Has anyone ever had this happen to them??????

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  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    I don't disagree with anyone that you should report the guy. Sometimes, that's best.

    The truth is, he likes you. Regardless of the fact that you're married, he is flirting with you.

    Everything he is doing is classic 3rd grade playground stuff, which can get him into trouble in the workplace.

    On the playground... it's classic "boy likes girl" stuff...

    It's the male (pea)**** spreading his feathers and wanting the hen to kaw at him.

    I am going to have to respectfully disagree. Unless you are in 3rd grade and can have your best friend pass his best friend a not ein Gym Class, this is a pretty good example of a bully. He may be exhibiting some kind or flirtation, but if he is, he has some definite problems.

    I don't ordinarily advocate going directly to HR, but, in this case, I don's see an alternative. You are in no position to approach him. He f*cked up. He has to deal with the consequences.
  • Maryaly40
    Maryaly40 Posts: 551 Member
    I'd like to thank you all for your input. From some of your answers, I feel like yea, it's the third grade stuff. I don't feel threatened or in fear. However, when the opportunity arises I will let this guy know that he has crossed the line with some of the things he says. The only reason I haven't spoken up til now is I wasn't sure how to read into it. If after I confront him, it doesn't stop, I will go to HR. Thanks again everyone :smile:
  • wellbert
    wellbert Posts: 3,924 Member
    He likes you, in a creepy, childish way. He may seem harmless, but...

    Go straight to hr, do not pass go, do not collect $200
    Hostile work environment + sexual harassment.
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