New & Desperate to lose the belly and 40+ lbs

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Hi Everyone,
I'm looking to connect with some people in the same boat as me. I'm 32, and I blew up literally after I had kids. I'm desperate to lose this belly and find close that actually look semi attractive on me. I probably won't be able to post all the time - but would like to connect with a few that have the same feelings as me. I am currently weighing 190lbs, give or take. It's a huge blow to me because before my kids, I weighed 110 lbs. I've given up the dream of being skinny, but a healthy weight is now the goal... Friend me if you're looking to connect!