nursing moms

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Hi I'm 28, mother of 3 (3mnth,8 and 9), and I am looking for some support from other new moms out there. I am nursing; where I'm from that makes me stand out. Most of the moms that I know put their kids on formula and went back to smoking and living on diet coke.:sad: They all look great doing it. I choose to go my own way. I wanted what i felt was best for me and my baby, after 3 c/sec I look at myself and can't help but feel like I'll never be sexy again.

I love my DH, he is very supportive, but I would like to have people around who know where I've been. So if you know what its like to go to the doctor and have them say you are too fat hear your baby's hb at 12 wks. (my midwife found it just fine) If you know what its like to feel judged unsuccessful because you are heavy. If you have had people say "You are pretty ____ for your size" , then i welcome a friendship with you. Let's loose weight and take over the world!:drinker: