Creepy guys at the gym
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I don't attempt to talk to women at the gym anymore. The last time I did I was told to f**k off. You're all mean =P0
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Men will be men. If hes a real nasty creeper I have no problem putting him in his place, but I'm kind of a ***** like that. I don't let people make me uncomfortable, but it is pretty hard to make me uncomfortable.0
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There is a guy that comes into my work that also goes to my gym. He apparently told our dock guys he could stare at me all day long. I literally see him everyday at the gym and he always makes a point to say hi to me or when doing cardio get a machine next to me... creee--eeepppyy! Luckily my boyfriend and I go to the gym at the same time
He is clueless tho hehe.
Yup... in today's world... actually being interested in someone or attracted to them is creee--eeepppyy.... IF... you are not interested in them... if it's on your terms... it's sooooooo sweet, cute, or any other number of words that applies. I'm not delusional, though. This is the world we live in... and we must deal accordingly.
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Intuition is a powerful thing - if someone is making you that uncomfortable, feel free to tell someone about it.
One night there was a fellow hanging around one part of the fitness club where a man typically doesn't stand still - between the ladies locker room door and the child center. He was there when I went in to change, and still there when I came out... and still there several minutes later. He didn't appear to be waiting for a family member to come out - he looked ... I dunno, he just gave off a weird vibe.
It's good to be a little wary.0 -
^ how did guys cross the line?
and its soooooooo true that if it was a hot guy, girls would be flattered.... if it was an ugly guy, you would treat him as if he were a Dateline episode!
I have to agree with you on this because I was thinking the same thing. I'm sure if it was some hot guy it would feel differently.
It would not. Staring at my *kitten* while I'm working out is creepy regardless of how hot that person may be.
I disagree. If some smokin hot guy is checking you out, and it bothers you, it ain't because your creeped out, it's because you have image issues and it makes you uncomfortable. Sorry. I've had the feeling.
I know it's the gym and it's not exactly the time and place for it, buts it still always secretly flattering.
Would you rather no guys check you out? Cause I know a couple of women who don't get checked out and they notice. I wouldn't want to feel like them.
This whole mindset bothers me to no end. Why is it so wrong to be creeped out by UNSOLICITED attention? I go to the gym to work out. I don't wear anything provocative, and even if I did I am still not "asking for it". Why am I not allowed to be creeped out by someone's lack of self control and inability to keep his glances to himself? Why is it ok to just say "He's a man, he can't help it?". And why should I be flattered?
I deal with this situation at my gym every day and it makes me so uncomfortable. He works there. He is ALWAYS wherever I am in the gym. Whether it be the pool, the weights, or the cardio area. The guy is not bad looking, but it still creeps me out and I am not interested. His looks do not matter. It is the manner in which he conducts himself that makes him creepy.
And yes, I would rather not be checked out than made uncomfortable. I do not need male attention that badly.0 -
If the guy was a creep thats one thing and its UNACCEPTABLE ! HOWEVER!!!!! Many women dress up in skimpy shorts or skirts and flaunt their *kitten* and boobs all over. This is ESPECIALLY true here in Miami ( South Beach) Then they have the audacity to ***** about being checked out. This is not cool and it happens all the time. I dont know you and I am not saying this is what you did, but keep in mind we're only human and if you dress provocatively then expect to be noticed by guys who like it.
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I am so glad I am not female.
I'd calmly walk over, grab his head and crush his face into my boobs.
IS THIS WHAT YOU WANT!???
What a bad girl I would be!
Um.. I did that once... or twice
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So I today I made my first move into the free weights area, just to do deadlifts. I come out of there and am followed by this guy into the multi use area. He stands there and watches me (while he's exercising). He rushes over to help me when I put back 5 kg weights (lol really? they're not that heavy) and I see him when he's grabbing new weights checking out my *kitten*. You know one of those unmistakable 'checking you out' looks.
I just ignored him though out. What would you have done?
Depends.
Are you a guy or a girl?0 -
Flattery. All flattery - and I appreciate it. I'm glad someone out there appreciates my fat *kitten* when I'm too insecure to appreciate myself. Thank you creepy gym guys!!0
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theres always creepys at the gym when i go there! i just cannot avoid them :laugh: i think they can read my mind and know when im comeing to the gym!
when im on the elliptical, i have men on machines that are behind the ellipticals and i swear they stare at my *kitten* whilst there lifting weights. also when im on the treadmill. i like to pick up my speed a litttle.. and my sports bra isnt really that supportitive (i have to wear normal bra underneath) and the men are there stareing at me! take a picture it will last longer! and you can play with yourself whilst looking at it! :mad:0 -
^ how did guys cross the line?
and its soooooooo true that if it was a hot guy, girls would be flattered.... if it was an ugly guy, you would treat him as if he were a Dateline episode!
I have to agree with you on this because I was thinking the same thing. I'm sure if it was some hot guy it would feel differently.
It would not. Staring at my *kitten* while I'm working out is creepy regardless of how hot that person may be.
I disagree. If some smokin hot guy is checking you out, and it bothers you, it ain't because your creeped out, it's because you have image issues and it makes you uncomfortable. Sorry. I've had the feeling.
I know it's the gym and it's not exactly the time and place for it, buts it still always secretly flattering.
Would you rather no guys check you out? Cause I know a couple of women who don't get checked out and they notice. I wouldn't want to feel like them.
This whole mindset bothers me to no end. Why is it so wrong to be creeped out by UNSOLICITED attention? I go to the gym to work out. I don't wear anything provocative, and even if I did I am still not "asking for it". Why am I not allowed to be creeped out by someone's lack of self control and inability to keep his glances to himself? Why is it ok to just say "He's a man, he can't help it?". And why should I be flattered?
I deal with this situation at my gym every day and it makes me so uncomfortable. He works there. He is ALWAYS wherever I am in the gym. Whether it be the pool, the weights, or the cardio area. The guy is not bad looking, but it still creeps me out and I am not interested. His looks do not matter. It is the manner in which he conducts himself that makes him creepy.
And yes, I would rather not be checked out than made uncomfortable. I do not need male attention that badly.
Preach sister-friend. I feel exactly the same as you. Reading threads like these always drive me up a wall with the pages of "boys will be boys" apologists and the "you must have been asking for it by being a woman" people.0 -
There is a guy that comes into my work that also goes to my gym. He apparently told our dock guys he could stare at me all day long. I literally see him everyday at the gym and he always makes a point to say hi to me or when doing cardio get a machine next to me... creee--eeepppyy! Luckily my boyfriend and I go to the gym at the same time He is clueless tho hehe.
Yup... in today's world... actually being interested in someone or attracted to them is creee--eeepppyy.... IF... you are not interested in them... if it's on your terms... it's sooooooo sweet, cute, or any other number of words that applies. I'm not delusional, though. This is the world we live in... and we must deal accordingly.
whoa sir, your bitterness is showing0 -
I have a shirt that reads: This is my you're not getting lucky shirt.
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To me, that "Just being a guy" is not a valid excuse for blatantly being a creep.
Exactly.
I understand "can't help but NOTICE" because we all notice attractive people, but a grown man should have enough self control to learn how not to creepily STARE. It's like the guys who tell me they can't help but drop f-bombs around me. Oh, really? Funny how you control yourself around your mother... but "can't help it" around me? Lame excuse.
And I understand some women wear way-too-skimpy stuff at the gym, but I also resent the fact that to be considered "not asking for it" most people (guys) think we have to relegate ourselves to sweats and a t shirt instead of the form fitting performance gear which is a) more comfortable and b) much easier to move in.0 -
This thread & others like it makes me so glad that
a) I'm in the UK & people tend to be a little more discrete about eyeballing &
b) I go to a small local gym where just about everyone knows each other.
No creeps there, we've more than our fare share of excentrics but thats another story.:laugh:0 -
Today for the first time I encountered this... older guy... was staring and had a grin - I ignored him but it was very bothersome -- there is a reason I don't like going when the big crowed is there... grrrr0
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