This makes me so sad - Feeders

Teliooo
Teliooo Posts: 725 Member
edited October 6 in Chit-Chat
I was reading this today and it made me really said

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2080369/Donna-Simpson-Worlds-heaviest-mother-reveals-long-journey-fat-fetish-videos-healthy-life.html

I am glad that she is finally taking steps to help herself and her family but there are some horrible people out there. I didn't realise people paid to see others eat. I must be living a very naive life. I really want to send her a link to this site

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  • Namaste1983
    Namaste1983 Posts: 603 Member
    I DATED A FEEDER ONCE. IT'S NOT A GOOD SPOT TO BE IN, THANKFULLY IT DIDN'T WORK OUT AND I LEFT THAT SITUATION AFTER A MONTH. IT'S JUST SO WEIRD TO THINK ABOUT IT NOW. IT STARTED OUT SO INNOCENT TOO. HE DIDN'T COME OUT AND SAY HE WAS A FEEDER, HE JUST KEPT BUYING ME FOOD, WATCHING ME EAT, ASKING IF I WAS HUNGRY AN HOUR AFTER OUR MEALS. I WILL SAY THAT I NEVER FELT MORE ACCEPTED AT MY BODY SIZE THAN WHEN I WAS WITH HIM BUT IT WAS A TERRIBLE SITUATION. IT WAS LIKE A HEROIN ADDICT DATING A DEALER. JUST FUELING THE FIRE YOU KNOW?
  • Teliooo
    Teliooo Posts: 725 Member
    I DATED A FEEDER ONCE. IT'S NOT A GOOD SPOT TO BE IN, THANKFULLY IT DIDN'T WORK OUT AND I LEFT THAT SITUATION AFTER A MONTH. IT'S JUST SO WEIRD TO THINK ABOUT IT NOW. IT STARTED OUT SO INNOCENT TOO. HE DIDN'T COME OUT AND SAY HE WAS A FEEDER, HE JUST KEPT BUYING ME FOOD, WATCHING ME EAT, ASKING IF I WAS HUNGRY AN HOUR AFTER OUR MEALS. I WILL SAY THAT I NEVER FELT MORE ACCEPTED AT MY BODY SIZE THAN WHEN I WAS WITH HIM BUT IT WAS A TERRIBLE SITUATION. IT WAS LIKE A HEROIN ADDICT DATING A DEALER. JUST FUELING THE FIRE YOU KNOW?

    Gosh, I know what you mean though. i have never been in that siutation but I guess it is akin staying in a violent relationship. they get inside your head.
  • I watched a program once where the lady lived in a feeder relationship and had a goal of weighing more than 1000lbs. She actually cried because she thought she weighed more than 600lbs and only weighed 500 and some pounds.I am not sure if its the same woman, but I think it is. This is a lot more common than people realize.
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