only works if the person is afraid of being charged. He might try to escalate physically.

^^^Thank you. Restraining orders can help but they don't make you safe. Completely ignore everything he does because in his twisted mind even you "reaching out" to say leave me alone means you care enough to still have contact

rml_16

Ick. I hope the police are aware of all this. Are there anti-stalking laws in PA?

I hope you're taking steps to protect yourself from this lunatic.

spookiewon

I would call the police and get a restraining order maybe then he will leave you alone.

I second this-immediately! Your safety is the most important thing.

Thirded. This situation will become very dangerous unless you take action. Keep notes and any evidence you can collect, and even after the restraining order collect evidence. Above all, be careful and take care.

UsedToBeHusky

You need to file a police report and document with the police every action he takes in your direction from here on out. Stalking is illegal and if he doesn't stop he can get some serious jail time.