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anhancock10
anhancock10 Posts: 148 Member
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Do you notice that guys are more douchy than normal? Ha I had a guy seriously have this conversation with me today!
GUY: what day are you off this week?
me:thurs
guy: thursday it is
me: ok what u wanna do?
guy: lunch and sex
me: excuse me, sorry i dont do that.
guy: well if im gonna be honest if there is no sex involved i really dont want to hang out.
me: your mom should have swallowed.

The last 4 guys that have asked me out have been like this...what the heck?
It semi makes me want to be fat bc i dont ever remember ever dealing with this when i was :( (Rant over, feel free to comment)
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  • JustGresh
    JustGresh Posts: 42
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    Gain the weight back.
  • rsmithy89
    rsmithy89 Posts: 174 Member
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    Noticed the same thing with women. They posess a little more tact though ;)
  • anhancock10
    anhancock10 Posts: 148 Member
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    Noticed the same thing with women. They posess a little more tact though ;)

    good to know, i guess haha!
  • dlaplume2
    dlaplume2 Posts: 1,658 Member
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    unfortunately society has adapted to this behavior. It almost seems normal to these people. Don't let it get to you though. You are healthy and confident and beautiful. Don't let a douchy guy get under your skin.
  • anhancock10
    anhancock10 Posts: 148 Member
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    unfortunately society has adapted to this behavior. It almost seems normal to these people. Don't let it get to you though. You are healthy and confident and beautiful. Don't let a douchy guy get under your skin.

    Thank you!
  • george_ie_girl
    george_ie_girl Posts: 120 Member
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    Definitely! Maybe not as bad as the whole lunch then sex comment - but I've had more douchy guys talk to me when I'm at a club or something... Or getting surrounded by bogan footy players who previously would not have looked my way.

    I like it though, makes me feel good about myself.
  • ChrisStoney
    ChrisStoney Posts: 479 Member
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    I'm not even that foreward with my wife and we have been married 20 years.... where do you meet these's apes? Do you work at a strip club or something like that? You look pretty good looking from your pic, I think any normal guy would be thrilled to have your attention for an evening. that should be electric/exciting

    with my wife I almost had sex every day last week... almost on Monday, almost on Tuesday, almost on wed...etc...
  • bpurc22
    bpurc22 Posts: 180 Member
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    seriously, it's pretty embarrassing that a guy would consider that normal.
  • ElizabethRoad
    ElizabethRoad Posts: 5,138 Member
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    I'm not even that foreward with my wife
    Really?
  • engineman312
    engineman312 Posts: 3,450 Member
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    is the guy british? it sounds like something a british guy would do. we americans are much nicer.
  • yesiamaduck
    yesiamaduck Posts: 531 Member
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    You live in an area full of *kitten*?
  • Going4Lean
    Going4Lean Posts: 1,077 Member
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    I wish this happened to me once in a blue moon at least.
  • Justjoshin
    Justjoshin Posts: 999 Member
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    I only suggest sex and lunch when I know the woman is going to be into it /shrug.
  • EngineerPrincess
    EngineerPrincess Posts: 306 Member
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    This is why I avoid guys that talk to me and talk to the shyer, quiet boys, they tend to be sweeter, less forward and more grateful for the attention. :D
  • yesiamaduck
    yesiamaduck Posts: 531 Member
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    This is why I avoid guys that talk to me and talk to the shyer, quiet boys, they tend to be sweeter, less forward and more grateful for the attention. :D

    I now have an image of a cute little owl at a cafe rotating it's head scanning for the awkward ones, it made me smile... thanks
  • JDMPWR
    JDMPWR Posts: 1,863 Member
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    You must meet dudes with zero game. If he has to announce it without even knowing if he is going to get it then he is a failure at picking up women.
  • EngineerPrincess
    EngineerPrincess Posts: 306 Member
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    This is why I avoid guys that talk to me and talk to the shyer, quiet boys, they tend to be sweeter, less forward and more grateful for the attention. :D

    I now have an image of a cute little owl at a cafe rotating it's head scanning for the awkward ones, it made me smile... thanks

    LOL you're welcome, I go for the owl pic because creepers are less likely to creepily message owls than girls. :)
  • anhancock10
    anhancock10 Posts: 148 Member
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    I'm not even that foreward with my wife and we have been married 20 years.... where do you meet these's apes? Do you work at a strip club or something like that? You look pretty good looking from your pic, I think any normal guy would be thrilled to have your attention for an evening. that should be electric/exciting

    with my wife I almost had sex every day last week... almost on Monday, almost on Tuesday, almost on wed...etc...

    Did you really just ask if i worked at a strip club bahahahaha! UM ...no...i work at verizon...i sell phones:)
  • anhancock10
    anhancock10 Posts: 148 Member
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    Most of the guys are guys that mutual friends have hooked me up with, i told them NO MORE! :)
  • ElizabethRoad
    ElizabethRoad Posts: 5,138 Member
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    You get used to it.

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