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  • Fitness_Chick
    Fitness_Chick Posts: 6,648 Member
    I eat 6 times a day and 99% of the time I can resist becasue I am just plain not hungry and that makes it easier.:flowerforyou:
    How can you eat 6 times a day and lose weight?! I eat 3 times a day and have no problem getting up to 1500. I guess I just don't have this food thing worked out. I'm almost always hungry! I had oatmeal at 8:00 and I'm famished right now. But I have my food entered for the day and don't really have any room for a snack. My "meals" must have too many calories in them. :frown:

    Gosh no wonder you're so hungry!! Most typical oatmeals are pretty low in protein so you basically are only getting in carbs if oatmeal is your breakfast, adding in protein which typically contains a bit of fat (which keeps you feeling satiated for much longer). One way to do that is adding in some PB to your oatmeal. I myself use 1-2 T. of Cashew Nut Butter mixed in. Before I had tried it out myself I thought it sounded odd..but it's really quite good and very satisfying, much more so than simply carbs for breakfast.

    It's not likely you'll find yourself hungry if you bump up your cals on your first meal most especially if you're only going to be eating 3 times in a 24 hour period!

    I find what works best for me is doing a carb/protein combo at each mini meal I do.

    FC:heart:
  • mgullette
    mgullette Posts: 401 Member
    I read this and loved it. Talk about making me more determined. Mike in case you think I'm being mean, I didn't write this, I just found it a kick in the pants!


    A popular question that I hear is about how to stop giving in to food cravings. How to stop eating your favorite junk food. Maybe it’s chocolate or ice-cream or candy of some kind, or maybe it’s cookies and cake, or potato chips or fast food, or something you just love to eat, but need to stop eating because it is junk food. Whether you are trying to lose weight or gain weight, no matter what your goals are, everyone likes some kind of junk food and needs to stop eating it now. But, some people just can't stop. They just can't "get rid of the cravings" for these foods, and just can't stop giving in to their food cravings.

    Before I go any further, let me be honest. I am going to get mean in this article. I am sure I will offend a whole bunch of people. My goal of this article is to get my point of view across, a point of view that I feel very strongly about, and I am sure a lot of people will disagree with it, but oh well. I want to get my point of view across in the exact way that I have it in my head, so I will NOT sweeten it up so that I don't hurt people's feelings or make them angry with me. I want to get my point across in such a way that it motivates everyone reading this article. So, if you have a problem with that, stop reading. If you don't, then here goes...

    SHUT UP!!!! Who the hell are you to whine to me? Shut up already!! Sure, I can completely understand if your problems with getting the results you want are from the wrong information about your workout or diet. I've been there before. I used to do the wrong stuff. But after I finally learned the right stuff, I made this website so others don't have that problem. I want to save you time, money and effort by giving you free truthful information about how to get the results you want. But, this isn't about your diet or workout. This isn't about you wasting money on some useless ab workout product or stupid weight loss product or other useless supplements and gimmicks that weren't working for you. This is about food cravings. Don't whine to me. I've heard it before...

    "It's so hard, I'm around this type of food all the time, the cravings just won't go away, I have a sweet tooth, I just have to give in to the cravings."

    Stop it, you're boring me.

    Don't give me your little stories. Like how you are around this type of food all the time. Do you think you are the only one, buddy? Everyone I know and am related to eats junk food all day long. This crappy food is everywhere I look. I am no different than you, except, I don't give in. Do I have super human powers? No. Do I not give in because my arms are bigger than yours? No. Do I not give in because I can bench press more than you? No. Do I not give in because my body fat is lower than yours? No. Do I not give in because I am physically better or physically stronger than you? No. I don't give in because I am mentally stronger than you. That's all it is really, mental. And for you to give in and me not to give in, we can only assume that I am mentally stronger than you. How does that make you feel? I don't know a damn thing about you, but I know that mentally, I can do something that you cannot. It sure makes me feel good though. That fact motivates me even more. So, thanks for being so mentally weak. It will make me work that much harder during my next workout. Thanks a lot.

    Sorry, did I hurt your feelings yet? I didn't mean to, I'm just stating the truth. It's not my fault if the truth hurts. You understand now that this is all mental, right? You understand that it's all a matter of mental strength and will power, don’t you? Good. Here's what you do. Next time your little food cravings start coming out, think about this. Look at the food and think, "What do I want more… the 5 seconds of enjoyment that I will have while I chew this food, or the enjoyment of the fact that 24 hours of everyday, 7 days of every week, I will have the body that I want to have." That is what it comes down to really, and let me tell you... no food tastes as good as that feeling feels.

    And you other people, you bull****ters. The ones that give me that idiotic speech about how "every food is ok if eaten in moderation." And how "no one should deny themselves anything." These are the same people who probably believe in having "Cheat days." Cheat days are the 1 day of the week where some people allow themselves to cheat a little from their diet and give into their food cravings, in moderation of course, kind of like a reward for the good work they did all week. Ya know what... BULL****! The hell with you and your cheat days. Your reward for sticking to your diet all week is 1 day of cheating? What kind of complete crap is this? Your reward for sticking to your diet all week is RESULTS! Remember them? They’re the reason that you are on this diet and working out in the first place. To get results!!! Not to have a cheat day at the end of the week.

    Every food is ok as long as it's eaten in moderation. One candy bar won't hurt. One cookie won't hurt. One piece of junk food won't hurt. Oh, is that so? Will it help? No, it will not help. It is doing nothing good for you in any way possible. Therefore, it serves no purpose. You are giving into your cravings for 5 seconds of chewing enjoyment, and nothing more.

    If anything, it does more bad than good. Do you know what giving into your food cravings "in moderation" does to most people? It makes them feel guilty. It makes them crave that food even more. It keeps the cravings alive and strong. Stop giving in to your cravings and the cravings will go away. Simple as that.

    What are you thinking now? Who am I? Like I never cheat or give into my cravings a little? NO! I don't! Not at all, not a little, not in moderation, not anything. The thought of eating some type of junk food doesn't even enter my mind anymore. I don't need those 5 seconds. I am stronger than that. Call it will power, or call it mental strength. My goal is to get results. My road to getting those results doesn't have to have 5 seconds of chewing pleasure. I eat for purpose, not pleasure. Food is not a hobby. Food is something your body needs to survive, and in the case of working out and getting results, food is something your body needs so that you can get those results. Food is nothing more than that. So, I give my body only what it needs to make these results happen. Does my body need the 5 seconds it takes for me to chew a piece of chocolate? No. Does my mind need it? NO! My mind is way too strong to need it, and that feels much better than any piece of chocolate would ever taste, and I love knowing that.

    Like I said, I eat for purpose, not pleasure. That statement sums up everything that I think about "cheat days" and "food cravings" and "everything is ok if it's eaten in moderation." So don't whine to me about how hard it is for you. Do you think I will feel bad for you? I won't. You are not special. It is exactly as hard for you as it is for me and EVERYONE else. What's the difference? I have what it takes mentally. Ya know what else? You have it too. You just need to learn to use it. And, hopefully… this article has helped bring it out.

    Havingitall,

    Who wrote this article? I LOVE it and feel like it could have been written by me! Thanks for the great read. I'm going to post it over in the Bring IT thread as well. Thanks again!
  • neeterskeeter
    neeterskeeter Posts: 571 Member
    Well, the way I avoid cravings/ temptations has already been covered but I will chime in my two cents anyway.

    Small meals throughout the day so I'm not hungry... I usually eat at least 6 times a day LOL but every meal is small, 100 - 300 calories. If I know I'm going to have a bigger lunch or dinner than I may not eat as many "snacks" (aka small meals) but really I guess I've set my metabolism to the point where my stomach gets hungry every 2 - 3 hours and it's hard for me to let it stay hungry. So I just keep it full of good, light stuff all day long.

    Also as someone else, I think fitness_chick mentioned, your cravings will go away if you don't give into them for awhile. This is what I think; a lot of our cravings for bad things are unnatural; sugar is like a drug, it's addictive, and it makes us hungrier and makes us crave more of it. It also doesn't keep us full the way healthy food does, so when we are soon hungry again and used to eating sugar or processed junk food etc. so we crave more. But none of this is natural... in our natural, caveman-like (ha ha) state, our body craves what we really need and what is good for us! Thus we have to re-program our body away from fake food... and yes, something full of chemically engineered modified crap is fake food... and towards whole, nutritious food. After we do that, we realize how bad for us the bad stuff is and we no longer even desire it.

    It worked for me, I had a huge sweet tooth and was a big fast food junkie. Now that I think about what I'm eating and what is best for my body, when I crave something "sweet" I reach for a grape. That is *naturally* sweet! And when I think of something like a donut or a piece of cake, I think that tastes "too" sweet... unnaturally sweet, and I honestly don't even want it. I am so proud of myself for getting to this place and I think anyone can do it... it's a matter of willpower and mind over matter. Good luck to you OP in resisting temptations and hopefully re-programming your "cravings."
  • specialsong77
    specialsong77 Posts: 78 Member
    Oh lord....................I can't I love it.................but, I love the goals I set for myself more. Find a healthy alternative......when honey and I want a cheeseburger and fries I make, Turkey burgers with cheese and mushrooms all the fixins on whole wheat bread with sweet snap peas as fries.............yummy! and all about 365 cals!

    There are options.................good luck and JUST SAY NO!:drinker:

    THAT is an awesome way to handle the junk food battle! Substitute with items as close as you can but that are healthy choices... trick your cravings! BRILLIANT!!! I like the meal you described too! I am going to try that...
  • neeterskeeter
    neeterskeeter Posts: 571 Member
    Oh lord....................I can't I love it.................but, I love the goals I set for myself more. Find a healthy alternative......when honey and I want a cheeseburger and fries I make, Turkey burgers with cheese and mushrooms all the fixins on whole wheat bread with sweet snap peas as fries.............yummy! and all about 365 cals!

    There are options.................good luck and JUST SAY NO!:drinker:

    THAT is an awesome way to handle the junk food battle! Substitute with items as close as you can but that are healthy choices... trick your cravings! BRILLIANT!!! I like the meal you described too! I am going to try that...

    You can also grill potatoes pretty healthy so they seem like fries but aren't dripping in oil and fat.
  • specialsong77
    specialsong77 Posts: 78 Member
    I plug in the calories of my desire-of-the-moment into MFP, see how many calories are REALLY in my craving,:grumble: :noway: and POW, the craving's gone and a healthy alternative is at the front of my mind!!!:happy:

    I have to say I am doing the same thing... I feel so guilty thinking about how far over I would go on my goal for calories and carbs for the day.... it has been helping me a lot just having the visual and actual numbers to look at. Kinda snaps me back to reality.
  • JennaK
    JennaK Posts: 43 Member
    I eat 6 times a day and 99% of the time I can resist becasue I am just plain not hungry and that makes it easier.:flowerforyou:
    How can you eat 6 times a day and lose weight?! I eat 3 times a day and have no problem getting up to 1500. I guess I just don't have this food thing worked out. I'm almost always hungry! I had oatmeal at 8:00 and I'm famished right now. But I have my food entered for the day and don't really have any room for a snack. My "meals" must have too many calories in them. :frown:

    If you add half of your meals to be vegetables (broccoli or brussel sprouts or whatever) you will use less calories and feel fuller. Today for dinner I had a chicken breast, half a cup of brown rice and 1 cup of brussel sprouts for only 300cals approximately and I was stuffed! If you are low on extra calories, try an apple for a snack w hich is less than 100. I started to play around with possibilities and plan my meals the day ahead.
  • mrsyac2
    mrsyac2 Posts: 2,784 Member
    I eat 6 times a day and 99% of the time I can resist becasue I am just plain not hungry and that makes it easier.:flowerforyou:
    How can you eat 6 times a day and lose weight?! I eat 3 times a day and have no problem getting up to 1500. I guess I just don't have this food thing worked out. I'm almost always hungry! I had oatmeal at 8:00 and I'm famished right now. But I have my food entered for the day and don't really have any room for a snack. My "meals" must have too many calories in them. :frown:


    1500 calories eating 5 times a day

    Breakfast 400 calories

    Snack 100 (it doesn't have to be a big snack)

    Lunch 400 calories

    Snack 100 calories (again it doesn't have to be a big snack

    Dinner 400 calories

    Total 1500 calories
  • jtintx
    jtintx Posts: 445 Member
    I eat 6 times a day and 99% of the time I can resist becasue I am just plain not hungry and that makes it easier.:flowerforyou:
    How can you eat 6 times a day and lose weight?! I eat 3 times a day and have no problem getting up to 1500. I guess I just don't have this food thing worked out. I'm almost always hungry! I had oatmeal at 8:00 and I'm famished right now. But I have my food entered for the day and don't really have any room for a snack. My "meals" must have too many calories in them. :frown:


    1500 calories eating 5 times a day

    Breakfast 400 calories

    Snack 100 (it doesn't have to be a big snack)

    Lunch 400 calories

    Snack 100 calories (again it doesn't have to be a big snack

    Dinner 400 calories

    Total 1500 calories
    I guess my biggest problem is my lunch. I just absolutely, positively HAVE to get away from the office at lunch time or I WILL go insane! So, I eat at Subway every weekday (except 1 day a week is lunch with hubby), I have a veggie with chips and a diet drink and it comes to 540 calories. So by the end of lunch I have hardly any calories left for dinner/evening snack. I guess I just don't know how to eat low cal.
  • MyaPapaya75
    MyaPapaya75 Posts: 3,143 Member
    I eat 6 times a day and 99% of the time I can resist becasue I am just plain not hungry and that makes it easier.:flowerforyou:
    How can you eat 6 times a day and lose weight?! I eat 3 times a day and have no problem getting up to 1500. I guess I just don't have this food thing worked out. I'm almost always hungry! I had oatmeal at 8:00 and I'm famished right now. But I have my food entered for the day and don't really have any room for a snack. My "meals" must have too many calories in them. :frown:
    More than likely Im willing to bet her food contains lots if good things veggies and fruit and lean meats in small portions....
  • mgullette
    mgullette Posts: 401 Member
    I eat 6 times a day and 99% of the time I can resist becasue I am just plain not hungry and that makes it easier.:flowerforyou:
    How can you eat 6 times a day and lose weight?! I eat 3 times a day and have no problem getting up to 1500. I guess I just don't have this food thing worked out. I'm almost always hungry! I had oatmeal at 8:00 and I'm famished right now. But I have my food entered for the day and don't really have any room for a snack. My "meals" must have too many calories in them. :frown:


    1500 calories eating 5 times a day

    Breakfast 400 calories

    Snack 100 (it doesn't have to be a big snack)

    Lunch 400 calories

    Snack 100 calories (again it doesn't have to be a big snack

    Dinner 400 calories

    Total 1500 calories
    I guess my biggest problem is my lunch. I just absolutely, positively HAVE to get away from the office at lunch time or I WILL go insane! So, I eat at Subway every weekday (except 1 day a week is lunch with hubby), I have a veggie with chips and a diet drink and it comes to 540 calories. So by the end of lunch I have hardly any calories left for dinner/evening snack. I guess I just don't know how to eat low cal.

    I'd cut the diet soda and the chips for sure. Subway offers side options like apples, yogurt, etc. You can also have your favorite sandwich made into a salad with lots of veggies instead, so you'd get all the good fillings but not the calories from the bread. And what bread you choose at Subway makes a huge difference! Just say no to the cheese and whatever. And diet soda doesn't do any good even if it doesn't have calories. Many studies suggest that caffeine can even stimulate hunger more, so maybe try cutting that out and see how it affects your hunger.
  • neeterskeeter
    neeterskeeter Posts: 571 Member
    I eat 6 times a day and 99% of the time I can resist becasue I am just plain not hungry and that makes it easier.:flowerforyou:
    How can you eat 6 times a day and lose weight?! I eat 3 times a day and have no problem getting up to 1500. I guess I just don't have this food thing worked out. I'm almost always hungry! I had oatmeal at 8:00 and I'm famished right now. But I have my food entered for the day and don't really have any room for a snack. My "meals" must have too many calories in them. :frown:


    1500 calories eating 5 times a day

    Breakfast 400 calories

    Snack 100 (it doesn't have to be a big snack)

    Lunch 400 calories

    Snack 100 calories (again it doesn't have to be a big snack

    Dinner 400 calories

    Total 1500 calories
    I guess my biggest problem is my lunch. I just absolutely, positively HAVE to get away from the office at lunch time or I WILL go insane! So, I eat at Subway every weekday (except 1 day a week is lunch with hubby), I have a veggie with chips and a diet drink and it comes to 540 calories. So by the end of lunch I have hardly any calories left for dinner/evening snack. I guess I just don't know how to eat low cal.

    I'd cut the diet soda and the chips for sure. Subway offers side options like apples, yogurt, etc. You can also have your favorite sandwich made into a salad with lots of veggies instead, so you'd get all the good fillings but not the calories from the bread. And what bread you choose at Subway makes a huge difference! Just say no to the cheese and whatever. And diet soda doesn't do any good even if it doesn't have calories. Many studies suggest that caffeine can even stimulate hunger more, so maybe try cutting that out and see how it affects your hunger.

    I agree. Also on the Biggest Loser last night Prevention Magazine was doing a quiz and one of the answers was that *both* regular and diet soda have the ability to cut your lifespan short because they can lead to metabolic syndrome.

    I try to bring my lunch to work and even if you need to get away from the office, why not go on a walk and eat your lunch somewhere outside (if it's warm) or come early and eat it if there's anywhere away from your desk at work? When I do go to Subway I get the six inch turkey sub on wheat, even if I add pepperjack cheese and low fat honey mustard dressing, it's under 500 calories. Or you could have half it it with some fruit, and then repeat that later in the day if you can eat at your desk? Good luck.
  • jtintx
    jtintx Posts: 445 Member
    Well, I didn't cut out the chips today but I did bring them back to the office and will have them as my afternoon snack. A step in the right direction I guess...:ohwell:
  • neeterskeeter
    neeterskeeter Posts: 571 Member
    Good job jtinx! Next you can try snacking on fruit (like an apple or banana with some peanut butter) or veggies (like chopped carrots and low fat dressing) and you might find that you stay fuller than after you eat the chips.
  • aprilvet
    aprilvet Posts: 724 Member
    I eat 6 times a day and 99% of the time I can resist becasue I am just plain not hungry and that makes it easier.:flowerforyou:
    How can you eat 6 times a day and lose weight?! I eat 3 times a day and have no problem getting up to 1500. I guess I just don't have this food thing worked out. I'm almost always hungry! I had oatmeal at 8:00 and I'm famished right now. But I have my food entered for the day and don't really have any room for a snack. My "meals" must have too many calories in them. :frown:


    1500 calories eating 5 times a day

    Breakfast 400 calories

    Snack 100 (it doesn't have to be a big snack)

    Lunch 400 calories

    Snack 100 calories (again it doesn't have to be a big snack

    Dinner 400 calories

    Total 1500 calories
    I guess my biggest problem is my lunch. I just absolutely, positively HAVE to get away from the office at lunch time or I WILL go insane! So, I eat at Subway every weekday (except 1 day a week is lunch with hubby), I have a veggie with chips and a diet drink and it comes to 540 calories. So by the end of lunch I have hardly any calories left for dinner/evening snack. I guess I just don't know how to eat low cal.

    jtintx- I love Subway but mine comes in at about 300 cals! 6"turkey sub, no cheese or condiments, ALL of the veggies! It's quite tasty, very filling, and the cruch of the veggies takes away my learned desire for the texture of chips! Hope this helps!
  • I try everything and it was almost impossible.Everyone began telling me how fatty I look or I was getting.I saw myself and it was true.My scale show the numbers and I didn't like what I saw.I used to walk a lot aand since several weeks I noticed I was getting fatigue and my legs hurt.
    Theeeeeeeeeeere I realized it was time to say no to certain food and began asking around and telling friends and family that I wanted to lose weight.
    So my mind was set to say NOOOOOOOO.
    Began looking for labels...so try to set your mind first of what you want or not.It work for me maybe it can work for others.
  • dothompson
    dothompson Posts: 1,184 Member
    how can people say no to certain food?<junk food>????:indifferent:

    I don't think you should, if it's something you really love and can control, then have some as long as you fit it into your plan. Sometimes you realize that what you have to give up makes it not worth it, but if you have permission then it takes the edge off the craving.

    Some foods may be trigger foods where if you eat one bite you can't stop. Then it's best to avoid them all together.
  • neeterskeeter
    neeterskeeter Posts: 571 Member
    I try everything and it was almost impossible.Everyone began telling me how fatty I look or I was getting.I saw myself and it was true.My scale show the numbers and I didn't like what I saw.I used to walk a lot aand since several weeks I noticed I was getting fatigue and my legs hurt.
    Theeeeeeeeeeere I realized it was time to say no to certain food and began asking around and telling friends and family that I wanted to lose weight.
    So my mind was set to say NOOOOOOOO.
    Began looking for labels...so try to set your mind first of what you want or not.It work for me maybe it can work for others.

    That's an awesome tip. I'm a big believer in mind over matter. I read something today that cravings for sweets are caused by poor nutrition. If you're body isn't used to proper care and feeding, it will crave the wrong things... you have to re-train your mind to want the right things, like you say. Then soon you *won't* be craving the bad stuff because you know better. Your mind can say no, your body will just have to go along with it! :smile:
  • jtintx
    jtintx Posts: 445 Member
    jtintx- I love Subway but mine comes in at about 300 cals! 6"turkey sub, no cheese or condiments, ALL of the veggies! It's quite tasty, very filling, and the cruch of the veggies takes away my learned desire for the texture of chips! Hope this helps!
    [/quote]I finally figured out that someone had posted incorrect info here in the food database. So now, my lunch comes in at 475, including a bag of chips! That's a lot better than 540! Now when I'm able to give up the chips it will be even better.
  • neeterskeeter
    neeterskeeter Posts: 571 Member
    That makes sense, I was *wondering* how it was that many calories and figured you must have been eating a foot-long instead of a 6" LOL. I get cheese and low fat honey mustard dressing when I do get the turkey sub and it still comes in at 375 or so. Good job figuring that out.
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