WOMEN - how do HOT guys behave?

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  • HauteP1nk
    HauteP1nk Posts: 2,139 Member
    Well, I guess that would depend on what you mean by 'hot' guy.

    For me a hot guy is a guy that is not only good looking but kind, funny, and smart! A hot guy is a guy that is more than just looks, but style and a good attitude!

    An ugly guy is a guy that has a bad personality, no matter what he looks like. You could have great looks but if you are ugly on the inside it will make you look ugly on the outside. These kinds of guys that think they are hot, or act like they are hot...are not hot...
  • Loserbabe2012
    Loserbabe2012 Posts: 58
    I forgot that... never go for the obvious... if that makes sense. I dated a guy who i obviously connected with...we did from the very day we met. He treated me like **** but with me and my bf now its taken a little time.... and hes been the best ever
  • messyinthekitchen
    messyinthekitchen Posts: 662 Member
    I met one guy. I would have sworn then, he was the most beautiful person I had ever seen. Then he opened his mouth. He was so cocky, and arrogant. He swore every girl wanted him. His personality made him ugly. He asked me if I would like the privilege to go on a date with him. I told him to get a grip. Apparently a lot of other girls did too since hes different now.
  • tabinmaine
    tabinmaine Posts: 965 Member
    Looks are not what makes a man "HOT"

    There is nothing hotter than a man who is really smart, has a great job, has some intuition or common sense, treats women with respect, loves kids and holds doors open for elderly women..... that is as hot as hot can be !

    As I get older I am just beginning to realize what is "HOT"

    I love men my age, the ones that are kind and charming, have a wonderful smile and really care about the effect they have on other people's lives. :bigsmile:

    And while I could never be a cougar, I still love watching the younger "hot studs" work out at my gym, they entertain me as I run on the treadmill, however...... they could never entertain me mentally.... you have to be over 35 to do that...or at least lived a little...
  • EmpressOfJudgment
    EmpressOfJudgment Posts: 1,162 Member
    My experience is that only 1 out of 4 "hot" guys is really good in the sack. That is if the definition of "hot" is extremely good looking. However, in my opinion, appearance is only a small part of what makes someone "hot."
  • GigiBee824
    GigiBee824 Posts: 32 Member
    I know hot guys who are shallow and superficial but beneath that they are good guys and I consider them friends. I am dating a hot guy who knows how to use his adorableness to every advantage but is considerate, smart, funny, and pretty dang awesome. That being said, I've also known a few doozies who make me cringe. They are still physically "hot" but they never get a second look cus no amount of muscles or hair gel can disguise an ugly personality.
  • j4nash
    j4nash Posts: 1,719 Member
    Being attractive is interesting... the hot guy thing goes the same with hot women. I've met beautiful women that everything going for them and great personalities.. then I've met hot women that are sticks in the mud and couldn't even hold a converstaion with Siri. Looks aren't everything.. especially a few years down the road when the "newness" has worn off.. then it comes down to personality, being genuine, stable, caring and responsbie.. and fun of course. Of course physical attraction is important but it is not a catch all.
  • nilleah
    nilleah Posts: 177
    There is no single answer for this. You can't just say they are all this or all that. People are individuals and they act how they are going to act. *Hot* or not.
  • nilleah
    nilleah Posts: 177
    When I get hot I sweat. It can be from weight lifting or doing cardio. Anyway I'm sure all guys sweat when they're hot so I'm gonna say that's how their bodies behave.

    and I LOVE this *grin*
  • Faintgreeneyes
    Faintgreeneyes Posts: 729 Member
    The term "hot" is subjective to the person that is judging. In any case it really depends on the guy. I have met many attractive looking men who were smart, genuine, caring people, and what was on the inside made the outside appearance even better. I have also met some who think that being hot gives them a pass to being stupid, insensitive A**holes and because of what is on the inside, their outside package doesn't look so hot.

    Bottom line really- I don't care what someone looks like on the outside (yes of course there has to be some physical attraction) its how they carry themselves, how they treat others, and what they are like on the inside that really matters.

    Looks fade, personality traits don't.
  • melrose09
    melrose09 Posts: 271
    My husband is the hottest guy I know and he is also the most amazing guy I know, so I'm a little biased :)
  • YassSpartan
    YassSpartan Posts: 1,195 Member
    HOT guys are douche bags, or really REALLY Stupid.

    For the most part I agree, and it goes both ways I have to say. It seems the hotter and individual gets, the less neurons they have. I wonder if there is any scientific study that once you pass certain body fat percentage and game X amount of muscle weight, the brain stops working properly or something :huh:
  • Bethee101
    Bethee101 Posts: 99 Member
    I had a contractor a few months ago that did our remodel.. he was the hottest thing I have seen in awhile!! He was really nice and sweet, like he didn't realize how super hot he was or he didn't show it!! That made him more hot!!
  • Jain
    Jain Posts: 861 Member
    The hottest guy I've ever met, an old friend of my hubby, is a total sweety who had no idea just how hot he is, or the effect he has on women. And this guy is model/actor goodlooking. He married a lovely, very 'ordinary' girl, they had 3 kids & almost 20 years on are still very much in love. And he's still smokin'.
  • whitetiger011680
    whitetiger011680 Posts: 218 Member
    Looks aren't everything.. especially a few years down the road when the "newness" has worn off.. then it comes down to personality, being genuine, stable, caring and responsbie.. and fun of course. Of course physical attraction is important but it is not a catch all.

    exactly
  • tmarie2715
    tmarie2715 Posts: 1,111 Member
    HOT guys are douche bags, or really REALLY Stupid.

    Edit: For those getting their panties in a bunch over this post, I'm kidding. :flowerforyou: Calm down, and thanks for playing :drinker:

    Sarcasm via text from a stranger is hard to detect. Thanks for spelling that out. ;)

    Just like all humans, you find nice, smart hot guys and some douchey, cocky, @$sholes. Takes all kinds, or so I am told.
  • slayerdan
    slayerdan Posts: 193
    Some of the questions here drop the IQ points of all involved by 50%.....
  • BoxingCoachMo
    BoxingCoachMo Posts: 420
    HOT guys are douche bags, or really REALLY Stupid.

    Edit: For those getting their panties in a bunch over this post, I'm kidding. :flowerforyou: Calm down, and thanks for playing :drinker:

    I have noticed on some threads how personally people take things. ****ing chill out people.
  • MissyJessy
    MissyJessy Posts: 1,279 Member
    My hot guy is not arrogant or stuck up at all... sounds like you guys have some issues with meeting the wrong type of people...
  • MissyJessy
    MissyJessy Posts: 1,279 Member
    DOUCHE BAGS!!! lol

    well.. thanks for jumping into the conversation.... without reading previous posts*sarcasm* :drinker:
  • seekingthepatienceofjob
    seekingthepatienceofjob Posts: 288 Member
    How do (MOST) hot guys behave?

    They think they are better than everyone.
    Some think they are "guidos"
    Rude
    Stuck up
    Douchbags
    Ignorant
    Airheads
    They brag about everything they do with a girl
  • teagin2002
    teagin2002 Posts: 1,900 Member
    Wow, I wonder who you guys count as hot?? It sounds like they are all uneducated idiots who don't know how to treat women.

    You should probably take a look in to that, cause most of the guys I met whom were very hot were very sweet and wonderful too and nothing like you guys describe.
  • sjackson902
    sjackson902 Posts: 154 Member
    Well, I don't think someone's actually hot unless they have a brain to back up their looks - if they don't, I lose interest REALLY fast. The ones, in my opinion, who are the hottest are the ones who have something much more important to think about than their looks, like the Ph.D he's studying for, or this huge thing at work that's incredibly demanding, or a current political situation or a book he's in the middle of. Truly attractive hot guys have something better to offer you than just their looks. If they're out on a date with a pretty and smart girl, the smart, good ones will be able to offer her something better to be interested in than their pretty eyes: they know they have to keep you interested in the long term.

    The same thing goes for girls. I've never thought that truly hot girls come off as stupid, not ever.

    So true! Looks may get you in the door, but they won't keep you there.
  • jaguar101570
    jaguar101570 Posts: 82
    I don't want to pis$ anyone off, I know my days if I had any , of being hot are long gone as I am 41 yrs old with a kid! (Not what hot women want ....a single dad at age 41) Anyways I have had success getting an attractive woman to go out with me in my younger days but I have found that I no longer want arm candy. My current fiance ( I am divorced-from a hottie , by the way) has a bit of a weight problem and I could care less because she is the most wonderful and loving woman in the world and I wouldn't trade her for any "hottie". Those of you ladies that are extremely attractive I don't want to stereotype you but I am happy with what I have. It is not always greener on the other side.
  • teagin2002
    teagin2002 Posts: 1,900 Member
    I don't want to pis$ anyone off, I know my days if I had any , of being hot are long gone as I am 41 yrs old with a kid! (Not what hot women want ....a single dad at age 41) Anyways I have had success getting an attractive woman to go out with me in my younger days but I have found that I no longer want arm candy. My current fiance ( I am divorced-from a hottie , by the way) has a bit of a weight problem and I could care less because she is the most wonderful and loving woman in the world and I wouldn't trade her for any "hottie". Those of you ladies that are extremely attractive I don't want to stereotype you but I am happy with what I have. It is not always greener on the other side.

    I really liked your post, and I think it came from a place of love. U are so in to fiance it seems you can not contain yourself, I think that is so sweet!!
    I wish you the a stable life with peace, joy and happiness with your new love in your future :flowerforyou:
  • kristielea85
    kristielea85 Posts: 7
    Well,
    Hot guys to me are a hit or miss, some whom grow up thinking that they are the hottest people around and feel that they have this right to have these ridiculous expectations of woman, not to mention that the women who dont meet these expectations are treated like dirt. These men deserve nobody until they grab a brain and realize that life is not all about a number on a scale or a certain bra size.
    Then there are those "hot men" that have a firm grip on reality and choose to look past all impurities and realize that everyone is beautiful in there own way. These men are the real keepers, the ones that give you the courage to look better for you, the ones who look down on nobody. There aren't many left, but they are out their :)

    Eff the a**holes who have these expectations, because everyone on this website is determined to bring those numbers down on the scale and gain the confidence it takes to look at those so called "hot guys" (the no brainer ones lol) and turn your head away and think "hot, I dont think so"
  • kaylammurphy
    kaylammurphy Posts: 63
    The biggest issue that I take with most prototypically, physically hot is that they know they are hot and therefore have preconceived notions instigated by the cultural emphasis put on having a hot body about "status" within society.

    That being said, I feel, as has been stated; Hotness is in the personality. If you are a jerk there is nothing in the universe that can make you attractive. If you are a good person, you are probably way hotter than you think!

    is that your hand ?!?!?!??!?!

    Hahaha Yes! I was working on kipping pull-ups a couple days ago and got a nice rip! First I was like this :happy: then, when I showered I was like this :sad: and now I am like this :bigsmile:
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    I don't want to pis$ anyone off, I know my days if I had any , of being hot are long gone as I am 41 yrs old with a kid! (Not what hot women want ....a single dad at age 41) Anyways I have had success getting an attractive woman to go out with me in my younger days but I have found that I no longer want arm candy. My current fiance ( I am divorced-from a hottie , by the way) has a bit of a weight problem and I could care less because she is the most wonderful and loving woman in the world and I wouldn't trade her for any "hottie". Those of you ladies that are extremely attractive I don't want to stereotype you but I am happy with what I have. It is not always greener on the other side.

    I am a single guy and let me tell ya one thing I as a non parent have seen.
    A loving and good dad is extremely hot in the eyes of a lady.
    Don`t sell yourself short and good luck in your future.:drinker:
  • kaylammurphy
    kaylammurphy Posts: 63
    I don't want to pis$ anyone off, I know my days if I had any , of being hot are long gone as I am 41 yrs old with a kid! (Not what hot women want ....a single dad at age 41) Anyways I have had success getting an attractive woman to go out with me in my younger days but I have found that I no longer want arm candy. My current fiance ( I am divorced-from a hottie , by the way) has a bit of a weight problem and I could care less because she is the most wonderful and loving woman in the world and I wouldn't trade her for any "hottie". Those of you ladies that are extremely attractive I don't want to stereotype you but I am happy with what I have. It is not always greener on the other side.

    I am a single guy and let me tell ya one thing I as a non parent have seen.
    A loving and good dad is extremely hot in the eyes of a lady.
    Don`t sell yourself short and good luck in your future.:drinker:

    Second that!

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