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1. Communication - being able to discuss things without yelling. Being able to compromise. Listening and understanding the other's POV all included there.
2. Companionship - Laughing together, private jokes, intimacy, etc. Hubby is my best friend and confidant.
3. Trust - I don't want to have to worry that he's with someone else if he's late coming home from work or if he has to go out of town for a meeting. But even beyond that. I trust that when I'm sick or in the middle of tax season he'll help pick up the slack. I trust that he'll contribute as much to our family as I do. I trust that our family is his #1 priority.
As for the 2nd question there is nothing. He doesn't "let me" do anything and I wouldn't want to do anything that would ever hurt him.0 -
I agree with everyone else but for me one of the most important ones next to Love and Trust is...
Compromise!0 -
I agree with everyone else but for me one of the most important ones next to Love and Trust is...
Compromise!
I did mate something you do on a daily basis, or i do lol0 -
One thing that's a certain relationship killer, and that's...
Contempt
Some scientist figured that out. True story.0 -
I had always thought it would be
Love (romance, intimacy, passion)
Communication
Trust
But after being with my husband for 7 years, who is the most non romantic person I know (Don't think he even knows the word passion), I have come to realize that success in a relationship means so much more and have a new top 3
Love - (commitment to each other, respect for the other person, allows the other person to be who they are)
Communication - (Compromise, limiting passive aggressiveness, ability to discuss the hard topics)
Trust - (that they will do what is right in the relationship (he is gone a lot on business), Trust that I can count on him when I really need it, trust that when I feel my worst, he will surprise me in ways that will make me love him more)
There are so much more to include money, values, etc.. but these are the three that pop in my head the most.
I think understanding your definitions for words are extremely important... especially for expecting happiness in long term relationships0 -
I had always thought it would be
Love (romance, intimacy, passion)
Communication
Trust
But after being with my husband for 7 years, who is the most non romantic person I know (Don't think he even knows the word passion), I have come to realize that success in a relationship means so much more and have a new top 3
Love - (commitment to each other, respect for the other person, allows the other person to be who they are)
Communication - (Compromise, limiting passive aggressiveness, ability to discuss the hard topics)
Trust - (that they will do what is right in the relationship (he is gone a lot on business), Trust that I can count on him when I really need it, trust that when I feel my worst, he will surprise me in ways that will make me love him more)
There are so much more to include money, values, etc.. but these are the three that pop in my head the most.
I think understanding your definitions for words are extremely important... especially for expecting happiness in long term relationships
this is good and very well put.
I think that a lot of people dont see the romantic side of a long term partner after been together for a long time or get to the stage where its taken for granted or not seen anymore( not saying this in your case at all hun)
I like to buy flowers and go to fancy places etc etc but i do see that for me romantic isn't always about that. I like to take the pressure of my fiance by trying to remember to do my bit in the house, make her little boy's dinners for school etc. I see that in its own right as been more helpful than been romantic, although i do like time on our own and to cook for her and send the odd bunch of flowers.
For me Charlotte doesn't need to buy anything for me to be romantic, she just has to look at me in a certain way or whisper she 'missed me today' That is the kind of thing i love and costs nothing0 -
Romance after years of being together is a lot different than romance of a new relationship. For a new relationship it means flowers, nice dinners out, long relaxing evenings in front of the fire, etc. After 22 years together romance is things like when I get up with DH every day and pack his lunch or set up coffee the night before on the weekend. It's the little things you do to make the other person smile. Oh sure the occasional flowers and dinner for 2 is nice but if it was every week it would cause more problems than it would fix because of the expense.0
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I had always thought it would be
Love (romance, intimacy, passion)
Communication
Trust
But after being with my husband for 7 years, who is the most non romantic person I know (Don't think he even knows the word passion), I have come to realize that success in a relationship means so much more and have a new top 3
Love - (commitment to each other, respect for the other person, allows the other person to be who they are)
Communication - (Compromise, limiting passive aggressiveness, ability to discuss the hard topics)
Trust - (that they will do what is right in the relationship (he is gone a lot on business), Trust that I can count on him when I really need it, trust that when I feel my worst, he will surprise me in ways that will make me love him more)
There are so much more to include money, values, etc.. but these are the three that pop in my head the most.
I think understanding your definitions for words are extremely important... especially for expecting happiness in long term relationships
this is good and very well put.
I think that a lot of people dont see the romantic side of a long term partner after been together for a long time or get to the stage where its taken for granted or not seen anymore( not saying this in your case at all hun)
I like to buy flowers and go to fancy places etc etc but i do see that for me romantic isn't always about that. I like to take the pressure of my fiance by trying to remember to do my bit in the house, make her little boy's dinners for school etc. I see that in its own right as been more helpful than been romantic, although i do like time on our own and to cook for her and send the odd bunch of flowers.
For me Charlotte doesn't need to buy anything for me to be romantic, she just has to look at me in a certain way or whisper she 'missed me today' That is the kind of thing i love and costs nothing
yea, we never really had any real passion in our relationship, and that is something I had a tough time letting go of (still always want it), but there is so much more that makes a relationship, you have to ask what would I be losing if I made that my deal breaker?0 -
Honesty and trust.
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Romance after years of being together is a lot different than romance of a new relationship. For a new relationship it means flowers, nice dinners out, long relaxing evenings in front of the fire, etc. After 22 years together romance is things like when I get up with DH every day and pack his lunch or set up coffee the night before on the weekend. It's the little things you do to make the other person smile. Oh sure the occasional flowers and dinner for 2 is nice but if it was every week it would cause more problems than it would fix because of the expense.
spot on0 -
I had always thought it would be
Love (romance, intimacy, passion)
Communication
Trust
But after being with my husband for 7 years, who is the most non romantic person I know (Don't think he even knows the word passion), I have come to realize that success in a relationship means so much more and have a new top 3
Love - (commitment to each other, respect for the other person, allows the other person to be who they are)
Communication - (Compromise, limiting passive aggressiveness, ability to discuss the hard topics)
Trust - (that they will do what is right in the relationship (he is gone a lot on business), Trust that I can count on him when I really need it, trust that when I feel my worst, he will surprise me in ways that will make me love him more)
There are so much more to include money, values, etc.. but these are the three that pop in my head the most.
I think understanding your definitions for words are extremely important... especially for expecting happiness in long term relationships
this is good and very well put.
I think that a lot of people dont see the romantic side of a long term partner after been together for a long time or get to the stage where its taken for granted or not seen anymore( not saying this in your case at all hun)
I like to buy flowers and go to fancy places etc etc but i do see that for me romantic isn't always about that. I like to take the pressure of my fiance by trying to remember to do my bit in the house, make her little boy's dinners for school etc. I see that in its own right as been more helpful than been romantic, although i do like time on our own and to cook for her and send the odd bunch of flowers.
For me Charlotte doesn't need to buy anything for me to be romantic, she just has to look at me in a certain way or whisper she 'missed me today' That is the kind of thing i love and costs nothing
yea, we never really had any real passion in our relationship, and that is something I had a tough time letting go of (still always want it), but there is so much more that makes a relationship, you have to ask what would I be losing if I made that my deal breaker?0 -
Trust / Honesty -- without it, what's the point?
Friendship / Love -- your mate is the most important person in your life. If they are not, what's the point?
Wisdom / Forgiveness -- the wisdom to realize that no indiviual incident is more important than your relationship as a whole. If you forgive and move forward, what's the point?0 -
trust
respect
commuinication/ freindship0 -
- Love/Passion/Intimacy (They all go together)
- Respect/Loyalty/Trust
- Communication
This, plus wisdom!0 -
Passion
Friendship
Understanding.0 -
1. Innate "connection" aka, that deep communication and bond that almost seems cosmic
2. Willingness to please from both parties
3. Emotional, physical, and intimate trust0 -
Communication
Trust
Love/Respect equally (because they go hand in hand)
I don't think my husband (or simply having a husband) prevents me from doing anything I might like to do.0 -
~ Compassion, desire, sex
~ Open communication, understanding, nonjudgmental
~ Happpiness, freedom, pleasure
Ok ok ... So that was nine ... but then I don't have to go without !0 -
Honesty
Love
Respect
Sex
Communication
Trust and Freedom
I think the lack of one of these will break a relationship (well...sex could be an exception if you arent married and want to wait)0 -
1. Trust
2. Teamwork
3. Fun
break:
1. Lying
2. Power struggles
3. no communication0
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