Men only please.. I need your help

momof8munchkins

My 13th anniversary is next week and I really could use ideas from guys..what do men find romantic.. or do men even care about romance at all?? Yes, I have been married to the same man for 13 years and still don't know the answer to these questions and that's not for lack of trying on my part .. how you would want to celebrate your anniversary with your wife???

UponThisRock

13 years?

Carl01

Holding hands,quiet walks or evenings on the couch.
Try taking him to his favorite restaurant and then just a relaxing evening after.

bikermike5094

A harley ride through the hills. Stop for a nice dinner. Then home for ice cream on the deck. Soak in the hot tub and see where that takes us from there.

momof8munchkins

yes it's 13 years

WarriorMom2012

I'm not a man but I can tell you...a good meal and some body part specific loving and he'll be a happy man...

TheRoadDog

My 13th anniversary is next week and I really could use ideas from guys..what do men find romantic.. or do men even care about romance at all?? Yes, I have been married to the same man for 13 years and still don't know the answer to these questions and that's not for lack of trying on my part .. how you would want to celebrate your anniversary with your wife???

Celebrating our 20th this year. Just booked flights and room in Vegas for 7 days.

ls_66

WarriorMom got it right ... LOL if he is carnivore then nice steak dinner at his favourite place and then what WarriorMom said
by the way congrats on the anniversary I think we are on our 20 something LOL after 15 you stop counting or at least we did

mrmarius

BJ and beer usually does the trick or whatever type of alcoholic beverage of choice

you could even spice it up and add in a strip tease before the BJ

and ofcourse the dinner first

and btw Total congrats on the 13 yrs :flowerforyou:

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^^^ Bingo

CakeFit21

Um, you have 8 kids. Or did I read that wrong? I'd say you've got the romance thing nailed down, so to speak.

momof8munchkins

Thanks for all the good wishes and advice. :flowerforyou: I was figuring a great meal and then a great time in the bedroom..:blushing: but didn't know if men wanted more than that..I wish we could go away for a week.. but that is not possible right now with kiddies at home and no sitter.. maybe on our 20th Anniversary lol

angryguy77

I'm not a man but I can tell you...a good meal and some body part specific loving and he'll be a happy man...

100% correct. We're simple, trust me

momof8munchkins

Um, you have 8 kids. Or did I read that wrong? I'd say you've got the romance thing nailed down, so to speak.

you read that right. hee hee..

MrsCon40

13 years and 8 kids?

Child-free house, steak dinner, and rarely (or never) performed sexual favors.

Resist the urge to make men more complicated than they really are. :flowerforyou:

TheRoadDog

Thanks for all the good wishes and advice. :flowerforyou: I was figuring a great meal and then a great time in the bedroom..:blushing: but didn't know if men wanted more than that..I wish we could go away for a week.. but that is not possible right now with kiddies at home and no sitter.. maybe on our 20th Anniversary lol

If you can't afford to get away for a week. How about getting a sitter for one n ight. Book a room. Make dinner reservations. Buy some lingerie.

grinch031

I like when my wife does things that she hates but knows I like. For instance by her offering to take me to a chinese food restaurant, shows she really cares about me. Also gotta end the night right.

CakeFit21

13 years and 8 kids?

Child-free house, steak dinner, and rarely (or never) performed sexual favors.

Resist the urge to make men more complicated than they really are. :flowerforyou:

I'd say you tied this thread up with a nice little bow!

Buca412

Go out for a nice dinner and drinks somewhere and dress up extra nice/sexy for him. He'll walk tall and parade you around feeling like he's the luckiest man in the world. And as previously suggested, when you get home give him some extra loving/attention and he's putty in your hands.

bikermike5094

Thanks for all the good wishes and advice. :flowerforyou: I was figuring a great meal and then a great time in the bedroom..:blushing: but didn't know if men wanted more than that..I wish we could go away for a week.. but that is not possible right now with kiddies at home and no sitter.. maybe on our 20th Anniversary lol

You could bring me a sammich afterwards, rub my feet and wash the bedding...would that be pushing it? Cause I can do without the foot rub...

mrmanmeat

You have 8 kids?

MikeSEA

Romance is sort of individual. One could also ask whether or not you really want to be romantic.

For example, you could arrange for a kick butt time with paint ball (if you enjoy it), and he might think that's an awesome anniversary. You could of course follow it up with a shower and...stuff, etc.

cms6300

When we're out I love it when my wife drops subtle hints about how freaky it's going to get when we get home. Something like, "What I'm going to let you do to me is frowned upon throughout the bible belt." Check please.

pwillini84

Having 29 years under my belt (which is slowly becoming on top of my belt) I can tell you that I appreciate any and all attention that is not diverted, during the moment, but some "minor" distraction.

Get a sitter and plan a nice dinner out at a small, independently owned mom & pop restaurant, then head to the rental hot tubs!

lookslikeyoda

One word:


*kitten*



No offence but it works

MikeSEA

When we're out I love it when my wife drops subtle hints about how freaky it's going to get when we get home. Something like, "What I'm going to let you do to me is frowned upon throughout the bible belt." Check please.

doesn't really narrow things down much, though, does it?

loseweightjames

My 13th anniversary is next week and I really could use ideas from guys..what do men find romantic.. or do men even care about romance at all?? Yes, I have been married to the same man for 13 years and still don't know the answer to these questions and that's not for lack of trying on my part .. how you would want to celebrate your anniversary with your wife???

Honestly? I'd want a stripper but maybe that's just me

EDIT: I've been married 2 years and we go to the strip clubs together and I watch the girls dance on her (she's bi)

janarmac

Ingredients to a happy anniversary right there!!
(works for Valentine's Day too...at least, that's my plan :blushing: )

grapenutSF

13 years and 8 kids?

Child-free house, steak dinner, and rarely (or never) performed sexual favors.

Resist the urge to make men more complicated than they really are. :flowerforyou:

That goes for people in general, I'd say.

(btw, I'm sure this has occurred to you, but why not just ask the husband directly? Could be a fun conversation.)

determinedbutlazy

When we're out I love it when my wife drops subtle hints about how freaky it's going to get when we get home. Something like, "What I'm going to let you do to me is frowned upon throughout the bible belt." Check please.

I'm going to do this, one day!
He already gets dirty text messages quite a lot, I need to work up the guts to chat some filth over the dinner table XD