a personal Q for girls who have lost 100lbs +

hperowl

Don't be embarrased

My personal worry is my boobs. I like them at the moment, and if i could keep them like this and change everything else, that would be awesome, but i'm so scared they're gonna just look like empty carrier bags

Does anyone have experience with this at all?

I totally hear you! Added to the fact that I'm loosing sizes in the ladies, I also nursed 4 children! AND, all the women in my family have saggy boobs:sad: I swear, if I believed in plastic surgery, those would be the first thing to get a perk!

eeebee

Believe it or not, some men really love a camel-toe/fupa - there are even websites dedicated to them and it is very common to have when overweight.

It usually, more often than not, lessens as you lose weight and becomes significantly flatter.

However, for some, they will always have a bit of a protruding 'V'egion no matter what their weight and should never feel embarrassed about it...and actually if I were a man, I'd probably enjoy the extra cushioning :blushing:

Suziq2you

The first time I ever lost a "significant" amount of weight I noticed in difference in Intercourse and I talked to my Gyn about it she told me that the heavier you are the "tighter" you are because of the fat in the pelvic region and that it is not uncommon to notice a difference in intercourse and that it might almost feel like (for lack of a better description) that there is nothing even going on...because of the loss of fat in the pelvic area...I remember her telling me that she had some women that were over 400 pounds and she could barely do an exam on them because they were so "tight" and that she had 90 pound women that she could stick a whole arm up (I really couldn't believe how candid she was with me lol)....I came home and told my husband that maybe I should just regain the fat for both of our sakes lol....

I know that doesn't the OP question but just kind of an FYI for those that might be experiencing something similar and too afraid to ask!

That is odd because I definitely feel "tighter" there since I shed the weight (both my own perspective and my hubby's observations). Maybe because of all of the exercise and muscles? I didn't just lose fat, I got pretty strong everywhere.

Yep, same here.

azlady7

i am soooo glad someone asked this question. i never knew how to phrase it! And i love some of the responses. Hmmmm.....I am thinking I am looking forward to the bruising myself LOL thanks HMD7703 for posting on this thread!

Namaste1983

MY "AREA" WENT DOWN BUT NOT ENOUGH TO MAKE IT LOOK "NORMAL". I WILL END UP GETTING A LOWER BODY LIFT WITH VAGINOPLASTY AND THIGH REDUCTION TO HELP IMPROVE MY OVERALL DOWNSTAIRS HEALTH. TOO MUCH SKIN= NOT ENOUGH AIR. IT'S A FUN PLACE FOR BATERIA TO MEET, HAVE FUN AND CREATE LOVELY INFECTIONS. SO I HAVE LEARNED TO BE SUPER CLEAN AND NICE DOWN THERE AT ALL TIMES. THEN AGAIN, I LOST OVER 200+ SO YOU MAY NOT HAVE THIS ISSUE

Cosmic_Unicorn

I've lost a significant amount of fat there, but I still have a little cushion. I'm not certain about anything feeling tighter per se, but I'm so much more sensitive to what's going on now that I don't have such an impressive barrier of fat between all the fun stuff. That, combined with the self confidence after weight loss, has made sex a whole new experience.

Be patient, it will come off eventually

Ashlea82

Wow so many replies now
thankyou to every one who replied im soooo sooooo relieved to hear it will go away
you have no idea how terrified i was that maybe once everything else shrank i might look like i had a package when wearing leggings LOL!!!!.. ewww far out theres nothing sexy about anything to do with being over weight i dunno why anyone likes it (i know there are porn sites etc just about fatties lol)
oh and im so not worried about my boobs they where big when i was 14 yrs old and size 6-8 (aus sizes)
i would actually be rather happy if they shrunk LOL!