Looking for encouraging friends.

jennmcpherson

So when I started on MFP about a year ago I had a bunch of friends who cheered me on and encouraged me. I did the same to them. It felt like every step of the way we were all there for each other. In the last 5-6 months most of those friends have disappeared and I started looking through the forums for people saying they were looking for friends for encouragement and to encourage. Well I added a bunch of them and looking for encouragement, yes they were but I have yet to hear a "hooray" back. I know it probably seems silly but when I've lost a pound, logged all my food under my calories for the day or logged in for X amount of days in a row I look so forward to seeing those little happy comments.

If you are looking for someone to cheer you on AND who you can cheer on please let me know because I'm not strong enough yet to do this on my own.

neveradullmoment

I hear ya! It is so much easier when there is a cheering section for ya!!!


Feel free to add me!

lissamok

Add me. We can do it together

dakoerber

I agree with you! Those comments make such a difference. I am here for you!

gnrshelton

I feel the same way. The little comments are what keeps us going. A few people I have as friends are what brought me back when I slipped and fell off the wagon. I am back now and starting again. I need all the encouragement I can get. So I will give as much in return. Feel free to add me as a friend.

Shortone22

Add me too! I have never had anyone say I'm too quiet!

melbhall

You got me doll face!!!!

Chagama

I agree completely. Positive feedback from others who understand what are working towards is essential

jrich1

I am always looking for new friends, you can add me if you would like.

shaparra

hi, feel free to add me. I just joined about 10 days ago and have found great support. That goes to everyone else , send me friend requests :flowerforyou:

kelnort

i started about a year ago as well. did not really do much. just started back up recently and am looking for friends too.

TrishFowler

Feel free to add me. I too am trying to build my network of friends. I definitely need the support. I am great cheerleader as well!

NataliePinNV

Count me in. I am still trying to figure this all out, so I may not be tooo loud. But I'd like to try. I need the same encouragement. So,let's do this.:happy:

loobie1805

i will be your cheering buddy on here. I am new to the site and am just starting out trying to lose some weight - just starting out for the millionth time that is. Have recently been diagnosed with Hashimoto's so I am hoping that now my thyroid is more under control I might actually be able to lose some weight this time. My husband is dieting with me and is a member on here also, although he doesn't go in for message boards and all that kids of stuff......I love reading about other peoples stories and efforts, so hopefully can make quite a good cheering buddy.

All the best

Lou :happy:

southrider

You can add me too!! I only have a few that cheer me on also. Sometimes you just need to hear positive words to help get you through the day.

Auburngirl91

I agree.....I just have started using Myfitnesspal.....I need the encouraging words due to I have not much will power. Please add me as a friend.....I will cheer ya on if you will do the same for me.

janalayn

Feel free to add me ... i am pretty active on here

rr10speed

I agree! I'm new to this so it might take me a little bit to figure it out! Encouragement helps ALOT!!

ahealthy4u

I agree completely. Positive feedback from others who understand what are working towards is essential

I agree you can add me

jennmcpherson

My goodness, you guys sure know how to make a girl feel great! Thank you thank you thank you!

JilianneNicole

I hear you! Feel free to add me as well!!!

beautifullyblessed16

I am encouraged already seeing the encouragement passed along through this thread. Feel free to add me (open to anyone). Today is day 17 for me here on mfp.

SaSSyhasCurls

Feel free to add me

bigbeardiver

Agreed, feel free to add me. I found that not only positive comments like "way to go" work but as people get to know you better they understand more of the little details. I had a friend who hated running so whenever they posted information about running you try to boost the positive vibes in that area. If you know they hate cooking, sending them simple receipes helps.

colomom29

Add me...I had twins about a year ago and am trying to get the weight and extra skin a little tighter. My doctor gave me this website but I am also looking for friends to help me!

Takes2long

You can add me, too. I agree that sometimes all I need is just someone, ANYONE, to acknowledge what I'm doing, what I've done. Not for every single thing. There are times when the smallest "Great Job" would have changed so much. Silly, maybe. Needed, yes.

Quasita

I am on here every day and am totally willing to add anyone open to a mutually supportive fitness friendship.

lalaberryhill

Me too! I am always willing to encourage!! We all need support!

Add me

skydiamonds67

Feel free to add me! Every bit of encouragement and support helps with the journey! We can support each other!

CyndiUnder

It seems like since I've turned 41 my metabolism has bottomed out...what I used to do to lose weight no longer works...I have been trying to lose weight for a few weeks but it's not working...so here I am...I struggle with emotionally eating so I am looking for support and motivation and am more than willing to encourage others! We can be strong together.. Hope to be there for you during this journey to a healthy weight and lifestyle.

KimsWeightloss

I hear you too! :-)