all the single ladies (and guys).....

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  • jillybean0123
    jillybean0123 Posts: 238 Member
    Work. Then chiropractor followed by a nap then off to the other job for more work. I'm booked solid.
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    This is my v-day fantasy...

    Go out, looking hot as hell, get all my drinks bought then pick one hot guy, the quiet sorta shy one, and bring him home and have my way with him.. all.night.long. Happy V-day to me.

    But I'm too chicken poop. I'll probably hang out with friends and get drunk. Ha!
  • Dayna154
    Dayna154 Posts: 910 Member
    Dont be so down on being single. Make the most of your own life and be happy with yourself.
    Make it a pamper me day or just ignore it. I have done that for years even when I was in a relationship.. My ex had NO romantic bones in his body whatsoever!!
    Its up to you to love yourself.. If you dont who else would?? So learn to love yourself..
  • divamsm
    divamsm Posts: 79 Member
    It's really just another day whether you have someone special or not. If you are with your someone special, you should love each other every day, and show your love for each other every day, not just one day a year. Don't sweat it. It's also a very fattening day...so we're better off without it. :drinker:
  • DeeJayTJ
    DeeJayTJ Posts: 355 Member
    ive been single for like... 7 years... singles awareness day is nothing new for me haha

    however, this time ive got a nice lady friend im getting to know but i told her since we're just gettign to know each other lets not actually get each other anything for valentines day unless we tell each other first.

    however we are getting together to go out for a nice dinner and spend time together.
  • divamsm
    divamsm Posts: 79 Member
    Dont be so down on being single. Make the most of your own life and be happy with yourself.
    Make it a pamper me day or just ignore it. I have done that for years even when I was in a relationship.. My ex had NO romantic bones in his body whatsoever!!
    Its up to you to love yourself.. If you dont who else would?? So learn to love yourself..

    Amen to dat!
  • Bikini27
    Bikini27 Posts: 1,290 Member
    Meh, when I was with my ex (5 years) it never was a production so I just ignore it now, honestly. Just another day of the week to dodge the chocolates!
    :flowerforyou:
  • raiderrodney
    raiderrodney Posts: 617 Member
    Hate Vday....I don't know what I'll do, but I do get a little down :(
  • witheredorchid
    witheredorchid Posts: 164 Member
    Probably hang out with my single friends. It's my first Valentine's day alone in like 10 years so I'm kind of new at this. Not live I've ever really done anything speical for the day anyways.
  • Happinessgrl
    Happinessgrl Posts: 92 Member
    Love doesn't have to be about loving someone else or someone else love you, that is easy. The true challenge is loving yourself. I am single and there are lots of people in my life that love me so Valentine's Day will be spent showing me how much I love me, the person that I am, and the person that I am becoming. I have set my 100 lb weight loss goal for that day. I am going to have myself an amazing dinner, and follow it up with an awesome massage at the spa. I have worked so hard on this journey and I love me more than anyone else could possible love me in this world. Time to celebrate that. I might even surprise myself with my own Valentine's Day card! lol
  • AllanMisner
    AllanMisner Posts: 4,140 Member
    I'll name one of the elliptical machines at the gym I find and then I'll use her like a street tramp. ;-)
  • morganhccstudent724
    morganhccstudent724 Posts: 1,261 Member
    First Valentine's Day alone in 10+ years...


    maybe gettting laid :devil:
  • Begood03
    Begood03 Posts: 1,259 Member
    I will be hitting the gym after work.
  • cbear017
    cbear017 Posts: 345 Member
    it's lifting day at the gym so that's where I'll be. Maybe I'll woo myself later with a shower, chocolates and....homework.
  • CalJur
    CalJur Posts: 627 Member
    Simply another day created by St. Hallmark to stuff the offering of the Church of Hallmark. Don't believe the hype. Very low key day if at all around my home. Honestly you should treat your partner special every day of the year w/o feeling pressured to buy seriously overpriced flowers to impress her colleagues at work and/or fattening candy!
  • bellavie23
    bellavie23 Posts: 83 Member
    Wellllll,, Im not single, divorcing lol, so it is going down as a very high point in my valentine's book LOL, however I will be spending it with my 3 kiddos as well as possible something else if I get a good idea off of this thread :), but yeah, this one is going down being marked as a depressing one, I am not looking forward to dating again..guys have slowly gotten less and less mature it seems, gonna be rockin single mama status for a while ;) so might as well jot down some of these ideas for the next ones :drinker:
  • Ignore it as I do every year! I probably still would if I was in a relationship too!

    I don't think it's right that people need a particular day to tell others that they love them! They should tell them everyday!

    hear hear!

    it's just commercialized propaganda bull...it keeps card shops, florists, and candy stores in business...me thinks.

    excuse my pessimism
  • AntShanny
    AntShanny Posts: 359 Member
    I like the day after when all the chocolate goes on sale! :love:



    Oops, did I really say that on here?!?
  • MenaMena
    MenaMena Posts: 232 Member
    Get wasted and perform voodoo on all your ex's?

    Now that's funny.
  • silvergurl518
    silvergurl518 Posts: 4,123 Member
    Too commercialised for me, whether or not I'm single at the time. Most of my coupled up friends only seem happy on that one day anyway and the rest of the time they're complaining that I have it easy, being single and free to do what I please, when I please :) I keep reminding myself of that when I'm out exercising while everyone else is canoodling on the sofa lol

    :laugh: canoodling :laugh: sorry been married a looooong time and that word really makes me laugh :happy: oh to be single and do what you want, when you want without having to consider another, bed to yourself heaven, go out when you want, come home when you want :drinker: :laugh:

    the grass is always greener isn't it :tongue:

    ^makes me value my singledom!!! but heck, i've been single for the better part of my adult life save a few short-lived relationships. i'm excited for my future (unknowns/knowns/etc.) but can't wait to meet my ONE.
  • auticus
    auticus Posts: 1,051 Member
    Why is it the worst day ever? It's just a day. Who cares?

    I will treat it like I would any day. That day happens to be a gym day. I'll go to work. I will come home. I will go to the gym. I'll have a protein shake for dinner. I'll work on some music I am writing. To appease the valentines gods I'll get some nice lotion... ;) heh
  • _Bob_
    _Bob_ Posts: 1,487 Member
    Last year was the worst after being married for 11 years to a hottie. Hopefully this year the Scotch doesn't call the shots, probably have a romantic dinner with the most beautiful 3 year old daughter a dad could ever ask for :)
  • lhanks89
    lhanks89 Posts: 90 Member
    Singles Awareness Day?

    I'm gonna make a whole bunch of cookies/candies and give them to my friends to make them FAT! (ha ha just kidding... about the fat part).

    It'll be just another diet/exercise day. Maybe I'll actually let myself eat one of the cookies I make.

    But, I'm definitely gonna pick up some of those little conversation hearts when they go on sale on the 15th :D
  • Platnex
    Platnex Posts: 110 Member
    My plan is to work out till I can not move for that day, I see it as motivation
  • bellavie23
    bellavie23 Posts: 83 Member
    I like the day after when all the chocolate goes on sale! :love:



    Oops, did I really say that on here?!?

    You read my mind..that's all I care about lol Chocolates good for the heart right?
  • ashnm88
    ashnm88 Posts: 748
    I'm dating someone, and still hate valentine's...
  • AlSalzman
    AlSalzman Posts: 296 Member
    Celebratory *kitten*.
  • NYCDutchess
    NYCDutchess Posts: 622 Member
    My husband and I do not celebrate Vday.
  • epj78
    epj78 Posts: 643 Member
    Just another day. I ignore it. I neither loath it nor like it.

    Although now that you mention voodoo........
  • NYCDutchess
    NYCDutchess Posts: 622 Member
    Last year was the worst after being married for 11 years to a hottie. Hopefully this year the Scotch doesn't call the shots, probably have a romantic dinner with the most beautiful 3 year old daughter a dad could ever ask for :)

    I looooove this!!!
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