need to vent

coliechacer

hi everyone so i am really stressed out just about my life and my weight and all around depressed! So when i am sad i eat a lot but besides that this morning my baby's fathers mother came over whom i get along with only for him. And she bought a shirt for me a XL times 2 and i left like **** when she gave it to me just proves how big i really look. So after she left and i put my son down for a nap i went in the bathroom for a long cry. I just had to tell someone it was really bothering me cause my boyfriend is still sleeping cause he works overnights. :-( Thanks everyone for letting me vent

coliechacer

hi everyone so i am really stressed out just about my life and my weight and all around depressed! So when i am sad i eat a lot but besides that this morning my baby's fathers mother came over whom i get along with only for him. And she bought a shirt for me a XL times 2 and i left like **** when she gave it to me just proves how big i really look. So after she left and i put my son down for a nap i went in the bathroom for a long cry. I just had to tell someone it was really bothering me cause my boyfriend is still sleeping cause he works overnights. :-( Thanks everyone for letting me vent

Phoenix_Rising

Girl, keep that shirt for motivation.
Will make a great nightgown, right?
Don't give up. Vent to us. You can lose this weight!! :flowerforyou:

thejarviclan

Oh man...you gotta show that wench how skinny you can BE! She just gave you a great motivation.

CaliSissta45

wow....do i know how u feel....had someone come up to me in a department store and say where are the big ladies clothes , and i said i dont work here, and she was like, "i know" grrrrrrr.......It is so easy to let folks get to you but alwarys remember.....If you let them get to you they are stronger than you....Stay strong......no matter your size love yourself, and take care of yourself,,,,,

Huyvee999

Oh man...you gotta show that wench how skinny you can BE! She just gave you a great motivation.

Im with thejarviclan.
MOTIVATION!!!!!

pipinana

OMG coliechaser - I SO feel your pain. Let me tell you a story about my mo-in-lay :grumble:

I got married on my 21st birthday... To make a long story short, I "met" my husband on-line in the spring of '04 while he was in Iraq. We emailed/phoned for 9 months. When he came home for his two week leave we got engaged, and were married two weeks after he came home for good.... After the wedding, we were opening presents - I came to one that had no card, no name and I had no idea who it was from. I opened it, and it was a 2XL Big Dogs shirt. I assumed it was for my hubby (he's 2XL). I ended up calling his mom to see if she knew who gave it to him.... She was like "oh, that was a b-day present to you from me..." I was mortified. Three years later I found out that she had given all the daughter-in-laws (I was the last of 4) a sexy nighty for their wedding presents. Needless to say I still haven't forgiven her.....

So.... I feel for you. I'm so sorry she did that! Be the better person though. She probably has to make someone feel bad to make herself feel good.... You just happened to be the target. Keep your chin up, and don't let her get you down! Continue with your journey, and show her what you are really made of!!!

:flowerforyou: Cyprianna

coliechacer

thanks everyone i will use it as motivation!!!!!!

Phoenix_Rising

I got married on my 21st birthday... To make a long story short, I "met" my husband on-line in the spring of '04 while he was in Iraq. We emailed/phoned for 9 months. When he came home for his two week leave we got engaged, and were married two weeks after he came home for good.... After the wedding, we were opening presents - I came to one that had no card, no name and I had no idea who it was from. I opened it, and it was a 2XL Big Dogs shirt. I assumed it was for my hubby (he's 2XL). I ended up calling his mom to see if she knew who gave it to him.... She was like "oh, that was a b-day present to you from me..." I was mortified. Three years later I found out that she had given all the daughter-in-laws (I was the last of 4) a sexy nighty for their wedding presents. Needless to say I still haven't forgiven her.....

I'd write what I think of that MIL but MFP automatically edits dirty words :grumble:

coliechacer

omg i am right there with you there are a lot of other things this lady has dont to me that in will never forgive her for also

pipinana

I got married on my 21st birthday... To make a long story short, I "met" my husband on-line in the spring of '04 while he was in Iraq. We emailed/phoned for 9 months. When he came home for his two week leave we got engaged, and were married two weeks after he came home for good.... After the wedding, we were opening presents - I came to one that had no card, no name and I had no idea who it was from. I opened it, and it was a 2XL Big Dogs shirt. I assumed it was for my hubby (he's 2XL). I ended up calling his mom to see if she knew who gave it to him.... She was like "oh, that was a b-day present to you from me..." I was mortified. Three years later I found out that she had given all the daughter-in-laws (I was the last of 4) a sexy nighty for their wedding presents. Needless to say I still haven't forgiven her.....

I'd write what I think of that MIL but MFP automatically edits dirty words :grumble:

LOL, I get the idea! I think the same thing...... heheheheheee

ttoombs

I feel for you girls, I have a wonderful mother-in-law. Its my husband that can be a pain in the behind. Even though he says he's kidding around I still don't like him refering to my weight. He will come up and give me a hug and jiggle my butt fat, man, do I hate that. Or he'll pinch my sides and say, "what's this, your fatback?" It just really ticks me off. I don't comment on the big ole bald spot on his head or his belly that he wears his jeans under, etc. I think he should have the same respect for me and not say stuff since I don't say anything to him. Thanks for letting me vent too. :ohwell:

czewwhat

You got him right! He must think you are special, and so do we. Don't let it get you down Micheal Phelps didn't win a gold medal the first time he took a dip in a pool, you just have a little work to do to win yours.
We are all behind you, don't give up, we are all in the same boat rowing for the same place, power in numbers! :flowerforyou:

Phoenix_Rising

I feel for you girls, I have a wonderful mother-in-law. Its my husband that can be a pain in the behind. Even though he says he's kidding around I still don't like him refering to my weight. He will come up and give me a hug and jiggle my butt fat, man, do I hate that. Or he'll pinch my sides and say, "what's this, your fatback?" It just really ticks me off. I don't comment on the big ole bald spot on his head or his belly that he wears his jeans under, etc. I think he should have the same respect for me and not say stuff since I don't say anything to him. Thanks for letting me vent too. :ohwell:

Girl - GIVE IT BACK TO HIM. Give him a quick, "Yeah, but I'm losing weight so that back fat will soon be gone, but you HOWEVER will never be able to regrow hair, Baldy!"

Or maybe a good, "I look a helluva lot better with a paunch than you do, Tubby!"

MEN! :grumble:

(But I agree.... it's best not to stoop to his level.)

hmo4

i'd stoop-baldng fat *kitten*. if you were smart you'd make him pay. no luvin' from the girl with a fat back. like as if the women would be all running after someone like him. pleaze.:explode: sorry, i'm in a bad mood today.:drinker:

memaw66

This thread must have been stuck in my head yesterday because last night I had a dream about my MIL. We get a long pretty well in real life but in my dream she was treating me like I wasn't going to be around for very long and I kept wondering why, since hubby and I have been married for 17 years!!! I couldn't figure out why she wouldn't talk to me or wouldn't try to get to know me. She would just hang out with the other daughter in law. I was so upset. Then I woke up and remembered this thread.

I'm telling you guys, I am sooooooo hooked on this site!!!!!


Memaw