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  • anthony438
    anthony438 Posts: 578 Member
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    Wouldn't bother me a bit - you love who you love, (I'm just happy my wife feels that way about my stretchmarks as well, lol)
  • bikermike5094
    bikermike5094 Posts: 1,752 Member
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    I have more stretch marks than my wife ( who has 0 after 2 kids...) so I'm in no position to judge.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
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    My wife's stretch marks were caused by the three greatest gifts I ever received. My daughters.

    I love every stretchmark she has.
  • ashtonvv
    ashtonvv Posts: 144
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    My wife's stretch marks were caused by the three greatest gifts I ever received. My daughters.

    I love every stretchmark she has.



    ^ best thing I have read on here all day!
  • rileamoyer
    rileamoyer Posts: 2,411 Member
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    MRS ROAD DOG has a real catch!
  • ironanimal
    ironanimal Posts: 5,922 Member
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    My girlfriend claims she has them, but I can't say I've ever even noticed them. If that were a deal-breaker for someone, his opinion of you isn't worth the oxygen he breathes. They happen. It's natural.
  • cleoleigh
    cleoleigh Posts: 76 Member
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    Love this answer... perfectly true for most good men out there I bet (like mine)
    Stretch marks aren't necessarily a deal breaker. For me, a low intellect, a mean disposition, or emotional problems can be TEMPORARILY overcome by perfect skin and a stunning figure. On the other hand, a good sense of humor, strong listening skills, an affectionate and loving disposition, and an interesting mind will ALWAYS outshine something like stretch-marks, crooked teeth, or a little extra padding. BUT: if she's some kind of drama queen and has stretch marks, I'm done.
  • KyleB65
    KyleB65 Posts: 1,196 Member
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    First, yes, I would love to have a beauty like Halle Berri on my arm. However, I would also like to drive a Ferrari, climb Mt Everest and walk on the moon! All are unrealistic dreams.

    What is real is that I have a lovely wife who is beautiful and loves me as much as I love her! That giving birth to our two children gave her some stretch marks does not at all take anything away from her beauty.

    Just like the stretch marks & lose skin I now have, does not diminish me in her eyes!
  • Chuckw40
    Chuckw40 Posts: 201
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    I'm just happy to get to the point where I can see a woman's stretch marks!
  • UponThisRock
    UponThisRock Posts: 4,522 Member
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    stretch marks and c-section scars are hawt
  • EmCarroll1990
    EmCarroll1990 Posts: 2,849 Member
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    I'm just happy to get to the point where I can see a woman's stretch marks!

    Bahaha.
  • grapenutSF
    grapenutSF Posts: 648 Member
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    My wife's stretch marks were caused by the three greatest gifts I ever received. My daughters.

    I love every stretchmark she has.

    :heart:
  • gemmaldavies
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    Well, my wife always complains of stretchmarks after our two kids and weight loss...I've never seen em and I'm pretty sure I've looked everywhere....

    haha perfectly well put. love it!
  • HauteP1nk
    HauteP1nk Posts: 2,139 Member
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    My wife's stretch marks were caused by the three greatest gifts I ever received. My daughters.

    I love every stretchmark she has.

    What a sweetheart eh ladies? :)
  • auticus
    auticus Posts: 1,051 Member
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    As I have them, they don't bother me for a woman to have them.
  • engineman312
    engineman312 Posts: 3,450 Member
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    usually, by the time i've found a girl that is willing to see ME naked, i'm not going to be the one that sees a couple of stretch marks and goes "eeew, no. gross."

    and until those victoria secret models start returning my phone calls, its something i'm going to have to live with.
  • jen0731
    jen0731 Posts: 59 Member
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    My wife's stretch marks were caused by the three greatest gifts I ever received. My daughters.

    I love every stretchmark she has.

    I absolutely love this!
  • Kissybiz
    Kissybiz Posts: 361 Member
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    I'm just happy to get to the point where I can see a woman's stretch marks!

    haha.. cute
  • Shanna_Inc86
    Shanna_Inc86 Posts: 781 Member
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    My wife's stretch marks were caused by the three greatest gifts I ever received. My daughters.

    I love every stretchmark she has.

    I absolutely love this!

    Love that as well

    OP: Thanks for posting...
    I'd like to say I'm better than being insecure about mine but I am :blushing:

    When I first lost my baby weight and left my daughter's dad, I was so outgoing and could talk to any guy, never really worried about it.
    However after I gained BACK 40lbs....something changed

    I've lost the weight I gained and working to get to my final goal, yet there are times I'll just cry b/c I feel like my body is completely damaged. That and my last ex would pick on me about them...yep I let it get to me. Honestly I'd rather avoid intimacy at this point....makes it easier that I'm single :laugh:
  • rayleansout
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    No I would admire her, and love her even more because I know what she has been through! Who cares - if she is fun and doesnt ***** all the time, im all in!!