Losing weight while pregant

HSmamato4

Wasn't sure exactly where to categorize this topic, but I wanted to get other thoughts/opinions on this. To give you some context, my current weight is 299.9, so it's not like I am already at a healthy weight and worried about gaining during a pregnancy (btw, not pregnant yet, just thinking about it-this will be my 5th). So what do you think? Safe, for a person of my size, to continue to lose weight while pregnant? Obviously, I won't be "dieting" and I will try my best to stick to a whole foods, limited sugar/carb, high-protein diet and be sure I am taking in adequate calories.

Opinions? Please be respectful.

lindsaymo34

A medical professional would be better able to answer this. I don't think I would "try" to lose weight, but rather eat clean and healthy and exercise...more of a healthy lifestyle than a diet.

bonnt

A medical professional would be better able to answer this. I don't think I would "try" to lose weight, but rather eat clean and healthy and exercise...more of a healthy lifestyle than a diet.

Yes. You would need to talk to your doctor. A lot of doctors will probably tell you to try to avoid gaining any weight, but to eat healthy and do some light - moderate exercise. If you are thinking about trying for a baby, why not wait until you have lost the weight and are closer to where you want to be?

elcieloesazul

I think as long as you don't deprive the baby or yourself of enough calories, continue on. Be careful of the strain you put on your body during exercise, though, as well. (i.e.: if you weren't a runner before you got pregnant, don't run when you are). I can only think that the mental aspect would be difficult because you'll be gaining more weight and then trying to lose the original weight. I would definitely consult a doctor about this beforehand, but in my opinion, it would be safe if done moderately.

sirabe

losing weigh t while pregnant is dangerous to both you and the baby. But also, gaining alot of weight especially if you are already overweight.

when I was pregnant with my second child, I was already overweight so my doctor advised me that i would need to now gain that much weight during the pregnancy. i think over the whole pregnancy I gained 15 lbs. and once the baby was born all of that went with the baby ( because it was the baby plus fluids).

That's my 2 cents. Just try to keep your weight gain in moderation. It is ineviditable that you will gain weight during pregnancy because the weight will be the baby.

ahinescapron

I would definitely talk to your doctor about it. That being said, the best approach is probably to eat healthy (not dieting) and exercise moderately throughout your pregnancy. That should minimize weight gain and make recovery easier. I was already overweight when I got pregnant with my daughter and I gained only about 12 pounds during my pregnancy. The doc was fine with that and my daughter is perfectly healthy. You might also consider taking a little more time to lose weight before conceiving, to minimize your risk of complications.

skinnydreams165

Your doctor will be the most help answering this question. a friend of mine just had twins in December.. her 3rd pregnancy and she gained over 100 lbs, they actually put her ON a diet so she could lose some of the weight- she was too big and her heath was at risk... she lost about 35 lbs in her 3rd trimester but her dr was really watching her close. I'm not sure if it helps but I know it's possible depending on the situation. good luck to you

traceracer

Why not lose weight before you get pregnant?

GINAvsGINA

When I got pregnant with my second child I weighed about 310lbs and was training with a personal trainer at that time. I did not continue training but I ate heathier and yes I loss weight. I wasn't a large amount but I did lose and my midwife and dietician had no problem with it since my baby was steadily growing as normal. If you do decide to get pregnant just consult the dietician in your ob's office and they will monitor you through your pregnancy.

ElizabethRoad

Why not lose weight before you get pregnant?

Because she has 170 pounds to go and it could take years?

pupcamper

At your weight if you were to get pregnant I am sure that your doctor would offer you some nutritional support so you don't gain anymore weight and to ensure that you are getting the correct nutirents for a healthy pregancy and baby. When you are pregnant and/or breastfeeding your number one priority should always be yours and your baby's health this is not the time to make losing weight a priority! Good luck.

traceracer

Why not lose weight before you get pregnant?

Because she has 170 pounds to go and it could take years?

Well, It wouldnt take years to lose a healthy amount of weight before she got preganant.

traceracer

I would suggest taking a couple months to get serious about living a healthy lifestyle and exercising and talking to your doc about the best way to go about this as everyone posted above:)

MsMargie1116

It's not advisable to "Try" to lose weight while pregnant, but I can guarantee you from personal experience, that it is totally possible. Just eat healthier and it'll come off, without a doubt. I was pregnant in 2007 and my doc sent me to a diabetic counselor. I was eating every two hours, and STILL lost weight. The diabetic councelor was getting concerned, but I assured her that I was eating ALL the time... I totally get it, I am wanting to get pregnant, too, and am prepared to really watch my diet closely. But definitely talk with your doc about your diet...

purpleipod

Talk to your doctor. Trying to lose weight while pregnant could be risky.

Jayme34

I would say that you shouldnt try to purposely lose weight while pregnant but with that being said it is possible to lose weight and still have a healthy pregnancy. I lost weight while pregnant just by cutting out junk food, stopping soda and watching portion sizes while still excercising all the way through. I was lighter on my due date than when I found out I was pregnant. I was also a plus size woman and the doctors were not worried at all. If anything I just ate better and stayed active. Good Luck!

Slimithy

My wife found out she wa pregnant about 34 pounds into her weightoss journey. Her beginning weight was close to yours. She is now 8 months in and has only gained a total of 8 pounds (the ultrasound last week said about 4.5 of those were specifically the baby). Doc simply asked her at the beginning what her daily caloric intake was and not to reduce it; but not to feel any need to enlarge it either (her calorie goal was 1650 a day at the time). So I guess I would sau you probably don't want to try to lose weight while pregnant, but if you are already big there is no reason to gain a huge amount of weight either...

5050jnernst

Definitely talk with you doctor, and also perhaps a registered dietcian. This is a topic for a medical professional for sure. Chances are that your doctor would probably like to see you lose some weight before becoming pregnant. I am a retired medical professional and would again caution you to talk with you doctor first. There can be medical problems that can arise from being pregnant under normal circumstances let alone being overweight.

Hola723

Bump. I've been wondering the same thing.

kennedar

Talk to your dr, midwife or OB. I am 30 weeks pregnant and here because I was recently diagnosed with gestational diabetes. I was about 180 pounds pre-pregnancy and was 207 pounds when I was diagnosed at 27 weeks. The gestational diabetes diet my midwife has me on is between 2000 - 2300 calories a day, depending on what I am eating, and I am losing about a pound a week right now. My midwife is not concerned because the baby is growing as he should, but it does worry me!

I think if you eat healthier food than you were pre-pregnancy it is only natural that some weight will come off. But I would not focus on weight loss, you need to ensure your child is getting all the nutrients they need!

HSmamato4

Thanks for all of the replies.

To be clear, I will not be trying to lose weight while pregnant.

Also, as stated this would be my 5th child (6th pregnancy), so I've been around this block a few times and have always had VERY healthy pregnancies, and yes I have been overweight with all of them.

As a previous commenter stated (thank you, by the way) it will take me at least 2 years, I am estimating, to get to my goal weight (130). I HAVE been working very hard to lose weight. I have lost 30 pounds so far. I eat a healthy diet, limit my sugar intake (actually doing a sugar detox right now), and eat whole grains, lean meats and local produce.

I plan to continue with a similar diet once I am pregnant with possibly increasing some of my whole grains/fruits. I try to have these in limited quantities right now but I know baby will need complex carbs.

And I am not getting pregnant tomorrow. My husband has moved to Florida do to a job change and I am trying to sell our house 1100 miles away, so kinda hard to get pregnant when I never see him! We are thinking of trying maybe in June or July to have a spring baby. So I have a good 6 more months to get more weight off.

I was just curious what others had experienced. I have not really gained any weight with any of my pregnancies. A few pounds towards the end and that was it-my babies are big and I would be down 25 pounds within 2 weeks of delivery (I nurse which helps). I did gain about 40 with my first but she was a late August baby and I retained so much water it was ridiculous. I seriously had ankles like an elephant. No issues with pre-e or anything like that though.

Obviously, I want to be as healthy as possible going into a pregnancy, but I was just curious if it would be okay to continue to lose weight. My focus would not be trying to lose but rather maintaining my healthy lifestyle. Of course, I will talk to my midwife, but I just wanted to know if anyone else had gotten pregnant while trying to lose and how that changed things.

Thanks for your responses.

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cramernh

Wasn't sure exactly where to categorize this topic, but I wanted to get other thoughts/opinions on this. To give you some context, my current weight is 299.9, so it's not like I am already at a healthy weight and worried about gaining during a pregnancy (btw, not pregnant yet, just thinking about it-this will be my 5th). So what do you think? Safe, for a person of my size, to continue to lose weight while pregnant? Obviously, I won't be "dieting" and I will try my best to stick to a whole foods, limited sugar/carb, high-protein diet and be sure I am taking in adequate calories.

Opinions? Please be respectful.

This is obvious that you need to consult with your OBGYN and any other healthcare professional who is overseeing you through this pregnancy....

nicehormones

... Just wait until after you've had the baby. Why put them at risk? Any weight loss goals should be put on hold during pregnancy.

sassylilmama

It is not the time to try and lose weight. But it is an excellent time to change your eating habits. Make healthier choices, limit junk food. When the baby comes you will already be on the right path to lose weight.

Lleldiranne

The general rule of thumb would be to not lose while pregnant. You could try for maintenance, under the supervision of your doctor (so your weight would be shifting from you to baby, etc). But you don't want to drop calories (and with it, essential nutrition) too much during the pregnancy. Your best bet would be to work on losing before getting pregnant - it will make getting pregnant easier, staying healthy during your pregnancy easier, etc. As long as you are not losing too quickly it shouldn't affect your ability to get pregnant at any time.

FYI, there used to be a discussion group called Fit for Future Families, for women who were trying to lose weight before/while TTC. I don't know if they are still around, but you can search for them.

jalara

Hi there,

I run a private group on here called Fit For Future Families - it is a group of women who are trying to conceive and losing weight while trying, or before they start to try. If you're interested in joining us, send me a private message and we'll get you introduced.

Also, I would like to add that I understand the need for a baby, and I understand the risks associated with high BMI pregnancies. Some previous posters on here mentioned it would be best to seek medical advice and I agree 100%. In doing so you will most likely encounter the same professional opinion with varying details. For example, every MD will tell you to lose weight BEFORE you get pregnant (and the lower the better for you and baby, with which I agree) and you will have others put you on a calorie count while pregnant, or actually tell you to not gain a single pound while pregnant. This is all normal for high BMI pregnancies, but the specifics of your body, your health and your baby's health need to be evaluated by someone who has you medical background in hand.

Good luck in what you decide!

Lozze

From what I've read if you are obese, your goal should be to maintain while pregnant, not put on weight and definitely not lose it.

However talking to your doctor is the best option.

HSmamato4

Thanks everyone for your responses. I think maybe some failed to read what I wrote as I tried to make it clear that I would not be TRYING to lose weight while pregnant. Of course, I would not voluntarily put my child at risk. To suggest so is a bit insulting. I was just curious what other's experiences were. I won't wait to reach my goal weight before getting pregnant because that will probably be at least 2 years down the road. I am 34 years old, so I'm not getting any younger as far as my fertility goes. Also, I have already had 4, very successful, relatively uneventful pregnancies-all while overweight. I have just never been trying to lose weight before getting pregnant before and wondered if it is safe to continue to lose. Not TRY to lose-that would not be my goal. But if I continue to lose just because I am eating better and exercising-things that I haven't focused on in previous pregnancies-will weight-loss just be a natural thing and as long as I am meeting my nutritional needs required to sustain a healthy pregnancy, would that be okay. Maybe I didn't word it clearly to begin with.

sassylilmama

During mys sister last pregnancy she changed her eating habits, ate healthier and didnt overeat "because the baby needed it". She did in fact lose about 15 pounds. Her doctor was ok with it as the baby was growing fine but it did result in extra ultrasounds to verify this.