friend requests decline

Jfearn64
Jfearn64 Posts: 353 Member
edited October 6 in Chit-Chat
What does the person sending you a friend request see if you turn them down? I have never turned anyone down and was wondering. Do they get a rejection notice or just no response at all?
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  • Run4iiiiiit
    Run4iiiiiit Posts: 489 Member
    good question. send me one and i'll deny it. then let me know.
  • PedmomJill
    PedmomJill Posts: 505 Member
    LOL please share.
  • Run4iiiiiit
    Run4iiiiiit Posts: 489 Member
    aaaaand?
  • Jfearn64
    Jfearn64 Posts: 353 Member
    Nothing at all! Guess I can decline people without having to justify or feel bad about it!!
  • Run4iiiiiit
    Run4iiiiiit Posts: 489 Member
    good to know.
  • RahBuhBuh
    RahBuhBuh Posts: 585 Member
    I hope its not something like this: :laugh:
    To Whom It May Concern:

    The person you requested to add has rejected you. As this fits the pattern of your life, it should come as no surprise.
    Please re-evaluate what you bring to the relationship and try again at a much later date.
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    They tend to figure it out when you don't appear on their friends list, though.
  • mamagooskie
    mamagooskie Posts: 2,964 Member
    I hope its not something like this: :laugh:
    To Whom It May Concern:

    The person you requested to add has rejected you. As this fits the pattern of your life, it should come as no surprise.
    Please re-evaluate what you bring to the relationship and try again at a much later date.

    this is FREAKIN HILARIOUS!!!
  • brandimacleod
    brandimacleod Posts: 368 Member
    LMFAO!!!!!!:laugh:
  • WifeMomDVM
    WifeMomDVM Posts: 1,025 Member
    Nothing happens. MFP is very discreet, so it's easy to break-up with people. It doesn't even notify people if you later delete them. (though a friend busted me once!)
  • Captain_Mal
    Captain_Mal Posts: 945 Member
    I hope its not something like this: :laugh:
    To Whom It May Concern:

    The person you requested to add has rejected you. As this fits the pattern of your life, it should come as no surprise.
    Please re-evaluate what you bring to the relationship and try again at a much later date.

    I'm stealing this for my personal use.
  • BobbyClerici
    BobbyClerici Posts: 813 Member
    What does the person sending you a friend request see if you turn them down? I have never turned anyone down and was wondering. Do they get a rejection notice or just no response at all?
    They see NOTHING - really.

    No notices are send out. That's why sometimes you get request after request from the same person.
  • servilia
    servilia Posts: 3,452 Member
    I've been declined once (can't imagine why lol) and I didn't get any notification. The person just never showed up as a friend :(
  • Run4iiiiiit
    Run4iiiiiit Posts: 489 Member
    I hope its not something like this: :laugh:
    To Whom It May Concern:

    The person you requested to add has rejected you. As this fits the pattern of your life, it should come as no surprise.
    Please re-evaluate what you bring to the relationship and try again at a much later date.
    nice
  • Rah....your post is HILARIOUS!!!
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    I get an email notice if someone sends one or if someone accepts one from me.
    Over the years have had many many declined but since my somewhat odd sense of humor and rowdiness isn`t for everyone I don`t get put off by it,just appreciate all that I do have. :smile:
  • CorinthiaB
    CorinthiaB Posts: 488 Member
    I am glad to know this information.
  • Lobster1987
    Lobster1987 Posts: 492 Member
    I would feel bad declining people if they got a notice....but since they don't, I decline away and not feel bad at all...lol Don't you love it when they try adding you and don't write a message as to why they are deserving to be your friend? I don't even hesitate with those. DECLINE!

    True story.
  • princessd3b
    princessd3b Posts: 130 Member
    Thanks for this info ;)
  • Run4iiiiiit
    Run4iiiiiit Posts: 489 Member
    I obviously don't take this serious enough. I don't decline anyone and don't care if they add a message. It's mfp...I'm not putting them in my will.
  • Lobster1987
    Lobster1987 Posts: 492 Member
    I obviously don't take this serious enough. I don't decline anyone and don't care if they add a message. It's mfp...I'm not putting them in my will.

    I would be that way, except my diet is very strange and only people with a specific thing in common with me would understand. So I ONLY add those folks.
  • chrisdavey
    chrisdavey Posts: 9,834 Member
    I've been declined once (can't imagine why lol) and I didn't get any notification. The person just never showed up as a friend :(

    There must have been a glitch in the matrix or something.







    I decline people all the time. It clearly says on my profile, please include a message with your FR & I get blank ones over & over again.
  • Moonbeamlissie
    Moonbeamlissie Posts: 504 Member
    I obviously don't take this serious enough. I don't decline anyone and don't care if they add a message. It's mfp...I'm not putting them in my will.


    exactly!
  • RahBuhBuh
    RahBuhBuh Posts: 585 Member
    I obviously don't take this serious enough. I don't decline anyone and don't care if they add a message. It's mfp...I'm not putting them in my will.

    I would be that way, except my diet is very strange and only people with a specific thing in common with me would understand. So I ONLY add those folks.

    Unless your diet consists of Playdoh, pop rocks and sofa cushions, I don't think anyone would judge you. If they did, it would probably be because of the pop rocks.

    I don't really decline anyone unless they have a donut in their profile picture or they look like a serial killer.
  • Run4iiiiiit
    Run4iiiiiit Posts: 489 Member
    I obviously don't take this serious enough. I don't decline anyone and don't care if they add a message. It's mfp...I'm not putting them in my will.

    I would be that way, except my diet is very strange and only people with a specific thing in common with me would understand. So I ONLY add those folks.
    you can make your food diary private.
  • RahBuhBuh
    RahBuhBuh Posts: 585 Member
    I hope its not something like this: :laugh:
    To Whom It May Concern:

    The person you requested to add has rejected you. As this fits the pattern of your life, it should come as no surprise.
    Please re-evaluate what you bring to the relationship and try again at a much later date.

    I'm stealing this for my personal use.

    Go for it Cap'n! I look forward to hearing about you using it :)
  • Run4iiiiiit
    Run4iiiiiit Posts: 489 Member
    I hope its not something like this: :laugh:
    To Whom It May Concern:

    The person you requested to add has rejected you. As this fits the pattern of your life, it should come as no surprise.
    Please re-evaluate what you bring to the relationship and try again at a much later date.

    I'm stealing this for my personal use.
    not sending one to her. not gonna fall for the banana in the tailpipe.
  • Captain_Mal
    Captain_Mal Posts: 945 Member
    I hope its not something like this: :laugh:
    To Whom It May Concern:

    The person you requested to add has rejected you. As this fits the pattern of your life, it should come as no surprise.
    Please re-evaluate what you bring to the relationship and try again at a much later date.

    I'm stealing this for my personal use.
    not sending one to her. not gonna fall for the banana in the tailpipe.

    LOLZ!

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  • Run4iiiiiit
    Run4iiiiiit Posts: 489 Member
    I just looked through my friends and have a lot that haven't logged in for a month. Maybe you folks are wise.
  • RahBuhBuh
    RahBuhBuh Posts: 585 Member
    I am feeling mean spirited tonight. Maybe too little coffee. Could 6 or so of you add me just so I can decline? Thanks in advance.
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